I’m 50 and became a sex worker last month AMA

You’re a bit long in the tooth for this carry on. I imagine you have quite a bit of competition. Do you have a drug habit?

You're missing out on the before work guys! I'm reliably informed it's a brisk trade - and they're mostly short visits, less of that repetitive 'conversation'. Give 'em eggs, toast and a cuppa before they leave, they'll be yours for life.

Well I think you're doing better than all these women in miserable marriages with husband's who treat them like shit and dont even really want to have sex with them anymore. At least you're having sex, having fun and getting paid!!

Yeah i dont want to work...i have too.

Jesus, no there aren't! Possibly some male escorts get an occasional arm-candy gig, but every female one is a prostitute.

As long as you’re safe Op, you crack on & do you!

Perhaps the younger, non paid for women won't consent to certain acts? Do you think these wealthy, handsome, educated young men have certain.....tastes?

Perhaps there is more of it than you, and I thought. This version has a tinge of desperation in it.

Sugar older brothers?

Exactly. None of these men are paying for just a chat, a cup of tea, and a 2 minute PIV shag. Come one, we're all grown ups here. We know what men who pay for sex want!

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Ewwwww. 😖

Jobcentres do not create the posts they advertise, and while Prostitution itself is not illegal, pimping and brothel-keeping is, so I don't think you're going to see anyone advertising vacant positions for prostitutes in your local Jobcentre any time soon.

Thanks, that's interesting.

It sounds to me like the fact these are less 'high maintenance' than dating younger women is surely at least partly because younger women dating may well want a long term commitment. Whereas that's obviously not what you need, it's no strings aside from the money & you're not emotionally involved so it's less complex.

Oh jings...i hate the dentist 😬😬😬 🤣. Im scared from you now 😢🤣. Aye i bet, doped up on frosty jack cider and buckfast. Sheesh 🤭. Bet you went through a lot of cotton wool stuff to stem the blood because it was that thin with all the jake juice 🤭🤣.

It's the same principle because its still prostitution but a sugar daddy is usually old enough to be your father, hence the 'daddy' bit.

Op says she doesn't enjoy sex though, it's all acting. Which makes sense to me.
I think if you enjoy sex a lot it would be harder to do it as a full time job where you'd need to detach, maybe take clients you weren't super into, etc

And perhaps they want commitment etc

Ah, those sessions were pure joy!
"Dinnae mind, just tak them oh oot hen"

Already happened. It went on for months until complaints reached critical mass (and the national media). DWP put better filters in, but apparently some still sneak through. At least the advisors have now been told not to sanction young women for turning down those 'jobs'.

Why cant you get any other job?

You share what you do now, so how cant sharing why you cant get a job be worse?

Do you not worry you will regret this if you ever were to want to get in a relationship in the future?

My ex split up with his ex of 12 years with 2 kids together after he found out she was a sex worker before they met. He tried for 6 months to get over it before the split but just couldn't

Sure, the old prostitution is great larks and all men want is someone to talk to. You'll never find a man so respectful as a man who's paid £100 for a woman's fanny. Most prostitutes are putting themselves through law school to get a better life for their kiddies. These are all well known facts.

Yes. I hear that porn has had a terrible impact as well. The rise in strangulation etc. some sick stuff, and women are at risk.
Sex workers have always been high risk of course.

Have you ever felt unsafe? What would you do if you did? What do you do if a client is extremely unattractive or unhygienic?