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Why are you allowing people to troll the Sex Board?

262 replies

HornyBee · 18/02/2023 12:36

If it was any other board you wouldn't allow it.
If I went on another board and started posting recipes and taking the piss out of the posters I'd quickly be banned.
It is flooded with people trolling it.
Every single thread.
It's really horrible.
Take it off active or just shut the whole board down.
It's disgusting.

OP posts:
BIWI · 19/02/2023 08:42

Nobody is trying to make sex shameful. (Although I do think the sleazy hook-up thread is shameful, on this site)

Theos · 19/02/2023 06:28

MrsTerryPratchett · 19/02/2023 02:53

I'm fairly sure they don't come from ANAL, rimming or fleshlights. Unless you're doing it wrong.

No, but there’s no reason to make sex shameful

MrsTerryPratchett · 19/02/2023 02:53

Theos · 18/02/2023 19:40

I find so much of Mn not boring SO I HIDE IT, and if you find a sex topic distasteful, you really need to have a hard long look at yourself and your prudish attitudes!

Babies come from sex

I'm fairly sure they don't come from ANAL, rimming or fleshlights. Unless you're doing it wrong.

LucyLeave · 18/02/2023 22:49

Hopefully MNHQ will remove the sleazy hook up thread too. I'm sure they have plenty of reports about that to get through.

HornyBee · 18/02/2023 22:20

TheShellBeach · 18/02/2023 21:58

I'm sick of it.
It's vile and inappropriate.

Yes I'm glad you agree with me!
It's completely vile and inappropriate to troll a load of threads of the sex board.

Thank you to MN for acting promptly to the reported posts. Hopefully they'll get bored soon hey TheShellBeach?

OP posts:
TheShellBeach · 18/02/2023 21:58

I'm sick of it.
It's vile and inappropriate.

starlingsintheslipstream · 18/02/2023 20:53

OutofEverything · 18/02/2023 20:09

This is probably a call to me to deactivate. I am really unhappy with this.

Yes, I'm thinking about it too 🙁. Been here nearly 20 years!

MermaidEyes · 18/02/2023 20:40

There's been a lot of threads in the last couple of weeks regarding the sex board, especially the fact it now appears in Active, and HQ seem very adept at ignoring and skirting round the issue. Definitely feels like they're trying to appeal to a different demographic. I have no problem with the board itself but I really don't feel there's any need for it in Active. People will find it if they want to.

OutofEverything · 18/02/2023 20:09

This is probably a call to me to deactivate. I am really unhappy with this.

plumduck · 18/02/2023 20:08

AutumnLeavesFallingIntoPlace · 18/02/2023 20:07

So MN's decision means users see references to rimming, fleshlights and anal popping up and if they don't like it, a bloke calls them prudish. It makes the site lose its USP rather, doesn't it? As in, everywhere on the internet (/world) is full of sleazy men insulting women who object and this used to be a respite from that. But now they want to partner with sex shops and sell vibrators so never mind.

I expect there's a while forum somewhere dedicated to anal popping

AutumnLeavesFallingIntoPlace · 18/02/2023 20:07

So MN's decision means users see references to rimming, fleshlights and anal popping up and if they don't like it, a bloke calls them prudish. It makes the site lose its USP rather, doesn't it? As in, everywhere on the internet (/world) is full of sleazy men insulting women who object and this used to be a respite from that. But now they want to partner with sex shops and sell vibrators so never mind.

BIWI · 18/02/2023 20:05

Absolutely nothing. But the comment that you replied to was factual.

... although I notice you didn't take exception to the description 'cheap' Grin

Theos · 18/02/2023 20:01

Or their age being relevant?

Theos · 18/02/2023 20:01

And what is wrong with middle-age men?

GrisleyR · 18/02/2023 19:52

I don't give a shit what happens on sex topic.
Just take it off active PLEASE.

For those saying block the topic, I have tried. But it keeps coming back.

Keep it by all means, but stop it from popping up in active or trending. Please.

ShowOfHands · 18/02/2023 19:51

ArcticSkewer · 18/02/2023 19:10

Why not just .... use your phone ... the thing your app is presumably also on, seeing as you don't own a computer/pc/laptop

I don't use the app. I was being facetious. Not everybody has a computer (I don't, only a phone) and if you're an app user, you may have already had the indignity of flesh lights, rimming and WankingMartin before breakfast. Insert something about horses and stable doors here. Mumsnet was conceived to make parents' lives easier. Right now, it isn't. The solution lies with MNHQ.

BIWI · 18/02/2023 19:48

And actually @Theos - if you have a look at the sex chat thread - you'll see that an awful lot of the posters there are middle aged men. So not sexist or ageist at all.

BIWI · 18/02/2023 19:47

Babies come from sex

Bloody hell! I did wonder!

Don't be so patronising. If you've bothered to read any of the rest of this - and other - threads you'll know why people are objecting to it.

Theos · 18/02/2023 19:41

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

ageist and sexist.

Theos · 18/02/2023 19:40

I find so much of Mn not boring SO I HIDE IT, and if you find a sex topic distasteful, you really need to have a hard long look at yourself and your prudish attitudes!

Babies come from sex

DialSquare · 18/02/2023 19:40

I opened Mumsnet in safari using the following address then went into settings to hide it.

www.mumsnet.com

Surplus2requirements · 18/02/2023 19:38

BIWI · 18/02/2023 19:33

JFC @ArcticSkewer as you're so superior, why not explain specifically how that might be achieved, instead of being so sarky? It's not always obvious to people how to do things.

For those using the app you can't presently hide topics from there but if you open the browser on the device your using and log in to MN.

Click on the blue head > settings > more settings > talk settings.

Scroll to the bottom of the page to hide topics.

Chosen topics will now be hidden when you return to the app.

I know you shouldn't have to and MNHQ have messed up badly but that's how to do it.

BIWI · 18/02/2023 19:33

JFC @ArcticSkewer as you're so superior, why not explain specifically how that might be achieved, instead of being so sarky? It's not always obvious to people how to do things.

ArcticSkewer · 18/02/2023 19:10

ShowOfHands · 18/02/2023 17:16

@WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps shall I pm you my address so that you can buy a laptop/tablet/computer for me please and thank you?

Why not just .... use your phone ... the thing your app is presumably also on, seeing as you don't own a computer/pc/laptop

RaininSummer · 18/02/2023 18:58

The only sensible reason for not having it in active is so that kids and colleagues don't see the rather racy thread titles. I think some posters are being extremely rude by trolling the posts right now. I find the sex topic quite interesting even though I don't find actual sex remotely interesting these days.