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A Mumsnet thread about a book about a Mumsnet thread “Under the Duvet of Darkness” written by the women of Mumsnet THREAD 2

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Boiledbeetle · 29/05/2023 23:25

Thread 1:
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4776556-a-mumsnet-thread-about-a-book-about-a-mumsnet-thread-under-the-duvet-of-darkness-written-by-the-women-of-mumsnet?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share

You do not need to have read thread 1 – this is not that sort of thread.

But to recap… Over Christmas and New Year after the passing of the GRR (Scotland) Bill a thread was started with a poem about Nicola Sturgeon. Eventually on that thread (and a couple of other threads) over 80 poems were written.

“Under the Duvet of Darkness: Poems written by angry women for angry women because WOMEN WON’T WHEESHT” was published as a paperback on 31st March 2023.

Available on Amazon only: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0C129WKDD

In a rather bizarre turn of events at one point it reached No 2 in poetry best sellers and No 5 in Feminist Criticism best sellers. No one will be surprised to discover that a book that is in the main about people, especially men, claiming to be something they are not was kept off the No1 spot in poetry best sellers by a crime novel, identifying as poetry, written by a man ;-)

E-BOOK:

Some people wanted an e-book rather than a paperback, but for that we needed someone who could actually make an e-book and some extra poems.

FairyKindleMother came to the rescue with regards the e-book and posters wrote enough poems that we could add 20 more poems into the e-book.

I pressed publish on the e-book a few hours ago. It can take usually up to 3 days to appear and populate all the info etc on the various sites, and there is always the chance they knock it back for some reason. But I've done all I can do at this point. We just have to wait and see who spots it on sale first! It will appear on the Amazon link above hopefully soon, (or I'll get an email asking me to change something).

MONEY FROM SALES OF ALL FORMATS:

In honour of Magdalen Berns, who co-founded the Scottish campaign group For Women Scotland, 100% of the profit from the sale of this book will be donated to For Women Scotland.

“It’s not hate to defend your rights, and it’s not hate to speak the truth.”
Magdalen Berns (1983 – 2019)

As I started work on the e-book posters continued to write poems. So we had a choice: leave them there, languishing on the thread, unloved, forgotten, never to have their words uttered again OR we could just do volume 2.

Posters voted for Volume 2 but we still need more poems!

And that’s the gist of thread 1.

A Mumsnet thread about a book about a Mumsnet thread “Under the Duvet of Darkness” written by the women of Mumsnet THREAD 2
A Mumsnet thread about a book about a Mumsnet thread “Under the Duvet of Darkness” written by the women of Mumsnet THREAD 2
A Mumsnet thread about a book about a Mumsnet thread “Under the Duvet of Darkness” written by the women of Mumsnet THREAD 2
A Mumsnet thread about a book about a Mumsnet thread “Under the Duvet of Darkness” written by the women of Mumsnet THREAD 2
A Mumsnet thread about a book about a Mumsnet thread “Under the Duvet of Darkness” written by the women of Mumsnet THREAD 2
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Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2023 21:51

OF CATS AND MEN AND LITTER TRAYS

My cat is very much a boy,
despite the loss of balls.
He acts just like a boy cat would
when a female caterwauls.
He still scratches, and he hisses,
always tries to dominate,
despite the awful screams
that from the female emanate.
The female is no match for him
despite his lack of skill,
if he chooses to, he can do,
and the female outright kill.

So if a cat can act just like a cat
despite the loss of function,
why would we dare to presume a man
wouldn’t have the self-same gumption.

Its not just the actual act,
but the fact that it could occur.
Their very presence in our space
would lead us to infer
that a man is there for some misdeed
as that has always been the way.
We go one way to the ladies,
the men turn and go the other way.

And as we don’t do genital inspection
what would you suggest we do?
The easiest way to solve this issue:

Keep all males out of our loo.

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Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2023 19:53

It was a little moment brightness on a bog standard Wednesday night

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TheBiologyStupid · 07/06/2023 19:51

Yes, an unexpected delight - the R4 6.30 comedy slot has gone downhill a bit recently.

Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2023 19:42

I've just listened. Pockets, sufragettes, toilets!

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Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2023 18:55

TheBiologyStupid · 07/06/2023 18:53

An excellent discussion of pockets for women on BBC Radio 4's Room 101 now, prompted by Steph McGovern. Also clear sex signage on public toilet doors.

Ooh thank you for letting the pocket fans know!

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TheBiologyStupid · 07/06/2023 18:53

An excellent discussion of pockets for women on BBC Radio 4's Room 101 now, prompted by Steph McGovern. Also clear sex signage on public toilet doors.

Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2023 10:28

SinnerBoy · 07/06/2023 10:27

I've been in Kindle Store on the Paperwhite. I'll try to buy it on the computer in a bit.

Thanks!

You will get to read this book eventually!

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SinnerBoy · 07/06/2023 10:27

I've been in Kindle Store on the Paperwhite. I'll try to buy it on the computer in a bit.

Thanks!

Brokendaughter · 07/06/2023 10:24

@SinnerBoy
If you have access to the Amazon store through a web browser, you should be able to buy it in there & choose to send it to your paperwhite.

If you can buy it that way, then if you look in your unloaded library with the Paperwhite connected to the internet, it should show up as your most recent book so you can download it then.

If you want to buy from the store directly on your Paperwhite, you should be able to go into your Library on the Kindle, click store at the bottom (looks like a shopping cart, but I am on a Fire so might be slightly different on a posh Paperwhite), search for the book & it should give you a buy option there.
If you have already bought it, the buy button would say Read instead.

Are you trying to buy from the website on your browser or through the kindle store on your Paperwhite?

Sometimes I can't buy a book one way but the other way works.
No idea why.

Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2023 10:20

This is the UK page for the book, as yours is coming up in dollars you seem to be on the American page.

UK page

https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0C739HTDK

Is there an option anywhere for you to switch to the UK site?

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SinnerBoy · 07/06/2023 10:17

I'm in the UK, it's registered on my existing Amazon account, from and in the UK.

SinnerBoy · 07/06/2023 10:16

Hmm. I tried adding it to Wish List and doing "One click buy." It says it can't process my order at this time and gives two US phone numbers to try.

Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2023 10:15

Where are you right now with your kindle? Which country?

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SinnerBoy · 07/06/2023 10:14

I've got "Kindle Price: $7.39" "Buy for $7.39."

When I click "Buy" I get the connectivity error message. I've tried searching Kindle Edition, but then it can't find the book. I'm in Kindle Store.

TheBiologyStupid · 07/06/2023 10:01

That's excellent, @Brokendaughter !

Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2023 09:51

Failing that you may have to ask Amazon.

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Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2023 09:50

This is what I see on mine.

A Mumsnet thread about a book about a Mumsnet thread “Under the Duvet of Darkness” written by the women of Mumsnet THREAD 2
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Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2023 09:47

SinnerBoy · 07/06/2023 09:31

Boiledbeetle · Today 08:32

Have you tried switching it off and back on? 😁

Yes...

Are you on a kindle kindle, ie the only does book one and not a tablet one,?

Yes, it's a Paper White.

Any chance you are trying to buy the paperback on a kindle is what I'm asking?
Erm, dunno. How do you tell?

The e-book costs £5.99 the paperback £7.50.

I have the kindle app pin a Amazon fire tablet so I get both options. I don't know what comes up On a kindle kindle. it may be you've had a choice of both and you've chosen the paperback?

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SinnerBoy · 07/06/2023 09:31

Boiledbeetle · Today 08:32

Have you tried switching it off and back on? 😁

Yes...

Are you on a kindle kindle, ie the only does book one and not a tablet one,?

Yes, it's a Paper White.

Any chance you are trying to buy the paperback on a kindle is what I'm asking?
Erm, dunno. How do you tell?

Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2023 09:10

Correction: 2 e-book and1 paperback my maths head isn't switched on yet!

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Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2023 09:08

And I've just looked at the dashboard for today! 3 e-book sales already!

A Mumsnet thread about a book about a Mumsnet thread “Under the Duvet of Darkness” written by the women of Mumsnet THREAD 2
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Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2023 09:02

@Brokendaughter most likely, after all girl pockets are RIDICULOUSLY small! Why is that?

And I was erm just keeping it safe for you, hang on I'll give it back. It could take a while tho find it though I'm wearing a man's dressing gown the pockets are humongous. I'll give it back once I've retrieved it from the depths!

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Brokendaughter · 07/06/2023 08:55

@Boiledbeetle , sorry, it must have fallen out of my stupid girl sized pocket.

Boiledbeetle · 07/06/2023 08:47

@Brokendaughter why is that a pocket poem I see just sat there?

Looks around, no one watching, picks it up, puts it in pocket.

😘

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