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Discussion on R4 Woman's Hour on choking during sex

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MimiGC · 30/04/2024 10:30

Has made me want to weep. What young women have to put up with now, under the guise of it being mainstream, cool and expected, really does make me want to cry. My daughter is 17, not yet sexually active, but I guess it won't be long before she is - what kind of a world are we sending our girls into, where being strangled, with all the risks that entails, is seen as normal?

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WarriorN · 30/04/2024 10:40

I can't find that specific thread but far too many others came up.

15yr old and choking www.mumsnet.com/Talk/teenagers/4847484-15yr-old-and-choking

How common these days - biting, have pulling, light choking, slapping?
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/sex/4541239-how-common-these-days-biting-have-pulling-light-choking-slapping

I wonder if it's something @MNHQ could do some data collection on?

turbonerd · 30/04/2024 10:38

It really is bad.

My teenagers (+ young adults) steer well clear of certain parties and ‘gangs’ because of all the sexualised violence that goes on regularly. I was gobsmacked when I heard what some of the young lads were up to.
Is it really porn that is causing this abhorrent behaviour?

WarriorN · 30/04/2024 10:37

*boys

WarriorN · 30/04/2024 10:37

Saw this on their twitter. I remember a thread here some years ago entitled "dd says all the bits want to choke during sex" or similar.

It's horrific .

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