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Trans identified man sues McDonalds for being denied access to women’s changing rooms

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SamW98 · 29/06/2024 08:47

https://reduxx.info/exclusive-details-german-trans-identified-male-sues-mcdonalds-after-being-denied-access-to-womens-changing-room/

And with the totally batshit laws in place in Germany, he’ll probably win.

EXCLUSIVE DETAILS: German Trans-Identified Male Sues McDonald's After Being Denied Access to Women's Changing Room - Reduxx

A trans-identified male and former drag queen residing in Berlin is currently involved in litigation against McDonald’s after alleging he was denied access to the changing room intended for female employees. Kylie Divon, 27, also known as Keil Li, is s...

https://reduxx.info/exclusive-details-german-trans-identified-male-sues-mcdonalds-after-being-denied-access-to-womens-changing-room

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Mrsdyna · 29/06/2024 11:38

SamW98 · 29/06/2024 11:34

Absolutely. As as Muslim woman does DEI not include her?

Or do fetishist mens rights trump all?

For whatever reason the perpetrators are protected now, not the victims.

maudelovesharold · 29/06/2024 11:35

Give Labour 2 minutes in power, this is what's coming

Yup, you’ve been warned. Absolutely dreading next Thursday. Talk about between a rock and a hard place….

SamW98 · 29/06/2024 11:34

Mrsdyna · 29/06/2024 11:30

God help us all for the next 5 years. I support that woman who told him to leave 100%

Absolutely. As as Muslim woman does DEI not include her?

Or do fetishist mens rights trump all?

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Mrsdyna · 29/06/2024 11:30

We should all recognise that Labour can't get into power without the votes of actual women.

Mrsdyna · 29/06/2024 11:30

God help us all for the next 5 years. I support that woman who told him to leave 100%

CheeseSandwichRiskAssessment · 29/06/2024 11:15

Is that true about "European law?"

Also I wonder what McDonald's thinks? I know they have a franchise model so it's possible HQ won't have anything to do with this.

Datun · 29/06/2024 11:12

Charlize43 · 29/06/2024 11:03

Everything could be so simple if the law stated that trans women are women only after they've had the genital surgery, don't you think?

No. A man is still capable of intimidating a woman even though he doesn't have a penis.

Apart from anything else, you won't know. And also, society should not be encouraging men to mutilate themselves.

The point is, again, we are discussing the men. What can they do to secure access. What do they have to think, feel, perform, remove.

When the actual focus should be on the women. Women are not therapy for men! We are not there to validate their feelings, penis or no penis.

Women should have every right to their own sex specific space. It's not a space that is designed for men to fetishise in, validate themselves in.

It's for women. To bathe, shower, go to the toilet, deal with menstrual problems.

Men using vulnerable women in a state of undress, or going to the toilet doesn't get any more acceptable just because they've had surgery.

GrumpyPanda · 29/06/2024 11:10

@DrBlackbird

When reading about "Sven Lehmann, Germany’s Commissioner for the Acceptance of Sexual and Gender Diversity (also known colloquially as the “Queer Commissioner”)", it makes me feel so tired of men with fetishes like him imposing them on the world and dragging as many people into their fetish as possible including children and young vulnerable people.*

Not a man with a fetish, just another gay man with a hatred for women. There's all too many of them sadly. A similar one, Alfonso Pantisano, last year was appointed the land-level queer commissioner for Berlin. He'd previously made waves on Twitter by calling journalists at Germany's oldest (and very much second generation) feminist magazine "bitches defecating [on a memorial]." He's also lectured women on feminism while calling himself a feminist.

Charlize43 · 29/06/2024 11:03

SamW98 · 29/06/2024 08:47

Everything could be so simple if the law stated that trans women are women only after they've had the genital surgery, don't you think?

IdgieThreadgoodeIsMyHeroine · 29/06/2024 10:59

SamW98 · 29/06/2024 09:33

At the bottom of that article there’s a link to another delightful German man suing for not being allowed access to naked women - doesn’t he look a delight. And I have a feeling he might be identifying as a different age as well as gender

reduxx.info/germany-balding-trans-identified-male-now-demanding-e2500-from-womens-gym-after-being-denied-access-to-showers/

That 25-year-old woman is definitely a man in his 40s.

Datun · 29/06/2024 10:59

DrBlackbird · 29/06/2024 10:56

Divon’s lawyer, Leonie Thum, said during proceedings, “According to European law, a trans woman is a woman and must be treated as such.”

And will it soon be said that "according to UK law, a trans woman is a woman and must be treated as such"? Thinking about laws, shall we place bets that when Labour takes office, that they will not block Scotlands gender reform bill and self ID will become law there?

When reading about "Sven Lehmann*, Germany’s Commissioner for the Acceptance of Sexual and Gender Diversity (also known colloquially as the “Queer Commissioner”)", it makes me feel so tired of men with fetishes like him imposing them on the world and dragging as many people into their fetish as possible including children and young vulnerable people.

*”Lehmann has secured public funding for an organization that provides Youth sexuality counselling services, workshops, and summer camps. Lambda also publishes a magazine… aimed at, youth as young as 14 years of age, and has promoted various fetishes, including bondage, voyeurism and exhibitionism, medical play, and age fetishes".

Age fetishes 🤨 is there another name for that 🤔

Ffs.

perverts have never had it so good

DrBlackbird · 29/06/2024 10:56

Divon’s lawyer, Leonie Thum, said during proceedings, “According to European law, a trans woman is a woman and must be treated as such.”

And will it soon be said that "according to UK law, a trans woman is a woman and must be treated as such"? Thinking about laws, shall we place bets that when Labour takes office, that they will not block Scotlands gender reform bill and self ID will become law there?

When reading about "Sven Lehmann*, Germany’s Commissioner for the Acceptance of Sexual and Gender Diversity (also known colloquially as the “Queer Commissioner”)", it makes me feel so tired of men with fetishes like him imposing them on the world and dragging as many people into their fetish as possible including children and young vulnerable people.

*”Lehmann has secured public funding for an organization that provides Youth sexuality counselling services, workshops, and summer camps. Lambda also publishes a magazine… aimed at, youth as young as 14 years of age, and has promoted various fetishes, including bondage, voyeurism and exhibitionism, medical play, and age fetishes".

Age fetishes 🤨 is there another name for that 🤔

Gall10 · 29/06/2024 10:50

ArabellaScott · 29/06/2024 09:13

“I got reactions from cis women looking at me like, ‘Why am I there?’ I don’t need you to tell me if I’m a woman or not. I got a b*tch that turned her eyes into a scanner… and the only creatures that were actually smiling at me back were men.”

🙄

They weren’t smiling at you mate!

IAmAnAdultHumanFemale · 29/06/2024 10:49

As a woman there is literally nowhere that I can relax and not have to worry about men at all. Apart from at home of course. So now according to him I have nowhere ever to let my guard down. How wonderful

BloodyHellKenAgain · 29/06/2024 10:42

334bu · 29/06/2024 10:28

Just today the Times reported on a nurse in Fife who was suspended after a male colleague complained that she had challenged his use of the female changing room where the female nurse was changing alone late at night.

Absolutely shocking

DrBlackbird · 29/06/2024 10:37

GrumpyPanda · 29/06/2024 10:25

True @GrumpyPanda but the photo that is included here is really quite revealing in all senses of the word.

GrumpyPanda · 29/06/2024 10:32

AgnesX · 29/06/2024 09:45

Dear God almighty 🙄 The lack of awareness where other people are concerned is breath taking.
It's all about him and f* the rest of you.

Given that he supposedly didn't tell management of his alleged transition and then their offer to use a lockable changing room hopefully the tribunal will throw the case out.

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That's all very well but SelfID is coming from August 1, so after a three-month wait period "Kylie" will be able to have his passport officially adjusted.

334bu · 29/06/2024 10:28

Just today the Times reported on a nurse in Fife who was suspended after a male colleague complained that she had challenged his use of the female changing room where the female nurse was changing alone late at night.

UpThePankhurst · 29/06/2024 10:27

It is necessary to offer and ensure 3rd spaces, It's the rational reasonable and compassionate response of an answer that works for all, and takes at face value the statements of 'I do not identify as a man/feel safe in the men's space.'

We can then move on to establishing that when the response is 'no, I demand access to non consenting women in a state of undress without any power to hold boundaries against me that I find inconvenient', that this is not rational, reasonable or going to be permitted.

Unless of course Labour are in power, who enthusiastically support all this.

DrBlackbird · 29/06/2024 10:26

UpThePankhurst · 29/06/2024 09:27

So basically: shut up, take your clothes off and present your body to meet my needs, or you can't use this space at all. Women's spaces are mine, and if you in any way thwart me, I'll have the law on you. And the law cares only about me and other people with penises.

Give Labour 2 minutes in power, this is what's coming.

Male entitlement doesn’t seem to disappear when the makeup goes on.

GrumpyPanda · 29/06/2024 10:25

Existing thread on the topic by @Brefugee

www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5105707-unstoppable-force-meets-immovable-object?reply=136322427

OldCrone · 29/06/2024 10:23

TemuSpecialBuy · 29/06/2024 10:07

I’d be delighted for this to go to court.
McDonalds has the time and money to go the distance fighting this nonsense.

i 💯 think this person should have somewhere appropriate to change but that should 💯 not be a women’s changing room because that person is not a biological woman.

He's not interested in having somewhere to change, he's interested in having access to the spaces women are using, while the women are in there. He rejected the offer of using the management's lockable changing room.

A spokesperson for McDonald’s told the news outlet: “The restaurant management tried to respond to the needs and suggested various solutions – such as using its own lockable changing room. However, this was rejected.”

Circumferences · 29/06/2024 10:23

That's not a very photoshopped version of a photo of a person is it 😂

I can just imagine how they look in real life and why they were denied access in the first place.

NewGirlinClass · 29/06/2024 10:22

As bad as this is, I am getting very fed up with so many people turning everyday life into some kind of a performance.

ScrollingLeaves · 29/06/2024 10:22

Chariothorses · 29/06/2024 10:09

@UpThePankhurst · Today 09:50
All spaces will be men's spaces. Women may use them if they are good girls who are willing to be used by the men in there for whatever agenda.

Yes this is absolutely the aim. https://womansplaceuk.org/2018/06/25/references-to-removal-of-single-sex-exemptions/

Women will be required to get undressed and vulnerable with male strangers -or unable to take part in society or access basic services, from toilets and changing rooms to abuse support. Labour will remove female bodily privacy and human rights and enforce rape culture to please their trans overlords- hence why they are being so dishonest about this and Stonewall have hurriedly changed their definition of trans because they have been so obvious about it. https://sex-matters.org/posts/updates/stonewall-redefines-trans-to-exclude-crossdressers/

Lest we forget.

So many of those demands have been met by erosion, and false equality and diversity training, even against the law.

The only mercy is that there has been something of a pause.