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I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 19:52

Single, childless and jobless I turned to sex work last month as my new career. AMA

OP posts:
FriendlyMedusa · Yesterday 10:35

Having been a FSSW in my 20's, I'm not buying this thread I'm afraid. 3 clients a day in your first month is the kind of rate only someone with pre-existing fame can achieve, especially if you won't do anything besides protected vanilla PIV. I would believe that rate only if OP was not vetting, doing everything, and not using protection.

A lot of my friends are still SWs (attractive and late 20's) and see about 2-3 clients per week. The less popular ones (plus size and alternative) maybe 1 a fortnight. They are constantly pressured to do unprotected and ghosted by fantasists with no £.

It's a nice idea that you could rake in 4 figures in a week, but it's not the reality for the overwhelming majority.

Namechangetheyarewatching · Yesterday 10:35

Lots of you are putting her down, saying she cant look younger, she must have a saggy belly, who would want a 50yr old, she is lying about a tax return, she cant be telling the truth about younger clients etc etc

If you are genuinely interested then ask genuine questions, stop being so nasty and bitchy.

Yes sex workers are at risk, but women are at risk anyway.

And I dont doubt that many young men want someone to talk with, to have sex with and are happy to pay. Older men as well some have no idea how to hold onto a relationship and want sex. And as we know many husbands are happy to pay for sex, possibly because they dont get sex in their marriage.

BunnyLake · Yesterday 10:36

Namechangetheyarewatching · Yesterday 10:27

So many jealous women, perhaps they think their husbands would be tempted because the wives dont have sex often.

How many times do we hear that in a thread about their marriage, "oh I dont have time for all that now and the husband is perfectly happy."

Its almost the sex workers fault for providing a service

Anyway, if your happy, safe and not doing it to feed a habit, or to cover mental health or sexual assault issues then crack on.

If I didn't have a husband I might consider it, as I'm in my 50s but look in my 40s

Please explain the jealousy angle to those of us who must be a bit thick.

ValueofNothing · Yesterday 10:36

I haven't RTFT but I'm surprised by all the people who can't imagine why OP can't get a regular job. Probably this says a lot about my upbringing but I assumed it was well known that it's almost impossible to get a regular job if you've been in prison. So that was my first assumption for OP.

There is quite a drive for ex-cons to set up their own businesses for this exact reason. Sounds like that's what OP's doing. I don't blame her, you've got to survive somehow.

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:37

Youneedas · Yesterday 10:34

You have just made a total t*t of yourself @Namechangetheyarewatching !!

...but, but.. she's in her 50s and looks in her 40s!
Is it that neighbour again?.😂

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AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 10:40

FriendlyMedusa · Yesterday 10:35

Having been a FSSW in my 20's, I'm not buying this thread I'm afraid. 3 clients a day in your first month is the kind of rate only someone with pre-existing fame can achieve, especially if you won't do anything besides protected vanilla PIV. I would believe that rate only if OP was not vetting, doing everything, and not using protection.

A lot of my friends are still SWs (attractive and late 20's) and see about 2-3 clients per week. The less popular ones (plus size and alternative) maybe 1 a fortnight. They are constantly pressured to do unprotected and ghosted by fantasists with no £.

It's a nice idea that you could rake in 4 figures in a week, but it's not the reality for the overwhelming majority.

Didn't one of her posts say she worked through/ advertised through an agency?

If so is this a covert advert for that agency/ website?

Would they come to MN and say how easy it is to earn £xxxx a month?

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 10:43

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:37

...but, but.. she's in her 50s and looks in her 40s!
Is it that neighbour again?.😂

It is quite possible to look 10 years younger. I have a friend who looks years younger and people tell her that.

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:43

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 10:43

It is quite possible to look 10 years younger. I have a friend who looks years younger and people tell her that.

Of course. It happens on MN all the time. I look at least 30 years younger.

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 10:45

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:43

Of course. It happens on MN all the time. I look at least 30 years younger.

No, let's be serious, 10 years isn't that much. There are women who do look much younger so it's not impossible. Just like some look much older than they are.

BunnyLake · Yesterday 10:46

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 10:40

Didn't one of her posts say she worked through/ advertised through an agency?

If so is this a covert advert for that agency/ website?

Would they come to MN and say how easy it is to earn £xxxx a month?

Well I’m going to sign up, I’m a sucker for buying into adverts. I’m 65 but could easily pass for 64, so I think I’ll do well.

tiredtiredd · Yesterday 10:47

ValueofNothing · Yesterday 10:36

I haven't RTFT but I'm surprised by all the people who can't imagine why OP can't get a regular job. Probably this says a lot about my upbringing but I assumed it was well known that it's almost impossible to get a regular job if you've been in prison. So that was my first assumption for OP.

There is quite a drive for ex-cons to set up their own businesses for this exact reason. Sounds like that's what OP's doing. I don't blame her, you've got to survive somehow.

Most people actually are assuming it’s to do with a criminal record but op won’t say

FirmSnake · Yesterday 10:48

ValueofNothing · Yesterday 10:36

I haven't RTFT but I'm surprised by all the people who can't imagine why OP can't get a regular job. Probably this says a lot about my upbringing but I assumed it was well known that it's almost impossible to get a regular job if you've been in prison. So that was my first assumption for OP.

There is quite a drive for ex-cons to set up their own businesses for this exact reason. Sounds like that's what OP's doing. I don't blame her, you've got to survive somehow.

If you did read the thread, you'd know we all worked that out yesterday...

KilkennyCats · Yesterday 10:49

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 10:43

It is quite possible to look 10 years younger. I have a friend who looks years younger and people tell her that.

What people? If it’s random strangers, then it’s clearly obvious that while she looks good for her age, she’s not actually ten years younger?

If they thought she was, there’d be no need to mention it.

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:49

BunnyLake · Yesterday 10:46

Well I’m going to sign up, I’m a sucker for buying into adverts. I’m 65 but could easily pass for 64, so I think I’ll do well.

Go for it. You look so young!

EvieBB · Yesterday 10:50

AnyonesAnna · Yesterday 09:07

They come fresh and clean.
Cash.
Sometimes.

Nothing in particular re stomach - fortunately.

Ooh...where are your photos please OP? I can't see any??

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:50

KilkennyCats · Yesterday 10:49

What people? If it’s random strangers, then it’s clearly obvious that while she looks good for her age, she’s not actually ten years younger?

If they thought she was, there’d be no need to mention it.

Oh, it's all nonsense. There's usually a thread a week on here about it!

Spiderx · Yesterday 10:52

Orangeyoucan · 25/09/2026 20:10

Whatever you say Alan, ahem,… sorry, I mean Anna. Course you could 😂

For me and any other Alans out there ,can't you use 'Fred' instead pls ?! ☹️

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 10:53

Turning this round a bit, I find it hard to understand sex work now as there are so many websites for hook-ups where men and women are happy with ONS.
Why would men pau for it unless they get some extra kick out of the fact they are paying?

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:53

AllezAllezPronto · Yesterday 10:45

No, let's be serious, 10 years isn't that much. There are women who do look much younger so it's not impossible. Just like some look much older than they are.

Let's be serious. Random people tell others they look 10/20 years younger? It means nothing, if it ever happens.
Of course it happens to me because I genuinely look at least 10 years younger and everyone tells me so.

RelishingGrpSupport · Yesterday 10:54

Have you mainly been brave or daring at times in life? Big thing to try.

Ved · Yesterday 10:57

BunnyLake · Yesterday 10:36

Please explain the jealousy angle to those of us who must be a bit thick.

Yep this. It's laughable to suggest that the posters being negative about what the OP does are all jealous.

For goodness sake. 🙄 It makes me feel queasy and nauseous to even think about what the OP is doing. How could anyone possibly be jealous? Confused

And before anyone says 'coz of the the money the OP claims they are earning,' you have no idea how much other posters earn.

Plus, I would rather work for the national minimum wage in B & M on the checkouts than do what she's doing. Nothing would make me do it. Nothing!

Cardomomle · Yesterday 10:59

Ved · Yesterday 10:57

Yep this. It's laughable to suggest that the posters being negative about what the OP does are all jealous.

For goodness sake. 🙄 It makes me feel queasy and nauseous to even think about what the OP is doing. How could anyone possibly be jealous? Confused

And before anyone says 'coz of the the money the OP claims they are earning,' you have no idea how much other posters earn.

Plus, I would rather work for the national minimum wage in B & M on the checkouts than do what she's doing. Nothing would make me do it. Nothing!

This ⬆️.
Honestly, any job would be better than dealing with these sleazy punters and their sexual demands.

Beachtastic · Yesterday 11:03

Lipstone · Yesterday 07:51

Some men like older women , older than themselves or older than the norm of what is traditionally desirable.

As I get older, I realise men like so many different things. It really is enough to be a women, you are going to be up someone's alley.

However, op doesn't explicitly state she is offering a milf experience/has massive tits and I think thats what quite a few younger guys want in an over 40 yo.

Not sure about the older guys, the 50yo seeing her x8 per month.....?

Also, 3 men a day is a lot of men. Perhaps the price is right

Yes, the older I get the more I realise that some men are happy to just find a woman with a pulse who will have sex with them. Sometimes the pulse is optional.

Sceptical of this thread though TBH

tiredtiredd · Yesterday 11:04

Do you claim any benefits?