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We come together not because we may identify as women; rather, we come together because we believe that we can only be free and live better lives with the end of capitalism, white supremacy, Western empire, and patriarchy. - Feminist Library

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IwantToRetire · 16/10/2023 18:40

We write this statement in the spirit of radical feminist collectives that have come before us such as OWAAD and the BWG, who took firm stances against apartheid and settler colonialism in South Africa and Palestine and were founded on the principle of transnational solidarity. Our solidarity is based on political and ethical principles that exceed gender. Sara Salem writes “We come together not because we may identify as women; rather, we come together because we believe that we can only be free and live better lives with the end of capitalism, white supremacy, Western empire, and patriarchy.” Transnational feminist practice requires us to analyse how people in different geographical spaces are subject to unequal power relations and ensure that every person has access to dignified life regardless of the borders that separate us.

https://feministlibrary.co.uk/statement-of-solidarity-with-palestine/

I'm posting this not to comment on the situation between Israel and Gaza (although realise some might want to) but because it seems another example of groups originally established on the basis on the oppression of women as a sex classhaving been colonised (to use their language) by women who see it as a platform to advance their personal politics.

Similar to this supposed manifesto to lobby MPs about women's rights posted here https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4900356-vawg-is-a-gendered-issue-which-is-deeply-rooted-in-societal-inequality-it-is-violence-that-is-directed-against-a-woman-because-she-is-a-woman-or-that-affects-women-disproportionately

Large gatherings like FiLia might be satisfying to attend, but if groups set up to support women are being occupied by women who dont see the oppression of women as being directly because of their sex, it means we are even further away from putting feminism into action.

ie what is the point of theory if there is no practice of it.

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slore · 20/10/2023 00:54

HHhiak · 20/10/2023 00:02

Are you kidding me? Communism’s supporters were those who liked the idea in theory but never experienced it in practice. It’s not that communism hasn’t been properly tried either, communism has had the same outcomes everywhere it’s ever been tried so perhaps it’s now time to re-evaluate it rather than try it all over again?

Stalin put about 22million people into gulags or Siberian exile to be worked or frozen to death. That was the fate of roughly 1 in 6 people in the Soviet Union at the time. The other 5/6ths lived under constant fear and terror.

Chairman Mao killed over 40 million people. His cultural revolution destroyed most of the cultural treasures of a great civilisation over 1,000 years old.

Paul Pot’s regime is estimated to have killed up to one third of his entire nation’s population, if could be less than that bits difficult to say but his regime was absolutely appalling.

Anybody that knows anything about communism and still thinks it’s a good idea or wants to give it another try is morally bankrupt. But then again the far left is every bit as immoral as the far right.

This is rather unobjective. You could just as easily say that capitalism has had the same result everywhere, which is hundreds of thousands of people regularly dying in wars and famines, sometimes millions in major events. Capitalist societies are on the brink of WWIII as we speak. Both systems are flawed and have resulted in mass deaths.

The Soviet Union thrived in the 1960's and 70's and became the communism success story, lots of people from that region are nostalgic for that time.

It's hysterical and hyperbolic to be calling me "morally bankrupt" for simply pointing out that having the security of a free home, the guaranteed free holiday, financial equality between most civilians, and the security of having many jobs available, are among the positives of communism. Nowhere did I say that communism was perfect or should be recreated. I am personally not a communist.

It's ironic that you can be so aggressively close-minded on a board filled with women persecuted for having minority political beliefs. It's fine to disagree with communism, it's not fine to attack people you disagree with.

IwantToRetire · 20/10/2023 00:53

I'm no supporter of communism but it could well be that those who implement communist systems were not that competent or nice (which could be said about any number of other countries with different political structure)

Equally, for all I know, christianity has many good points but my experience of it, which is of course really only a reflection of how those in this country have practised it.

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HHhiak · 20/10/2023 00:02

slore · 19/10/2023 23:32

I'm not referring to Gulags.

The Soviets had holiday camps and spas in places like Georgia and Crimea where people could go to for free.

In our society, we have time off, but no guaranteed actual holiday unless we can pay for it, and chose to pay for that rather than something else.

We mostly have homes, which people work themselves into the ground to pay for. In communist societies, homes are free.

There is no need to be snide; if communism was all bad then it wouldn't have had so many supporters.

Are you kidding me? Communism’s supporters were those who liked the idea in theory but never experienced it in practice. It’s not that communism hasn’t been properly tried either, communism has had the same outcomes everywhere it’s ever been tried so perhaps it’s now time to re-evaluate it rather than try it all over again?

Stalin put about 22million people into gulags or Siberian exile to be worked or frozen to death. That was the fate of roughly 1 in 6 people in the Soviet Union at the time. The other 5/6ths lived under constant fear and terror.

Chairman Mao killed over 40 million people. His cultural revolution destroyed most of the cultural treasures of a great civilisation over 1,000 years old.

Paul Pot’s regime is estimated to have killed up to one third of his entire nation’s population, if could be less than that bits difficult to say but his regime was absolutely appalling.

Anybody that knows anything about communism and still thinks it’s a good idea or wants to give it another try is morally bankrupt. But then again the far left is every bit as immoral as the far right.

slore · 19/10/2023 23:32

BlessedKali · 19/10/2023 22:59

oh yes fantastic holidays to the Gulags! https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gulag

... we have guaranteed holidays and mostly have homes for everyone

I'm not referring to Gulags.

The Soviets had holiday camps and spas in places like Georgia and Crimea where people could go to for free.

In our society, we have time off, but no guaranteed actual holiday unless we can pay for it, and chose to pay for that rather than something else.

We mostly have homes, which people work themselves into the ground to pay for. In communist societies, homes are free.

There is no need to be snide; if communism was all bad then it wouldn't have had so many supporters.

BlessedKali · 19/10/2023 22:59

slore · 19/10/2023 22:48

The Soviet union had guaranteed holiday for everyone, and homes for everyone. When successful, in communist societies, basics were there for almost everyone.

oh yes fantastic holidays to the Gulags! https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gulag

... we have guaranteed holidays and mostly have homes for everyone

Gulag - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gulag

slore · 19/10/2023 22:48

BlessedKali · 19/10/2023 22:31

what bits were good?

The Soviet union had guaranteed holiday for everyone, and homes for everyone. When successful, in communist societies, basics were there for almost everyone.

BlessedKali · 19/10/2023 22:35

The thing people seem to not understand is that communism has to be under a totalitarian state. It's not possible to get an entire country of people to agree to ''share fairly'' and willingly go along with the rule, so the only way it can ever work is if it's imposed with surveillance, strict laws and limited speech. At least a capitalist society is free.

BlessedKali · 19/10/2023 22:31

slore · 19/10/2023 02:26

I'm not fully opposed to communism, there were some good parts of it.

However, I note that the vast majority of people loudly supporting communism in the west are strident and spoiled upper-middle class individuals, who would be among the first to have their wealth re-distributed under such a revolution.

Or shot for being a degenerate.

what bits were good?

EarthSight · 19/10/2023 16:50

We come together not because we may identify as women

No, because God forbid that women put themselves front & centre in feminism or anything.

Ffs.

IwantToRetire · 19/10/2023 16:07

Apologies - Women in Black did issue a statement https://london.womeninblack.org/2023/10/12/israel-gaza-women-in-black-condemn-the-use-of-violence-by-all-states-and-organisations/

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IwantToRetire · 19/10/2023 16:04

@MNHQ - thanks for showing my post.

To others on the thread, I just was surprised to see Million Women Rise issue the statement they have.

Again its the language.

We must hold our own British government and the U.S. accountable to stop the warmongering and enabling the Israeli state that they have weaponised to commit this Genocide on the palestian people for their own interest!

And of course the point of the thread which is if you care so much about a situation why not form a group to campaign about it. To just tag it onto the original purpose of a group you happen to be part of is neither beneficial to that group, not in fact to the cause you care about.

Although as a side note I did look to see if Women in Black had issued a statement, which you would have thought they would have, but no.

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slore · 19/10/2023 02:26

I'm not fully opposed to communism, there were some good parts of it.

However, I note that the vast majority of people loudly supporting communism in the west are strident and spoiled upper-middle class individuals, who would be among the first to have their wealth re-distributed under such a revolution.

Or shot for being a degenerate.

Coveescapee · 19/10/2023 01:09

Yes I think people who come out with this rubbish are spoilt. They would s* themselves if they had to live in a communist country or somewhere like Iran.

HHhiak · 19/10/2023 00:43

This reminds me of the student union decades ago. It’s been a long time I have heard people talk about ending capitalism.

it’s very easy to be a communist in a semi-free capitalist country like the U.K. Its a lot harder to live under communism though as almost anyone whose lived under it will tell you.

IwantToRetire · 18/10/2023 23:36

@MNHQ - please note my post just above is not about me taking sides but part of the discussion on this thread about women's groups adopting a position on issues not directly related to their aims and objectives. Not sure why this was is being questioned when my original OP, also a statement from another group wasn't. I pasted in full because not everyone is on facebook. I hope you can display as would be interested to hear the views of others on this thread.

PS your response was very quick. So clever AI or programming?

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IwantToRetire · 18/10/2023 23:32

I wonder if this from million women rise is of the same politics, or is it different?

We must hold our own British government and the U.S. accountable to stop the warmongering and enabling the Israeli state that they have weaponised to commit this Genocide on the palestian people for their own interest!

Listen to Daniel Levy here https://www.channel4.com/news/it-would-be-hard-for-iran-and-hezbollah-to-stay-out-of-israel-hamas-war-says-former-israeli-peace-negotiator^^
we can change the narrative. Together, we can bring Peace. Dialogue, not War.
1000 palestinian children have been murdered so far

Write to your MP https://bit.ly/Gaza-EmailYourMP^^

Join @MillionWomen this Sat to march for peace

#nomore #WhyWeRise #Endtheviolence
#evawg
#peace
#EndFascism
#EndTheOccupation
#FreePalestine

https://www.facebook.com/groups/millionwomenrise

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paperflowers55 · 18/10/2023 22:56

BigSalad · 17/10/2023 03:15

Communism. Death for everyone who disagrees.

growing up in that sort of system can leave you with trauma as an adult.
we need to go back to the drawing board and figure out something else

BlessedKali · 18/10/2023 22:42

it's intersectionality to the point where distinction no longer exists. It's every single claim of 'opression' against every single 'oppressor' without any critical thinking involved. And nothing get's done. It's word-salad, theory-salad, identity-salad, and all that is left is confusion and chaos. And do you know who always fall to the bottom of this pile, no matter what? women.

IwantToRetire · 17/10/2023 18:54

Sorry a bit of a side track, but the mention of Amnesty reminded me of this. Although from some years ago seems to show many groups go through similar "mission drift" or hijacking by self serving interlopers appropriating the platfrom of a group with a specific aim, to them promote a totally other aim.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2010/apr/25/gita-sahgal-amnesty-international

Gita Sahgal's dispute with Amnesty International puts human rights group in the dock

The champion of womens' rights has accused it of losing its moral compass over its association with Moazzam Begg

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2010/apr/25/gita-sahgal-amnesty-international

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nepeta · 17/10/2023 18:44

What I wrote above has nothing to do with my views on the horrors that are taking place in Ghaza and Israel, by the way.

It's about the way organisations (though mostly only feminist ones) are expected to state their views on some important political questions but not on others, and about the seeming lack of any deep thinking in how those statements are formulated.

For example, I might agree that capitalism is not the best economic form of organisation, but when it comes to finding realistic alternatives to it that would not be actually worse for most women we might come rather short, with the possible exception of Scandinavian welfare economies.

But those are not realistic alternatives in the Middle East. Theocracies are the most likely alternatives, and those are dreadful for women's rights. And communism, as it has been practised in the real world, seems not to have made a dent in sexism or hierarchical arrangements of people on the basis of sex.

nepeta · 17/10/2023 18:34

I note that the Feminist Library has made two statements of this sort, since 2018. This one, and an earlier one explaining that 'woman' for them is based on innate, abstract feelings of femininity, and that this category is open for all, but, nevertheless, those who are female but do not identify so are also included if they are nonbinary and gender-nonconforming*.

They have made NO statement in support of women and girls in Afghanistan or in support of women and girls in Iran. That should provoke some thought and introspection among those in charge of creating these statements. There are also many other international disagreements which are about human rights but not specifically about the rights of women, and yet none of those has merited a statement of any kind.

*As an aside, I would have thought that being a feminist IS being gender-nonconforming in all male-dominated societies, but that appears now to be forgotten.

Rudderneck · 17/10/2023 18:08

slore · 17/10/2023 03:02

When you have a particular cause, and suddenly tack on (counts) six other causes that you demand followers must also agree with, suddenly you make your potential pool of supporters much more niche.

I am unsure of, actively disagree with, or feel attacked by, the various tenuously related woke causes they mention. A feminist library should be neutral and inoffensive to non-feminists and appealing to feminists, but they've immediately turned me off. They are making enemies of people who might otherwise be interested before they even start, because they're so insistent upon forcing their personal worldview down everyone's throats.

This is why I like Kellie Jay Keen, she's down to earth, and she just says to support other females, even the ones you don't like. Simple.

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Amnesty made that choice very deliberately when they decided to stop being neutral on abortion. They lost a huge number of significant supporters, and very much had the attitude, well, we don't want those people anyway.

Which led them to a place where they actually were uncomfortable advocating for political prisoners who had views they disagreed with. It's totally crazy.

IwantToRetire · 17/10/2023 17:47

There was never any reassurance that only women would access the materials, it was always open to all when I was involved. Including trans people.

Well then your involvement was very recent.

And also to whoever wrote something clearing thinking this is about the Women's Library, it is not. It it about the Feminist Library, which was originally the Women's Resource and Research Centre and very definitely came out of the Women's Liberation Movement. (PS I dont think many suffragettes were left wing - that is why there was a split!)

And whilst the library under its original name and it new name gave acess to material to members of the public, there was a specific section (many of them personal papers from women activists) that were only for other biological women. I wonder if they are even aware that some of these papers are meant to be sealed until the death of the donator?

And just because some not very feminist feminists thought this wasn't right and some also thought that it should be trans inclusive, the reality is, that what is happening now if a clear breach of the trust of those donating material to a women only resource.

And quite honestly, even if the current group was really, really special, they are not entitled to break this trust and as such have no political credibility.

And yes I do know the history of the Feminist Library.

But I am not going to post links to where it has been discussed because it identifies some women by name.

And over and above everything else it was the appalling personal attacks on one woman that were publicly posted that means that forever the Feminist Library is a place of shame. I hope the cuckoos revel in their infamy.

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Just to add another historical point, as in fact this started happening some time ago, ie more vindictive ageist 3rd wave feminism than TRAs. The lesbian archive when it decided it had to close was going to give their papers to the Feminist Library, but the public (think Maoist denouncements) meant they changed their mind. So reluctantly, but based on absolute assurance of maintaining their women only policy, they donated the lesbian archive papers to Glasgow Women's Library. Well, we all know what has happened there. Flag wavers for the SNP TWAW.

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VWdieselnightmare · 17/10/2023 13:49

dwanma · 17/10/2023 09:10

They've had public money, and funding to pay workers, to look after the collection so it's not like they are doing it out of generosity with their time. The library is closed most of the time anyway and good luck getting anyone to answer if you try and contact them.

I can confirm this. I was asked by an elderly sister who has an interesting collection of 1960s/ 70s feminist material if I'd take it to the Feminist Library for her last year. Phone calls and emails went unanswered. I think the material is now in the Glasgow Women's Archive.

Coastalwalks · 17/10/2023 12:29

Hello @IwantToRetire what do you mean by the humiliation of older women who established the collection? I went to the 'closing weekend' at the old venue in waterloo a few years ago and it was an amazing collection - do you know how / why they had to move and what exactly happened with the changing of the guard?

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