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Sunak in PMQs - thread 2

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AdamRyan · 09/02/2024 11:53

Ongoing discussion about whether Sunak cocked up in PMQs by raising "what women are" when Esthey Ghey was present, whether Starmer cocked up by raising Esther in response to Sunak, whether Sunak had planned the line knowing EG would be there or whether Starmer set a trap he unwittingly fell into.

Many segues into gender politics and left right debates.

All views welcome.
Thread 1:
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womensrights/5002735-starmer-furious-that-sunak-should-mention-his-definition-of-woman

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anyolddinosaur · 09/02/2024 14:07

For those who dont understand PMs questions - it's not about answering the question, it's political point scoring.

Notes can be passed to those in the chamber so it's feasible that Starmer knew the bereaved mother was not actually in the gallery and was deliberately lying to make it look like she was. Sunak may or may not have known where she was.

Starmer knows Sunak regularly baits him over not knowing what a woman is. He invited Brianna's mother to be present at PMs questions rather than a different day. It was a planned trap, designed to try and stop the baiting, Sunak walked into it. Starmer sprang the trap. Gutter politician for deliberately setting a trap using a bereaved parent.

My opinion of both of them was already pretty poor but of Starmer has dived to bottom of the pond.

Peskysquirrel · 09/02/2024 13:59

I agree with you @JanesLittleGirl ! What else is there to say about this that wasn't said on the first thread?

The specific incident itself is chip paper now, now that Labour have u-turned on its green spending pledge.

Esther Ghey herself has said she does not wish to comment on reports of wording or comments recently made. So I don't think the OP is being at all "respectful" by starting another thread on it.

Will probably get accused of shutting down discussion though (how ironic...)

JanesLittleGirl · 09/02/2024 13:51

Leave it out.
Give it a rest.
I've had enough.
I've had all I can take.

We had 1,000 posts on the first thread which was largely people talking across each other. We really don't need a re-match.

AdamRyan · 09/02/2024 13:24

IcakethereforeIam · 09/02/2024 12:31

Jo Bartosch in the Critic, pretty even handed

https://thecritic.co.uk/crocodile-keir/

Tldr both sides suck.

I don't rate Sunak much as a politician. If he was more nimble he could have amended an obviously pre-prepared attack. However, I don't think he had to. Because democracy means no subject should be beyond discussion. Ironically because I think Starmer is a better politician (which isn't a compliment) and just a cleverer man, I just him more harshly in this exchange. Sunak put his foot in it because he's not very good, but in doing that did nothing wrong. Starmer cold bloodedly and explicitly decided to exploit a mother, her tragedy, her grief to score political points. I hope he's proud of himself.

Just read that and would say Starmer/labour are given a harder time than sunak.

Her point about how inept Sunak was to blunder into a trap was a good one (if indeed there was a trap other than his own big mouth)

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AdamRyan · 09/02/2024 13:21

In most cases, the point of the suffering is for the child to see it and change its ways not for the world to see it and sedate the mother by appeasing the child.
Completely inappropriate Sad

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LilyBartsHatShop · 09/02/2024 13:11

@PatatiPatatras on the last thread:
"Women are the mothers of everyone, the good, the bad and the downright ugly. We are the mothers of those to be proud of, those to protect, those to be ashamed of and those who society should be protected from.

Don't use our pain when things don't go according to plan to hold society to ransom. This is our pain. We get to decide what to do with it. Don't white knight to shield us from suffering which you yourself don't seem to grasp. In most cases, the point of the suffering is for the child to see it and change its ways not for the world to see it and sedate the mother by appeasing the child.

It's the mothers who get to decide how to deal with their pain."

Brava!!
And thank you.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 09/02/2024 13:03

Politicians exploiting a grieving mother is never a good look. It's completely understandable that Esther Ghey wants to be heard in the face of such an appalling tragedy. But as she's finding out, she'll only be useful if they can use her grief for their own political ends.

IcakethereforeIam · 09/02/2024 12:58

Starmer's 'sensitivity' has worked out well for the grieving mother hasn't it!

AdamRyan · 09/02/2024 12:55

Being sensitive to how a grieving mother might respond is not "appropriating". It's being respectful.

Whatever her private views I'm sure this has been a very unwelcome distraction from what she wanted to achieve by meeting politicians on Wednesday.

I doubt either her or her ex husband are enjoying having their personal opinions dug into either

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Runor · 09/02/2024 12:40

Most people on the previous thread, the R5 call-in and comments below newspaper articles are in line with that - Sunak: not very good, Starmer: really bad.

Oh, and an interesting point that everyone (especially Starmer) assumes Ester Ghey would be upset to hear TWANW (I paraphrase). Appropriating how a grieving mother is going to respond to anything is pretty crass

IcakethereforeIam · 09/02/2024 12:31

Jo Bartosch in the Critic, pretty even handed

https://thecritic.co.uk/crocodile-keir/

Tldr both sides suck.

I don't rate Sunak much as a politician. If he was more nimble he could have amended an obviously pre-prepared attack. However, I don't think he had to. Because democracy means no subject should be beyond discussion. Ironically because I think Starmer is a better politician (which isn't a compliment) and just a cleverer man, I just him more harshly in this exchange. Sunak put his foot in it because he's not very good, but in doing that did nothing wrong. Starmer cold bloodedly and explicitly decided to exploit a mother, her tragedy, her grief to score political points. I hope he's proud of himself.

Crocodile Keir | Josephine Bartosch | The Critic Magazine

It’s been 24 hours and Prime Minister Rishi Sunak is facing down calls for him to apologise for an ill-timed joke. Yesterday, during the faintly embarrassing bantz and bluster that characterises PMQs…

https://thecritic.co.uk/crocodile-keir

AdamRyan · 09/02/2024 12:01

I want to clarify that I am incensed by what the PM did because it was disrespectful to bring it up on that day. In my opinion the reason he repeatedly brings it up is to stoke culture wars rather than because he gives a shit about women. I think he wad incompetent rather than cynical on Wednesday but there is a possibility he did it deliberately knowing the furore that would ensue.

Separate to that, I am also incensed by how the current Conservative party are very cynical in how they exploit loopholes to do exactly what they want - using culture wars to sow fear and make it so noone trusts our democratic processes is part of that. Yes I'm fucking angry about it. Not because I'm a labour supporter. Because I support democracy.

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AdamRyan · 09/02/2024 11:55

I wanted to reply to a post on the previous thread by paperwalkandtalk

Thank you for this.

I thought you were incensed over the PM bringing up the failure of politicians to state what a woman is, but I've realised that you don't care, this is really party politics for you and little else.

I'll support any politician who is brave enough to state biological reality and criticise any who won't.

No doubt if the parties were reversed you wouldn't be angry.

This is problem with party politics (and now what is called the culture war), people just disagree over an issue because who is talking about it.

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