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britindubai · 20/10/2026 06:34

Ask away, I’ll give you my honest thoughts and opinions

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britindubai · 20/10/2026 11:54

RhododendronFlowers · 20/10/2026 11:50

You don't understand my point? I am questioning that you refer to it as "the British media" (sic). That the UK is "on it's knees" and the NHS is facing imminent collapse.
You don't sound very well informed to me.

Ok fair, perhaps I was strong with my choice of words but it’s certainly under a lot of pressure, Covid highlighted this or was that just the terrible reporting across all new channels!?

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Gloriia · 20/10/2026 11:55

Westernised on the surface yes to attract all the money grabbing expats.

However it is a Muslim country and whilst may not do public executions like their close neighbours you will be judged and deported or imprisoned for years for things you'd get a fine for in the evil UK.

It isnt a place to bring up kids imo.

britindubai · 20/10/2026 11:55

RhododendronFlowers · 20/10/2026 11:53

So you're prepared to put up with it because you're cooler?

Going off topic a lot here aren’t we

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britindubai · 20/10/2026 11:56

Gloriia · 20/10/2026 11:55

Westernised on the surface yes to attract all the money grabbing expats.

However it is a Muslim country and whilst may not do public executions like their close neighbours you will be judged and deported or imprisoned for years for things you'd get a fine for in the evil UK.

It isnt a place to bring up kids imo.

Good for you to stay well away then

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britindubai · 20/10/2026 11:57

RhododendronFlowers · 20/10/2026 11:54

You don't have to have gay friends, or even acquaintances, to value equality, safety, inclusion and diversity.

All for inclusion but I’m hardly going to fight against the choice of a Muslim country, that would be mental

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WinterAfternoons · 20/10/2026 11:57

Wantingachangeoflif3 · 20/10/2026 11:40

Yes, a lot of anti dubai on mumsnet. Ive never been. My husband lived and studied there two decades ago. I cant really see myself going as ive heard about the wretched treatment towards foreign workers which is rather upsetting and has put me in two minds.

Is it true, its less religious now and more "westernised" I.e beer in cafes and such...

Alcohol is available in hotels and also licensed alcohol shops for which you technically need a permit (though I don’t think we ever got one).

I’m not sure how religiosity would express itself, really, given that Emiratis are less than 10% of the population of Dubai now.

One thing that’s changed and that is indicative since we lived there is the weekend. Traditionally, the weekend of a Muslim country was Thursday and Friday (Friday being the holy day for mosque attendance), but that messed with the working week being out of synch internationally, which damaged business, so when we lived there in the 2000s, the weekend was Friday and Saturday, and the working week started on Sunday. Now weekends in Dubai are Saturday and Sunday, to bring it fully in line with the working week in the world at large. So I suppose that’s an example of commercial practices winning out over religious ones.

Ramadan still, involved no one, including non-Muslims, permitted to eat or drink in public during daylight hours, and hotel meals and some cafes and restaurants being served behind curtains/screens, but if you went into the loo in a mall during the day, there was a lot of munching coming from cubicles. The crazy driving as thirsty fasting people with low blood sugar sped towards iftar at dusk was definitely a thing.

It certainly didn’t strike me as in any way a devout place when we lived there. It’s a consumer paradise. The ‘Christmas’ equivalent is the Dubai Festival of Shopping.😃

RhododendronFlowers · 20/10/2026 11:57

britindubai · 20/10/2026 11:55

Going off topic a lot here aren’t we

Are we? It's you who had made the posts. I'm just replying.

Duvetstay · 20/10/2026 11:58

britindubai · 20/10/2026 08:47

Why would I need the UK government to help me, help me do what exactly?

Have Foreign Office intervention if things kicked off the region?

Have an abortion (could be lifesaving for you)?

Maintain a free press?

RhododendronFlowers · 20/10/2026 11:58

britindubai · 20/10/2026 11:57

All for inclusion but I’m hardly going to fight against the choice of a Muslim country, that would be mental

No indeed, that's very clear.

hedgeknight · 20/10/2026 11:58

britindubai · 20/10/2026 11:51

Quite possibly not but it’s a lot cooler in temperature

Worth taking the risk?

And ofcourse you will be using public services despite the UK being on its knees

RhododendronFlowers · 20/10/2026 11:59

britindubai · 20/10/2026 11:54

Ok fair, perhaps I was strong with my choice of words but it’s certainly under a lot of pressure, Covid highlighted this or was that just the terrible reporting across all new channels!?

Of course it's under a lot of pressure!
It's a liberal democracy with 70 million people! 🤣

britindubai · 20/10/2026 11:59

Duvetstay · 20/10/2026 11:58

Have Foreign Office intervention if things kicked off the region?

Have an abortion (could be lifesaving for you)?

Maintain a free press?

Don’t need any help with that but thanks for your insight

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toiletpaperthief · 20/10/2026 12:00

Starlia · 20/10/2026 11:50

What do you think is causing the economic decline in the UK?

I think this a question for an expert economist who is familiar with worldwide economy, not the OP who is most probably going to blame the financial demise of the UK on gays, immigrants and benefit cheaters.

Daygloboo · 20/10/2026 12:00

britindubai · 20/10/2026 07:35

The UAE is a Muslim country, why on earth would they support something that goes against their religion?

But ppl are born that way. It's just who they are. It's like a culture saying ' we dont approve of people with two legs'. Are you comfortable living in an ilogical country coz you like not paying tax. Will you pay tax when you come back to UK.

Duvetstay · 20/10/2026 12:01

britindubai · 20/10/2026 11:59

Don’t need any help with that but thanks for your insight

so you don't need a free press 😂

you'll never need an abortion for medical reasons or know anyone who may?

You can predict geopolitics??

I love sunshine and cash as much as the next person but can see a situation the above stuff may prove useful.

sittingonabeach · 20/10/2026 12:01

britindubai · 20/10/2026 11:57

All for inclusion but I’m hardly going to fight against the choice of a Muslim country, that would be mental

How can you be all for inclusion when you choose to bring your children up in a country that isn't for inclusion in any way. You are just in it for the money (and its not even you earning the money). What principles are you teaching your DC?

britindubai · 20/10/2026 12:02

hedgeknight · 20/10/2026 11:58

Worth taking the risk?

And ofcourse you will be using public services despite the UK being on its knees

Fair, I shouldn’t highlight how the British media portray the country with such doom and gloom on a daily basis.

But yes I have a home in the UK, family and friends

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Gloriia · 20/10/2026 12:02

Op, as I said upthread I worked in the ME years ago when young and stupid.

I regret it. I didn't research it or understand what the trade off was with the tax free wodge.

So tbh if I were you just be honest say 'yes we want to get lots of money in a short time, it is a shiny but shit country but there you go'. Just own it.

This nonsense that the UK is bad (expect in summer when it's not sweltering like the UAE) that Dubai is amazeballs is just silly.

Go on holiday there if must. Get your poor kids out of there asap.

sittingonabeach · 20/10/2026 12:03

So you will use the services when you return?

carkey26 · 20/10/2026 12:03

britindubai · 20/10/2026 08:54

Ok, another world wide problem to add to the list.

1/3 of all countries don’t accept homosexuals, what are you doing about it?

Well I suspect the posters who feel strongly about this probably aren't living in or contributing to the economy of those countries... Unlike you.

Your responses are so depressing. No concern whatsoever for anyone other than yourself, coupled with complete denial about the scale of the problem where you choose to live.

RhododendronFlowers · 20/10/2026 12:03

britindubai · 20/10/2026 12:02

Fair, I shouldn’t highlight how the British media portray the country with such doom and gloom on a daily basis.

But yes I have a home in the UK, family and friends

Oh the British media do, do they?
How many times have you trotted this hackneyed old phrase out?!
What are you reading/watching?

AutumnsFinallyHere · 20/10/2026 12:03

The thing about these treads is that when asked about slavery, the OP always wrings their hands and says “ooh, yeah, right, ooh - I’ve always felt a bit uncomfortable about that to be honest” .

But they never actually vote with their feet and go back home where it’s colder and they might have to pay their taxes…

DorsetKnobBiscuit · 20/10/2026 12:04

britindubai · 20/10/2026 12:02

Fair, I shouldn’t highlight how the British media portray the country with such doom and gloom on a daily basis.

But yes I have a home in the UK, family and friends

Do you own your own home in the UK and does someone live in and manage it whilst you're away?

hedgeknight · 20/10/2026 12:04

britindubai · 20/10/2026 12:02

Fair, I shouldn’t highlight how the British media portray the country with such doom and gloom on a daily basis.

But yes I have a home in the UK, family and friends

It's not all media portraying the UK with doom and gloom. And if you are here for months you will have noticed it yourself.

Which media outlets are you reading, watching?

Gloriia · 20/10/2026 12:04

britindubai · 20/10/2026 11:59

Don’t need any help with that but thanks for your insight

You live in the very unstable ME bit don't think you'll ever need FO assistance?

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