My First Boyfriend was a gangster AMA

[MrsHappyAndMrCool]

I was very naive

AMA.

So was mine 🤭

How has it effected your relationships now?
Have you seen anyone be killed?
Did you use drugs at the time?

How has it effected your relationships now?
Have you seen anyone be killed?
Did you use drugs at the time?

It hasn’t effected my current relationship
No I’ve never seen anyone be killed, but he was on remand for murder, but was found not gulity - he got released, I ended the relationship
I’ve never taken drugs in my life

How did you get involved with him? Did you already know he was a gangster? If not, how did you find out? What did you think about it?

Well I knew him since birth, our mums were very good friends, so we became good friends as well, he first went to prison when he was 16 but I gave him the benefit of the doubt.

And no I didn’t already know he was a gangster, I found out when he went to prison, although thinking back to it the signs were there all the time.

And I was scared after finding out that’s why I left him.

I am posting this today because I googled his name last week and a few things came up, all relating to murder and drugs, but he remains unconvicted.

Were any of his family criminals, or just him?

the signs were there all the time
In hindsight, what were the signs?

Were any of his family criminals, or just him?

I think his dad was, because he was murdered.

In hindsight, what were the signs?

He owned and wore very expensive things, but as naive as I was back then, I just ignored it.

When you say gangster, what kind of gang? Are we talking mafia, yakuza, street gang?