Page 33 | I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

AnyonesAnna · 2026-09-25T18:52:48+00:00

Single, childless and jobless I turned to sex work last month as my new career. AMA

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AnyonesAnna · Yesterday 17:57

LivelyGreyShark · Yesterday 17:20

There has to be other options, what about starting your own business if you can't be employed?

Not possible linked to why i can’t get a job x

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Dexternight · Yesterday 17:58

If you had a genuine choice, would you choose to do this job, @AnyonesAnna?
However you sugarcoat it, I struggle to believe that women are the winners in this game in the long term. You may feel mentally strong and empowered now, and you may have the confidence that you can leave whenever you want, but life changes and we don’t always know how we will feel years from now.
My concern is that when you are older or at your most vulnerable, the memories and experiences from this work may affect you in ways you cannot predict today. Money and a sense of empowerment in the present don't necessarily mean there won't be an emotional cost later.

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AnyonesAnna · Yesterday 18:00

Chatterlyssecret · Yesterday 17:10

Do you communicate with other women doing the same service? Is there a Facebook group or Whats app for you all to warn of problems you may encounter ?

There’s online reporting services with Ugly Mugs etc and the websites that are used x

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TalkToTheHand123 · Yesterday 18:03

Had any celebrity ex footballers? Choosing a job of easy money exploiting men. Such a terrible job!

Cailin66 · Yesterday 18:06

AnyonesAnna · Yesterday 18:00

There’s online reporting services with Ugly Mugs etc and the websites that are used x

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More questions…

Do you worry about being beaten up? Do you have some kind of system whereby a friend knows your with a client from say 3 to 4 in case anything goes wrong. Are you not afraid of each new client. I get repeat repeat clients you’re more relaxed with. What kind of gifts do they give you. Any invite you to dinner etc.

For the men, it’s a sexual release, a need, I get that. Do you think there is an emotional need too? It’s complicated I suppose. Can you give your views on that.

Ved · Yesterday 18:08

AnyonesAnna · Yesterday 17:57

Not possible linked to why i can’t get a job x

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Why won't you tell people why.

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AnyonesAnna · Yesterday 18:08

Dexternight · Yesterday 17:58

If you had a genuine choice, would you choose to do this job, @AnyonesAnna?
However you sugarcoat it, I struggle to believe that women are the winners in this game in the long term. You may feel mentally strong and empowered now, and you may have the confidence that you can leave whenever you want, but life changes and we don’t always know how we will feel years from now.
My concern is that when you are older or at your most vulnerable, the memories and experiences from this work may affect you in ways you cannot predict today. Money and a sense of empowerment in the present don't necessarily mean there won't be an emotional cost later.

I’m in a corner .. I can’t work conventionally and need an income.

Can’t borrow from family and friends forever and it’s destroying those relationships.

Ive found a way to generate income that I had never considered before.

no more .. no less than that really

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Winter2020 · Yesterday 18:08

shuggles · Yesterday 13:34

Did you see her profile on the website?

If not, why did you assume she uploaded a picture of her face? Why make things up?

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Because she said
“I don’t really want to share my active website profile as has my face photo all over it but is on the adult work website and Anna part of the name”

Ved · Yesterday 18:10

Dexternight · Yesterday 17:58

If you had a genuine choice, would you choose to do this job, @AnyonesAnna?
However you sugarcoat it, I struggle to believe that women are the winners in this game in the long term. You may feel mentally strong and empowered now, and you may have the confidence that you can leave whenever you want, but life changes and we don’t always know how we will feel years from now.
My concern is that when you are older or at your most vulnerable, the memories and experiences from this work may affect you in ways you cannot predict today. Money and a sense of empowerment in the present don't necessarily mean there won't be an emotional cost later.

Exactly. There is nothing 'empowering' whatsoever in what the OP is doing.

Same with women who have lots of sexual partners. They think it's 'empowering.' It's not, it's really not. It's just something women tell themselves to make themselves feel better.

KilkennyCats · Yesterday 18:10

AnyonesAnna · Yesterday 18:08

I’m in a corner .. I can’t work conventionally and need an income.

Can’t borrow from family and friends forever and it’s destroying those relationships.

Ive found a way to generate income that I had never considered before.

no more .. no less than that really

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Cant work conventionally. Yes, we know.

WHY?

Newsenmum · Yesterday 18:15

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:06

Despite working all my life since 18, due to personal reasons that I can’t go into, it’s been a struggle the last 2/3 years to get conventional full time consistent employment, unless I want to work nights in a factory on shifts in chilled environments which cause my muscles in my hands etc to cramp so not viable.
I’ve had 1/2 bordering negative experiences so far which weren’t bad enough to put me off.
I already have 2 non exclusive sugar daddies - which means I get a minimum monthly allowance for 8 x 1 hour appointments each per month.

If factory work makes your hands cramp surelt this will…

do you choose what you do? How do you get in the mood?

how on earth did you work out how to do this?

throwawayimplantchat · Yesterday 18:23

AnyonesAnna · Yesterday 17:57

Not possible linked to why i can’t get a job x

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Starting to sound like it’s maybe due to a conviction for something like fraud that makes it hard to get employment and also restricts your ability to explore things like starting a company. Though I’m sure there are options worth exploring before becoming a sex worker.

Dexternight · Yesterday 18:24

AnyonesAnna · Yesterday 18:08

I’m in a corner .. I can’t work conventionally and need an income.

Can’t borrow from family and friends forever and it’s destroying those relationships.

Ive found a way to generate income that I had never considered before.

no more .. no less than that really

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Conventional work is the option many women take. So you can too.

You can leave the work, but you can’t
necessarily leave the memories and
experiences behind. Sometimes it’s when
we are older or more vulnerable that things from
our past can affect us differently.

It really is an expensive price to pay.

Spiderx · Yesterday 18:30

Spiderx · Yesterday 10:52

For me and any other Alans out there ,can't you use 'Fred' instead pls ?! ☹️

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Oi ! Lol 😊

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 18:38

Winter2020 · Yesterday 18:08

Because she said
“I don’t really want to share my active website profile as has my face photo all over it but is on the adult work website and Anna part of the name”

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So it's on the Adult Workers website?

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 18:39

Why has this been moved to 30 Days?

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AnyonesAnna · Yesterday 18:48

Shall I tell you all a story (which some of you may say I’m making up) … about being contacted by a previous boss from my previous life’s normal work, after he saw my profile and knew it was me?

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AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 18:50

AnyonesAnna · Yesterday 18:48

Shall I tell you all a story (which some of you may say I’m making up) … about being contacted by a previous boss from my previous life’s normal work, after he saw my profile and knew it was me?

You mean he was a potential client?

What happened next?

LittleMi55Nobody · Yesterday 18:51

Allisnotlost1 · 25/09/2026 21:32

Why did I read that in Peggy Mitchell’s voice?

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lol...sorry i was pissed when i wrote that xxxx

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AnyonesAnna · Yesterday 18:53

Cailin66 · Yesterday 18:06