I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

Bit foolish to be cancelling at short notice when you're so new to the scene isnt it? I'd have thought the first few weeks in a job like this is your peak - when everyone wants a go. You dont want a poor reputation when the shine wears off do you?

What is your problem?

What do you mean?
Is it ever a good idea for people starting out in a career to cancel at the last minute? Do prostitutes not rely on repeat business and reputation?

Bit tired, the suns out, and the one I cancelled I hadn’t seen before … just trying to give myself a break to ensure I provide a good service to other clients over the next week x

I mean you clearly have a problem (and to be fair, so do many people on the thread), your disingenuous "who, me?" crap isn't fooling anyone, and I'd like to know what the problem is. Because whatever it is, it shouldn't be with OP, it should be with the johns.

Why? Op is choosing to do it, there’s no coercion from the “johns”. They’re buying a service op is offering for sale.

I mean you clearly have a problem (and to be fair, so do many people on the thread), your disingenuous "who, me?" crap isn't fooling anyone, and I'd like to know what the problem is. Because whatever it is, it shouldn't be with OP, it should be with the johns.

I feel I have more self worth … I started off with low self esteem and low confidence.

I know it’s based on sex but now have multiple men of all ages buying me gifts and requesting to pay for time with me multiple times a day.

My self esteem, confidence and self worth has gone through the roof!

Im not looking for a husband or Richard Gere. And I have little emotional attachment to sex. But I’m feeling more in control of my life and better within myself.

I mean you clearly have a problem (and to be fair, so do many people on the thread), your disingenuous "who, me?" crap isn't fooling anyone, and I'd like to know what the problem is. Because whatever it is, it shouldn't be with OP, it should be with the johns.

This is such an interesting perspective as it's kind of the opposite of what you'd expect but it makes sense. Thanks for sharing!

Doesn't bode well given you're only a few weeks in does it? Cancelling and needing breaks after seeing 1 client a day already? Don't you worry about it being sustainable?

I can well believe there's plenty of men in their 70s/80s willing to pay for sex/cuddles in bed with a woman in her 50s. The men feel it's a more likely 'partnership' and don't want to feel like a perv which they might do with a younger woman.
I'm in my 50s and have had a few older men trying it on, some married.

I have a problem with both actually. Paying for sex is gross and I think OP is being disingenuous. But this is an AMA, not a "support me blindly"...

You think OP is being disingenuous, with the "wot, it's just career advice innit" stuff you were doing a few minutes ago?

OP is clearly vulnerable; she can't make money any other way. Even Dr Brooke Magnanti, the ultimate emancipated, middle class, educated, high end call girl only did it until she could do something else. Put your judgement where it actually belongs, with the johns and the system that creates this vulnerability. At least there it might do some good.

Actually I dont think OP is vulnerable in the slightest, I think its all made up... but whatever.

I also think made up

but anyone who makes this all up is going to be pretty vulnerable and lonely don’t you think?

I’ve had 1 x 60 min repeat client already done, 1 x 30 min cancellation and 1 x 30 min appointment I cancelled as want to have rest of day off at this point x

Still perverted with that age difference

Actually I dont think OP is vulnerable in the slightest, I think its all made up... but whatever.

Bit tired, the suns out, and the one I cancelled I hadn’t seen before … just trying to give myself a break to ensure I provide a good service to other clients over the next week x