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I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

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AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 19:52

Single, childless and jobless I turned to sex work last month as my new career. AMA

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126Doubts · 25/09/2026 22:58

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 22:52

I wish but I’ve tried and can’t x if I gave away sectors it might give away identity x but avenues are exhausted x

You don’t have to give away specifics. Do you think you could do hospitality as in hotel reception staff, booking people in, and you get good perks yourself for board and travel for instance. Or something similar ?

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 22:58

Gwenna · 25/09/2026 22:56

I’m not sure I can devote myself full time to the old sex work… At night, I like to just sit down and have a nice cup of tea ☕️

Edited

Just restrict your working hours to 12-5 … easy peasy

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dustabsorber · 25/09/2026 22:58

Work is a physical or mental effort directed toward producing a result or achieving a purpose according to google. There appears to be effort and a result, so its work.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 25/09/2026 22:59

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 19:59

It's sexual exploitation. Consent can't be purchased

And yet here is OP, freely selling her Consent.

If it can be freely sold, it stands to reason then it can also be purchased.

HauntedBungalow · 25/09/2026 22:59

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 22:55

The hugger?

Oh come on, you can do better than that. What about the ones who like to piss on your face, strangle you and fuck you up the arse? You're over 35 so that must be most of your clients.

LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 22:59

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 22:45

Already described my loose belly skin and I show it in my underwear shots online . It’s not bad enough imo for surgery - photo was from years ago and alot smaller tighter now x

Did you use weight loss jabs?

Maisymouse2 · 25/09/2026 22:59

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:08

I can put up with 8 hours of it a month for 4 figures in my bank account in return.

Or go on hrt.

Jane3212 · 25/09/2026 23:00

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 20:54

The men want older women they can have a conversation and some pillow talk after with … 2/3 of the men I’ve seen in the last week have been between 28-32 good looking, lovely men, and one a lawyer another an engineer … each paid me £140 for an hour of my time.

It’s completely nuts I agree, I’m just sharing what I’ve experienced.

But you do get old codgers too … but it’s about gradually filtering out who you’d see again or regularly, and who not …

Thanks for the reply. I don't think it's nuts, plenty of older people are attractive. But I am a bit suprised since men do tend to put younger women as their ideal of attractiveness.

Re pillow talk: are younger women also not able to offer this? I'd imagine they probably could : maybe some of these men feel safer with an older woman if they aren't very experienced?

Do you find these clients tend to not be having much sex in their everyday lives? Or do they just want a different experience?

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 23:01

126Doubts · 25/09/2026 22:58

You don’t have to give away specifics. Do you think you could do hospitality as in hotel reception staff, booking people in, and you get good perks yourself for board and travel for instance. Or something similar ?

Edited

I could do that work but I wouldn’t get the job x

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seahorsessky · 25/09/2026 23:01

MeowDoku · 25/09/2026 19:54

It's not work. Work comes with rights and regulations.

What term would you use-thought everyone used the term sex worker now? Escort isn't really the same (as there are people who do the plus-one thing without sex, so I wouldn't tend to use that term).

Cardomomle · 25/09/2026 23:02

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 23:01

I could do that work but I wouldn’t get the job x

Why not?

126Doubts · 25/09/2026 23:02

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 23:01

I could do that work but I wouldn’t get the job x

Why not ?

LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 23:03

seahorsessky · 25/09/2026 23:01

What term would you use-thought everyone used the term sex worker now? Escort isn't really the same (as there are people who do the plus-one thing without sex, so I wouldn't tend to use that term).

Bet they are few and far between without the sex. Escorts are prostitutes not pretend girlfriends. That was just a polite term.

Flannelfeet · 25/09/2026 23:04

Cardomomle · 25/09/2026 22:55

England, but I went to Glasgow University. No shortage of local volunteers for clinicals and drug trials. Quite the experience!

🤣 so you definitely know the lingo then?!. What did you study?. 🤣🤣🤣 aye I bet...bet it was "id gee anythin ah try fur a hawf bottle ae buckie, mate" 😬. Sheeh. Thankfully im more upper class and gave that up in 1997 (Buckie that is). Moved on to the more fancy gins 🤭

DurinsBane · 25/09/2026 23:04

126Doubts · 25/09/2026 23:02

Why not ?

Criminal record?

Cardomomle · 25/09/2026 23:04

What is your home country?

LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 23:04

@AnyonesAnna I asked you earlier about any outfits you've been asked to wear?

Jane3212 · 25/09/2026 23:05

AnyonesAnna · 25/09/2026 21:15

I actually have little emotional attachment to sex and see it all as acting. That may be weird and when clients say ‘cos you want it’, I have to agree through gritted teeth because of course that’s what they need to hear. But I’m not the one having to pay for sex with a sex worker.

That seems a shame. Have you ever had a fulfilling sexual relationship which didn't involve acting?

GarlicSomething · 25/09/2026 23:05

BrickMaker · 25/09/2026 22:57

Sex work is work

Hmm. So Jobcentres should be able to put claimants on the game?

Maisymouse2 · 25/09/2026 23:05

Why are so many women in the Uk so anti this lifestyle choice?
How do you protect yourself from the emotional need from these men? Miserable divorced men etc
Do you use a hotel?

Cardomomle · 25/09/2026 23:05

Flannelfeet · 25/09/2026 23:04

🤣 so you definitely know the lingo then?!. What did you study?. 🤣🤣🤣 aye I bet...bet it was "id gee anythin ah try fur a hawf bottle ae buckie, mate" 😬. Sheeh. Thankfully im more upper class and gave that up in 1997 (Buckie that is). Moved on to the more fancy gins 🤭

Dentistry. Doing the practice was grand, they rarely needed anaesthetic.

Ved · 25/09/2026 23:06

HauntedBungalow · 25/09/2026 22:59

Oh come on, you can do better than that. What about the ones who like to piss on your face, strangle you and fuck you up the arse? You're over 35 so that must be most of your clients.

Exactly.

And when someone asks for one of the OP's 'crazy stories' that they're dying to tell us, they say 'the hugger.' ??? 😆

Mondaytuesdayhappydays · 25/09/2026 23:06

How do you advertise your services ?
How did you get 2 sugar daddies?

LuckyHazelFox · 25/09/2026 23:06

An AMA without the answers. Oh well.

Ved · 25/09/2026 23:07

Mondaytuesdayhappydays · 25/09/2026 23:06

How do you advertise your services ?
How did you get 2 sugar daddies?

They're not sugar daddies. They're 5 years older than the OP.