I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

This thread alone shows how much people, even women, heap the sexual shame on women and give men a fairly easy ride (see also endless threads about affairs vilifying OW from dawn to dusk even if those OW were themselves single, and barely giving a breath to the cheating man... and calling it most righteous "karma" when a cheating man cheats on his former OW and gets more cheating sex forever - this is all in the same wheelhouse).

The guy lives in a world with an absolute tidal wave of pornography waiting for him and the scales of shame for lack of sexual ethics are entirely one sided; there's a crumb in the pan for men, and the pan for women is on the ground, groaning with the weight. Why wouldn't he force this issue? Getting one over on her was probably what got him off.

I think it’s great you are making money off it and a lot of people might consider it too if the price is right.

I actually think most marriages are low level sex work so I have no problem with it at all and think fair play to you.

Sorry I missed this reply but do you get the money up front?

No, not really. Far from it.

Many people think carefully about what is best for the long term.

You must feel horrendous shame about the reasons why you can't be employed, if it's so awful that you won't share it. Is there an end date, after which you can be employed?

Most marriages a low level sex work?
You'd consider it yourself?
Perhaps you need to look up what happens to sex workers, how they are regularly abused, assaulted and raped. How men who pay for them feel entitled to use them as they please. Many sex workers come from abusive backgrounds for this reason. Many are trafficked and addicted to alcohol and drugs.
Read @OtterlyAstounding's personal account upthread.
Pretty Woman it ain't.

OP, please ignore the people so obviously trying to manipulate you into sharing information about why you can't work. You don't have to tell us this, you don't have to tell us anything. It's Ask Me Anything, not Ask Me Anything And I Am Compelled To Answer.

Maybe it's just that women don't want to see other women feel like there's no other option of there than to prostitute themselves and sell their body to these disgusting men?

Maybe they can help and advise OP on more meaningful ways she can earn money without resorting to being exploited.

You weren't sexually attractive to him then.

You are now. Now you're a woman he can pay to have sex with and use a d discard 🤷

Maybe you still aren't. Maybe it's the power and domination. Perhaps the money is worth less to him than it is to you.

Oh don't kid yourself. They're not sniffing around trying to not so subtly shame and sneer her into telling them why she can't work a normal job because they're such concerned feminist altruists. Read the stuff. They're just nosy and prurient and clearly think that if OP sells sex she somehow owes them this personal information.

Maybe he's used to paying more? You should increase your prices!

Nonsense m it's a power thing.

If he was attracted to you he wouldn't be paying foryou to have sex with him.

Exactly.

I think if this thread had been started 4 weeks ago with OP saying she could not be employed , get through DBS, and needed some income, posters would have been very helpful.

You're the one sneering though at posters who genuinely would like to know why she can't work.

Using words like 'sneering' is very emotive and I don't think anyone here is doing that, it's only your take on it.

Would you do a discount for a pensioner?