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Lindsay Clancy case: was it evil, or severe mental illness?

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KellyK2026 · 04/09/2026 16:50

Lindsay Clancy, what do we all think? Pure evil or mentally ill?

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MissMoneyFairy · 05/09/2026 19:50

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 19:46

Given what happened to his dc he’s not going to be feeling too amenable to LC.

Of course not, it's just so sad and the failings are unbelievable, so many people knew she had deteriorating mental illness and had talked about being scared of harming her children but she was never formally detained and was left in charge of the children. That's what is hard to understand, why weren't the children removed from her.

OpenScroller · 05/09/2026 19:59

Baby Callan was 8 months old.

It would be very unusual for PPP not to have been evidenced with irrational thoughts/delusions before that he got to that age, wouldn't it?

This white, educated, middle class, woman had much more help with her kids than the average Mum, and much more help with her MH than the average struggling with poor MH Mum.

There's no way there would be the outpouring of support for this woman if she'd been a black or Latino, poorly educated, poverty stricken, woman from a poor neighbourhood, and she certainly wouldn't have had the MH support Clancy had. I find that revolting, although I guess we empathise more with people we consider to be like us, hence the demographic of her vocal cheerleaders.

She'd been a voluntary inpatient at a hospital for 5 days not long prior to murdering her children, and I thought it was stated that it was 'explicitly noted' that she did not seem to have PPP.

She quite clearly planned when she was going to murder her children and made sure their father wouldn't be able to stop her. He was at home and she got him to go out.

That is a striking difference to similar cases such as Andrea Yates, Deirdre Morley, Tania Clarence who were left home alone with their children while their husbands were at work/away.

Depression, anxiety and intrusive thoughts (co morbid OCD) is not a reasonable defence for strangling 3 small children to death.

I would ask anyone defending her to take some time to consider what it takes to strangle someone, let alone a small child a 'loving' mother would have some maternal feelings for.

You would have to have pure rage, hatred and a complete coldness, while a child is struggling and fighting you off, to watch them die, faces turning purple, eyes rolling back, and those few minutes would last a lifetime. She did that 3 times in a row. Probably with at least Cora already in distress from seeing what she'd done to their siblings and understanding what she was going to do to her.

I think she panicked after doing what she did, hence jumping out of the window, it wasn't a suicide attempt and she knew she wouldn't die, probably didn't think she'd be paralysed. She was medically trained.

She is a danger to the public at large because she's a proven murderer, of children.

She needs to be locked up for life, preferably in gen pop of a maximum security prison.

Lovely13 · 05/09/2026 20:10

Presumably all killers have a severe mental illness. Otherwise they wouldn’t kill. Still a crime. My heart goes out to the children.

Disappointed100 · 05/09/2026 20:15

KellyK2026 · 05/09/2026 19:41

Literally in a few comments further up you said she didn’t throw herself out of the window, she slid down. There’s nothing to back that up at all. The woman’s spine exploded and she’s paralysed. She went into cardiac arrest. That doesn’t happen from sliding out of the window feet first.

Apologies, you're right

Disappointed100 · 05/09/2026 20:16

OpenScroller · 05/09/2026 19:59

Baby Callan was 8 months old.

It would be very unusual for PPP not to have been evidenced with irrational thoughts/delusions before that he got to that age, wouldn't it?

This white, educated, middle class, woman had much more help with her kids than the average Mum, and much more help with her MH than the average struggling with poor MH Mum.

There's no way there would be the outpouring of support for this woman if she'd been a black or Latino, poorly educated, poverty stricken, woman from a poor neighbourhood, and she certainly wouldn't have had the MH support Clancy had. I find that revolting, although I guess we empathise more with people we consider to be like us, hence the demographic of her vocal cheerleaders.

She'd been a voluntary inpatient at a hospital for 5 days not long prior to murdering her children, and I thought it was stated that it was 'explicitly noted' that she did not seem to have PPP.

She quite clearly planned when she was going to murder her children and made sure their father wouldn't be able to stop her. He was at home and she got him to go out.

That is a striking difference to similar cases such as Andrea Yates, Deirdre Morley, Tania Clarence who were left home alone with their children while their husbands were at work/away.

Depression, anxiety and intrusive thoughts (co morbid OCD) is not a reasonable defence for strangling 3 small children to death.

I would ask anyone defending her to take some time to consider what it takes to strangle someone, let alone a small child a 'loving' mother would have some maternal feelings for.

You would have to have pure rage, hatred and a complete coldness, while a child is struggling and fighting you off, to watch them die, faces turning purple, eyes rolling back, and those few minutes would last a lifetime. She did that 3 times in a row. Probably with at least Cora already in distress from seeing what she'd done to their siblings and understanding what she was going to do to her.

I think she panicked after doing what she did, hence jumping out of the window, it wasn't a suicide attempt and she knew she wouldn't die, probably didn't think she'd be paralysed. She was medically trained.

She is a danger to the public at large because she's a proven murderer, of children.

She needs to be locked up for life, preferably in gen pop of a maximum security prison.

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I still don't understand why be left her alone at all

Disappointed100 · 05/09/2026 20:18

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 19:46

Given what happened to his dc he’s not going to be feeling too amenable to LC.

He's given public statements supporting her

EverMerge · 05/09/2026 20:20

MissMoneyFairy · 05/09/2026 19:50

Of course not, it's just so sad and the failings are unbelievable, so many people knew she had deteriorating mental illness and had talked about being scared of harming her children but she was never formally detained and was left in charge of the children. That's what is hard to understand, why weren't the children removed from her.

Because her family could not predict what would happen. She hid it from her doctors. She did speak to PC, her mom and sister. The days leading up to the murders she told the same people she was feeling better. This is also the point she had stopped recording her feelings in her diary.

If my dh told me this I would absolutely act on it. But I can’t assume everyone else would. I also don’t think I would think it would end so tragically.

catlover123456789 · 05/09/2026 20:20

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 19:46

Given what happened to his dc he’s not going to be feeling too amenable to LC.

Except that he says he supports and forgives her and that she was very unwell at the time.

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 20:22

catlover123456789 · 05/09/2026 20:20

Except that he says he supports and forgives her and that she was very unwell at the time.

Well there you go, that’s more than many would. Why create issues when he’s said that?

Aluna · 05/09/2026 20:22

OpenScroller · 05/09/2026 19:59

Baby Callan was 8 months old.

It would be very unusual for PPP not to have been evidenced with irrational thoughts/delusions before that he got to that age, wouldn't it?

This white, educated, middle class, woman had much more help with her kids than the average Mum, and much more help with her MH than the average struggling with poor MH Mum.

There's no way there would be the outpouring of support for this woman if she'd been a black or Latino, poorly educated, poverty stricken, woman from a poor neighbourhood, and she certainly wouldn't have had the MH support Clancy had. I find that revolting, although I guess we empathise more with people we consider to be like us, hence the demographic of her vocal cheerleaders.

She'd been a voluntary inpatient at a hospital for 5 days not long prior to murdering her children, and I thought it was stated that it was 'explicitly noted' that she did not seem to have PPP.

She quite clearly planned when she was going to murder her children and made sure their father wouldn't be able to stop her. He was at home and she got him to go out.

That is a striking difference to similar cases such as Andrea Yates, Deirdre Morley, Tania Clarence who were left home alone with their children while their husbands were at work/away.

Depression, anxiety and intrusive thoughts (co morbid OCD) is not a reasonable defence for strangling 3 small children to death.

I would ask anyone defending her to take some time to consider what it takes to strangle someone, let alone a small child a 'loving' mother would have some maternal feelings for.

You would have to have pure rage, hatred and a complete coldness, while a child is struggling and fighting you off, to watch them die, faces turning purple, eyes rolling back, and those few minutes would last a lifetime. She did that 3 times in a row. Probably with at least Cora already in distress from seeing what she'd done to their siblings and understanding what she was going to do to her.

I think she panicked after doing what she did, hence jumping out of the window, it wasn't a suicide attempt and she knew she wouldn't die, probably didn't think she'd be paralysed. She was medically trained.

She is a danger to the public at large because she's a proven murderer, of children.

She needs to be locked up for life, preferably in gen pop of a maximum security prison.

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There’s a late onset window of up to 12 months for first onset psychotic episodes.

I’m not a medic but afaik beyond 3 to 6 months, onset of psychotic symptoms is generally evaluated as onset of an underlying mood or psychotic disorder (eg bipolar or depressive disorder with psychotic features rather than an immediate hormone-triggered acute puerperal psychosis.

Concorn202 · 05/09/2026 20:23

I think this is an incredibly difficult case. However it makes me so sad how every one is saying poor Lindsay but not poor Patrick who had to come home to find his kids had been murdered. He got Lindsay into a psychiatric hospital which she left early. It’s an awful situation but lots and lots of women suffer from mental health issues post partum with a lot less help and support. The fact those poor kids would have been absolutely terrified. I think if this had been a man, he wouldn’t have had men showing up to the court room wearing pink and wouldn’t have had a million dollars crowd funded for him…

Disappointed100 · 05/09/2026 20:35

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 20:22

Well there you go, that’s more than many would. Why create issues when he’s said that?

Because it was in reply to you saying he wasn't going to be feeling amenable to her

EasternStandard · 05/09/2026 20:41

Disappointed100 · 05/09/2026 20:35

Because it was in reply to you saying he wasn't going to be feeling amenable to her

So he says something many wouldn’t and still posters criticise. But just random stuff.

KellyK2026 · 05/09/2026 20:56

MissMoneyFairy · 05/09/2026 19:50

Of course not, it's just so sad and the failings are unbelievable, so many people knew she had deteriorating mental illness and had talked about being scared of harming her children but she was never formally detained and was left in charge of the children. That's what is hard to understand, why weren't the children removed from her.

There’s a documentary with Louis Theroux about a facility in the UK that treats mothers experiencing postpartum depression/psychosis. It’s honestly worth a watch as this facility is brilliant. They provide 24/7 care for the mothers, talking therapy, etc. but nurses also look after the babies and they are taken in to see the mothers daily so that they don’t lose that connection or can learn to build it without the pressure of having the overwhelmed mother look after the baby full time. They can stay there for months and months free of charge. There’s only one in the country I believe, but I think there should be a lot more like it and it truly is life saving.

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Makkka · 05/09/2026 20:56

KellyK2026 · 05/09/2026 17:48

I don’t think there’s an argument that she’s innocent, and nobody is saying that. She killed her children and it was heinous. However, the question is if she was mentally unwell and her judgement was impaired. If it was, then you have to put emotion aside (as difficult as that is) and focus on what the law says. I certainly don’t think she should be walking free, but I don’t see the benefit of her being in a prison where she isn’t going to receive psychiatric help.

I understand part of what you’re saying, however my point still stands, would people still feel the same if it was their children killed by someone ‘in psychosis’? As you say, they would need to set their personal emotions aside and look at it objectively but I don’t think that would be possible.

Snugglemonkey · 05/09/2026 21:01

Littlebitpsycho · 04/09/2026 17:23

This. Everyone seems to talk about poor HER, how awful for HER. Nobody seems to be talking about the poor children she MURDERED.

If she had been ill for a long time, and had thoughts previously of hurting her children, why the fuck didn't she walk away while she could?

Because she was mentally ill?

Makkka · 05/09/2026 21:08

OpenScroller · 05/09/2026 19:59

Baby Callan was 8 months old.

It would be very unusual for PPP not to have been evidenced with irrational thoughts/delusions before that he got to that age, wouldn't it?

This white, educated, middle class, woman had much more help with her kids than the average Mum, and much more help with her MH than the average struggling with poor MH Mum.

There's no way there would be the outpouring of support for this woman if she'd been a black or Latino, poorly educated, poverty stricken, woman from a poor neighbourhood, and she certainly wouldn't have had the MH support Clancy had. I find that revolting, although I guess we empathise more with people we consider to be like us, hence the demographic of her vocal cheerleaders.

She'd been a voluntary inpatient at a hospital for 5 days not long prior to murdering her children, and I thought it was stated that it was 'explicitly noted' that she did not seem to have PPP.

She quite clearly planned when she was going to murder her children and made sure their father wouldn't be able to stop her. He was at home and she got him to go out.

That is a striking difference to similar cases such as Andrea Yates, Deirdre Morley, Tania Clarence who were left home alone with their children while their husbands were at work/away.

Depression, anxiety and intrusive thoughts (co morbid OCD) is not a reasonable defence for strangling 3 small children to death.

I would ask anyone defending her to take some time to consider what it takes to strangle someone, let alone a small child a 'loving' mother would have some maternal feelings for.

You would have to have pure rage, hatred and a complete coldness, while a child is struggling and fighting you off, to watch them die, faces turning purple, eyes rolling back, and those few minutes would last a lifetime. She did that 3 times in a row. Probably with at least Cora already in distress from seeing what she'd done to their siblings and understanding what she was going to do to her.

I think she panicked after doing what she did, hence jumping out of the window, it wasn't a suicide attempt and she knew she wouldn't die, probably didn't think she'd be paralysed. She was medically trained.

She is a danger to the public at large because she's a proven murderer, of children.

She needs to be locked up for life, preferably in gen pop of a maximum security prison.

Edited

This is my thoughts too. Had she been out of work or worked in a low skilled role, was single, lived in a trailer park, was a woman of colour/latino I bet the outpouring of pitty would be somewhat drier…

OpenScroller · 05/09/2026 21:20

catlover123456789 · 05/09/2026 20:20

Except that he says he supports and forgives her and that she was very unwell at the time.

Well I guess that's easier to come to terms with than the idea that the woman you loved was a monster, who actually planned a way to get you out of the house so she could murder your children!

Hasn't she also said she wants to do marathons in her wheelchair and be an 'advocate' for post partum mental health?

Can you imagine the introduction on a podcast or a TV show - 'today, we're going to be talking to Lindsay Clancy, who strangled her 3 small children to death, about post partum mental health, welcome to the show Lindsay!'.

She was also apparently concerned about not being able to walk again.

She searched online for 'psychosis' before the murders and if she really was in it, she wouldn't have consciously been aware so why look it up?

Considering her 'psychotic' episode ended when she murdered her children, she seems quite keen to continue with her life. She may only be detained in a MH facility for a few years.

I think Tania Clarence is probably long out now, as she was granted licence to go home just a few months after being sentenced to a hospital order after murdering her 3 disabled children. God knows how her surviving daughter feels about that now she's old enough to understand what her mother did and that she may only be alive because she was away with her father. Can you imagine?

Kerrie1973 · 05/09/2026 21:59

I listened to the Red Handed podcast on this today and I feel so sorry for this poor woman and her family.

She reached out again and again to get help because she was seriously mentally ill and had broken from reality. She hadnt slept properly in weeks and was on a cocktail of drugs which were making her symptoms worse, not better. Her husband begged for help. The family begged for help.

The medical system let that family down. They should be held responsible and hopefully the civil cases being brought will shine a light on this illness and prevent it happening in future.

In my opinion, her and her family have suffered enough. I hope they don't bring the case to trial again and that lone juror assbag who held out and went against court directions can sleep well in his bed tonight. Assbag.

TerribleEntrepreneur · 05/09/2026 22:14

It’s horrifying in 2026 that so many people still have no real concept of what psychosis is. Your brain, like your heart and liver, is an organ. It can go wrong. Psychosis leaves you unable to trust your senses or memory, in a different reality to everyone else. It’s terrifying for you and for those around you. It is no more a character flaw than heart disease is, and it can happen to any of us at any time. It happened to my 85-year-old Nan during lockdown, one of the sweetest and gentlest people I’ve ever met.

Believe me. You do not, in psychosis, “know what you are doing”. That’s rather the crux of it.

AlwaysHungry123 · 05/09/2026 22:14

Error404FucksNotFound · 04/09/2026 17:10

I would argue that what we call evil is itself a mental health issue/personality disorder

This is my argument too. Surely a person that is capable to kill someone that isn’t self defence has some form of mental illness/disorder? Nature made mothers to love and care for their children and it is the case in majority unless there’s a disorder or mental illness. Not saying the killer should get away with it. The question is whether she wasn’t aware of what she was doing, ie psychosis

Makkka · 05/09/2026 23:08

TerribleEntrepreneur · 05/09/2026 22:14

It’s horrifying in 2026 that so many people still have no real concept of what psychosis is. Your brain, like your heart and liver, is an organ. It can go wrong. Psychosis leaves you unable to trust your senses or memory, in a different reality to everyone else. It’s terrifying for you and for those around you. It is no more a character flaw than heart disease is, and it can happen to any of us at any time. It happened to my 85-year-old Nan during lockdown, one of the sweetest and gentlest people I’ve ever met.

Believe me. You do not, in psychosis, “know what you are doing”. That’s rather the crux of it.

A degenerate heart doesn’t wait until it’s appropriate to weaken. It doesn’t get significantly worse at a time where it suits the narrative.

It happens when it happens regardless, not preventable, can’t be hidden, it happens when it happens whenever that may be.

Strange how her “Psychosis”‘ happened at the most appropriate timeframe to be able to do what she wanted in the time her DH was out. It’s as if it was planned……….!

Makkka · 05/09/2026 23:12

AlwaysHungry123 · 05/09/2026 22:14

This is my argument too. Surely a person that is capable to kill someone that isn’t self defence has some form of mental illness/disorder? Nature made mothers to love and care for their children and it is the case in majority unless there’s a disorder or mental illness. Not saying the killer should get away with it. The question is whether she wasn’t aware of what she was doing, ie psychosis

The problem with that is that anyone that kills could claim psychosis. So we either assume anyone kills is mentally unwell and is psychotic, but we know that’s not always the case.

ThistleTits · 05/09/2026 23:14

bigboykitty · 04/09/2026 17:09

Ask Patrick...

He seems to have all the answers. Yet, not being asked the relevant questions imo.

EvieBB · 05/09/2026 23:19

Littlebitpsycho · 04/09/2026 17:23

This. Everyone seems to talk about poor HER, how awful for HER. Nobody seems to be talking about the poor children she MURDERED.

If she had been ill for a long time, and had thoughts previously of hurting her children, why the fuck didn't she walk away while she could?

It doesn't work like that......jeez