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I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 19:52

Single, childless and jobless I turned to sex work last month as my new career. AMA

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Ved · Yesterday 10:12

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:11

🤣🤣 he's a busy man!

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😆 I know right. Complimenting all these 50-something year old women, telling them they look 20 years younger. 😂

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 10:12

AnyonesAnna · Yesterday 09:49

It’s not actually full sex every appointment… believe it or not x

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So who chooses? Oral or a hand job?

Why can't you get other work?

Factory work at night is not the only work out there.

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 10:13

ExpectMore · Yesterday 09:54

What are you going to put on your tax return?

Come on.

We know the answer- no tax return.

Ved · Yesterday 10:14

Bobbieiris · Yesterday 09:31

Is this for real? At 50 aren't you way too old for sugar daddies? I thought a sugar baby had to be a young girl in her 20s? I have to say it doesn't sound like a safe or sensible decision of this post is true

Exactly. No sugar baby (who has a sugar daddy) is in her 50s!

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 10:14

Do you have neighbours?

Can they see all these men coming and going?

Daygloboo · Yesterday 10:15

Ved · Yesterday 10:11

You have quoted the wrong person. I never said anything about the safety of sex workers, I was responding to a ludicrous statement from a poster who said most women turn to prostitution to make ends meet, which is of course, a ludicrous and inaccurate statement!

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Oh apologies. It was that one who said so long as they are safe.

Ved · Yesterday 10:15

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 10:12

So who chooses? Oral or a hand job?

Why can't you get other work?

Factory work at night is not the only work out there.

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For some reason the OP is 100% determined to not answer the question as to why she can't get any other work.

Youneedas · Yesterday 10:15

Ved · Yesterday 10:14

Exactly. No sugar baby (who has a sugar daddy) is in her 50s!

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I imagine this supposed sugar daddy would also laugh at the idea he’s the sugar daddy of someone 5 years younger than him!

Ved · Yesterday 10:16

Boomer55 · Yesterday 09:36

Nor have I - Sugar Dadddies usually want females many decades younger. Which would make them about 90 😳

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Exactly! 😆

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:16

tiredtiredd · Yesterday 10:11

I’m 83 and often get mistaken for someone in their late teens

It's quite common.
When I turned 60 my neighbour asked me if I was going to university after I finished school.

Ved · Yesterday 10:18

tiredtiredd · Yesterday 10:11

I’m 83 and often get mistaken for someone in their late teens

😂

Awww baby face! 👶

Daygloboo · Yesterday 10:18

Flannelfeet · 25/09/2026 23:56

Wonder if a brass band walked up the street in praise? 🤭.

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😄

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 10:20

Ved · Yesterday 10:15

For some reason the OP is 100% determined to not answer the question as to why she can't get any other work.

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Yes, so it can presumably be criminality as if it was a health issue, she'd say.

Ved · Yesterday 10:20

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:16

It's quite common.
When I turned 60 my neighbour asked me if I was going to university after I finished school.

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😂😂😂

I'm in my early 50s, and so is my DH, and my neighbour down the road stopped him in the street last week and asked him why he's living with his grand-daughter. Grin

Ved · Yesterday 10:21

Daygloboo · Yesterday 10:15

Oh apologies. It was that one who said so long as they are safe.

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That's OK. 😘

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:21

Ved · Yesterday 10:20

😂😂😂

I'm in my early 50s, and so is my DH, and my neighbour down the road stopped him in the street last week and asked him why he's living with his grand-daughter. Grin

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🤣🤣

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 10:21

OP if you have a record and that is why you can't get work, why not say?

It's either that or you simply can't be bothered to do other work and choose sex work as an easier option.

Thehop · Yesterday 10:22

I'd do this if I was single

Left · Yesterday 10:25

Where do you meet clients? (Not the address, but
location type - hotel, your home, etc. curious about the logistics)

How do you ensure safety for yourself?

Have you ever felt at risk?

Is the reason you’re excluded from mainstream work a criminal record?

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:25

Thehop · Yesterday 10:22

I'd do this if I was single

Why?

Namechangetheyarewatching · Yesterday 10:27

So many jealous women, perhaps they think their husbands would be tempted because the wives dont have sex often.

How many times do we hear that in a thread about their marriage, "oh I dont have time for all that now and the husband is perfectly happy."

Its almost the sex workers fault for providing a service

Anyway, if your happy, safe and not doing it to feed a habit, or to cover mental health or sexual assault issues then crack on.

If I didn't have a husband I might consider it, as I'm in my 50s but look in my 40s

tiredtiredd · Yesterday 10:28

Namechangetheyarewatching · Yesterday 10:27

So many jealous women, perhaps they think their husbands would be tempted because the wives dont have sex often.

How many times do we hear that in a thread about their marriage, "oh I dont have time for all that now and the husband is perfectly happy."

Its almost the sex workers fault for providing a service

Anyway, if your happy, safe and not doing it to feed a habit, or to cover mental health or sexual assault issues then crack on.

If I didn't have a husband I might consider it, as I'm in my 50s but look in my 40s

Jealous that someone is selling themselves for what seems way too cheap? Op is putting herself at risk. It’s never safe.

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:28

Namechangetheyarewatching · Yesterday 10:27

So many jealous women, perhaps they think their husbands would be tempted because the wives dont have sex often.

How many times do we hear that in a thread about their marriage, "oh I dont have time for all that now and the husband is perfectly happy."

Its almost the sex workers fault for providing a service

Anyway, if your happy, safe and not doing it to feed a habit, or to cover mental health or sexual assault issues then crack on.

If I didn't have a husband I might consider it, as I'm in my 50s but look in my 40s

Oh my god, that's what you got from this thread? Do you know what most sex workers have to put up with, what their lives are like?
You think women on here are jealous? 🤔

Youneedas · Yesterday 10:34

Namechangetheyarewatching · Yesterday 10:27

So many jealous women, perhaps they think their husbands would be tempted because the wives dont have sex often.

How many times do we hear that in a thread about their marriage, "oh I dont have time for all that now and the husband is perfectly happy."

Its almost the sex workers fault for providing a service

Anyway, if your happy, safe and not doing it to feed a habit, or to cover mental health or sexual assault issues then crack on.

If I didn't have a husband I might consider it, as I'm in my 50s but look in my 40s

You have just made a total t*t of yourself @Namechangetheyarewatching !!

BunnyLake · Yesterday 10:34

KnickerlessParsons · Yesterday 10:02

If would be easier to sell your used knickers on line. I hear that’s quite lucrative.

Or, apparently, showing your feet.