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Why can't life give me five bloody minutes to get back up before kicking me in the face again........

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swiperfox · 10/05/2005 20:21

It was all going pretty well.

You may know we are hoping to get a house next week.

One of dp's deals just cancelled and he's lost £1300. Our deposit. Fuck.

The company i got a loan from ages ago couldn't get hold of me over £16 so they called my Mum and my Nan who now aren't talking to me for getting them 'involved'.

I've F*ing had enough.

Sorry for swearing.

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stressedmummy · 10/05/2005 22:32

Have another one on me!

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swiperfox · 10/05/2005 22:14

.....and for one night only, life was good!!!!!

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LGJ · 10/05/2005 22:12

Hey you go girl

stressedmummy · 10/05/2005 22:08

Absolutley!

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swiperfox · 10/05/2005 22:03

On the fizz - would be rude not to!!!!!!

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stressedmummy · 10/05/2005 21:54

And good on you 4 having a drink!
It is the only thing to eventually snap me out of my blubbing state 2night!

LGJ · 10/05/2005 21:53

So what are you drinking JD or Fizz ??

stressedmummy · 10/05/2005 21:53

I did thanks & have replied to you.

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swiperfox · 10/05/2005 21:52

lol drinking as we type Did you see i found your thread?

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stressedmummy · 10/05/2005 21:51

Now have a drink!!!

LGJ · 10/05/2005 21:45

You are welcome ...............the power of MNet

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swiperfox · 10/05/2005 21:43

I actually am feeling better for getting it out of my system. You've all talked a lot of sense into me - it was all a bit blurred from being so so pissed off!!!

Thank you guys

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fairyfly · 10/05/2005 21:38

Champagne is definetly for the times you feel crappy, that (more eloquently) has been passed down through quite a few generations of my female roots. you can drink lambrini when your celebrating, who gives a shit, obviously something great has happened

stressedmummy · 10/05/2005 21:31

Believe me, you need a drink!
It is the only thing that has stopped me blubbing tonight!

LGJ · 10/05/2005 21:28

No it wouldn't

Fizz for when you are happy

Fizz for when you are sad

It is a great allrounder...............just tell yourself it is just lively white wine

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swiperfox · 10/05/2005 21:26

There are 3 bottles of champagne too but that would be a bit too ironic!!

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almostanangel · 10/05/2005 21:26

thats like bloody nail varnish remover lol

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swiperfox · 10/05/2005 21:25

I could murder a drink. Only got a bottle of JD though and i cant drink it neat lol

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blueteddy · 10/05/2005 21:18

And go & pour yourself a drink!
I am just finishing my 3rd!

almostanangel · 10/05/2005 21:14

another one is dont complain about the dark .light a candle....

AngelCakeUmm · 10/05/2005 21:11

even

AngelCakeUmm · 10/05/2005 21:11

AAA i like your example i will remember that [sile]

fairyfly · 10/05/2005 21:07

tbh the best thing we can learn is how to deal with ups and downs ( not major tragedies) because they will never ever not hit anyone, its part of being human

almostanangel · 10/05/2005 21:06

imagine your on a beach and you walk into the sea ..........try to stop the waves coming no matter how much you push scream shout and cry they still keep coming so relax and ride them,,,,,,,,,,,eventually you will get where you are going

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swiperfox · 10/05/2005 21:03

Thanks guys. You're all so right. It's just because I've been a bundle of nervous energy since Saturday and that's why I'm feeling this 100 times more than i normally would.

I'm a big believer in fate and thats why i thought this was going to work out..... DP got his biggest deals ever the other week at work which meant we had the money to move - it was a last minute decision on Friday to move. The mouse house came on the market literally while he was in the estate agents so the agent offered it to him, we went to see it and its perfect.... its all too good to be true so i guessed that it was fate the way it worked out.......

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