I'm in a sexless relationship AMA

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I'm sure I'm not the only one

I'm sure you're not too.

If you're both content, don't worry about it.

Are you happy? Who’s decision is it to have a sexless marriage?

Has it always been this was or was a it a decision you reached after some time together?

Do you have children?

How did you get to this point - as in did that side of your relationship die out slowly?

Are you still attracted to other people or would you class yourself as a not particularly sexual person?

Was it discussed or did it just stop happening?

It wasn't really a decision, it just gradually happened. It became less and less frequent and soon neither of us were bothered.

@paintitgrey It wasn't always like this, especially for the first five years. But things stopped a short while after moved in together funnily enough

We don't have kids

I wouldn't say either of us are sexual people. I always craved closeness as opposedto actual sex, and always felt more 'satsifed' using toys than actual penetration with a person. At times intercourse has been painful for me, and he's had his own physical issues too due to medication.

No, you're not the only one.

What sort of age group are you both in?

Are either of you attracted to other people?