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so down today

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 13:52

ive got to go to a friends party on sat and i really have no clothes (i no this is trivial compared to what some people are going through)

i went into town and there is nothing that fits me so i came home with a plain black v neck off the sholder top,
im really thinking about not going now as i feel embarressed and ashmed that everyone will look lovely and i will look like a fat ugly blob and i will proberlly end up getting very drunk and feeling sorry for myself

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 14:42

sweetmonkey, i eat everything and i allways seam to be hungry i cant eat in front of people cause im ashamed , and i think they will think im gready,

i have no willpower

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 14:26

if not its

[email protected]

thank you let me no how much postage and how much you want for them xxxxxxxx thank you xxxxxxxx

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WigWamBam · 24/03/2005 14:26

Yep, I think you are. I'll do that this afternoon, you should get them in time.

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 14:25

WWWB you are so lovely you have really made me smile xxxx

have you got my email add i think im on your msn???

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sweetmonkey · 24/03/2005 14:25

you just need to take things one day at a time. what sort of foods do you eat? do you eat because you feel so down about yr weight? im trying to think if there are any ways i can help

WigWamBam · 24/03/2005 14:25

Of course I can, if I can get your address this afternoon I can stick them in the post.

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 14:24

ohh they sound lovely WigWamBam, would you mind doing that foe me if they are too big i can send them back to you ,

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WigWamBam · 24/03/2005 14:24

And have you tried the comfort shorts that Evans sell to stop the tops of your legs rubbing together? They're made from the same material as tights are made from, my sister swears by them.

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 14:23

soetimes i reallt wish that i was the same weight i was before dd i was a size 10 how the hell has it got this bad

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 14:23

soetimes i reallt wish that i was the same weight i was before dd i was a size 10 how the hell has it got this bad

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WigWamBam · 24/03/2005 14:22

I could send you a pair of black cropped trousers with sequined bottoms but they'd probably be too big, I think they're a 26 but again came up small - but if you want to have them to try you are more than welcome.

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 14:21

i think im going to have to go on a diet but find it so hard to lose any weight at all

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lou33 · 24/03/2005 14:21

Yes it is NIk. Try MK , H&M in particular

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 14:20

oh wwb that is so kind of you you have made me cry but i cant wear skirts cause the tops of my legs rub together and get sore but that you so much anyway you are so so kind xxx {{{{{{{}}}}}}}}

i think i will be ok in the black trousers if the ones from next fit!!! they are so stingy with their fabric!

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WigWamBam · 24/03/2005 14:17

Again, tell me to bog off if you like but I have just been rooting around in my wardrobe to see if I've got anything I could send you. Most of my stuff is much to big for you but if you want it I've got an unworn burgundy skirt, quite long and floaty with a very fine pleat in it. It would look gorgeous with a black top. It's Rogers and Rogers size 22 but comes up quite small. If you want it say now, I can stick it in the post today.

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 14:15

i might just get some new shoes and wear black trousers the black top, and slap on the make up to hide my arse!

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TheVillageIdiot · 24/03/2005 14:11

Ah I see Lou got there first with the MK recommendation

TheVillageIdiot · 24/03/2005 14:10

There's loads of shops in MK that sell your size and there's a bus from Luton to MK if you don't drive.

WigWamBam · 24/03/2005 14:09

Some of the bigger Marks and Spencers have a range of larger sizes too, they're a bit more expensive but might be worth a look.

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 14:09

peacocks s where i got the black top from !!

dunstable is soo crap isnt it lou?

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lou33 · 24/03/2005 14:08

Isn't there a peacocks in dunstable?

lou33 · 24/03/2005 14:08

Nik, H&M in Milton Keynes have a great range of larger sizes, have a look there maybe? Their prices are usually pretty good too

sweetmonkey · 24/03/2005 14:07

have you looked on the littlewoods extra , freemans and look again websites.they do nice clothes in all sizes , if you found any today you might be able to order them for sat delivery

BubblesDeVere · 24/03/2005 14:07

Have you got a peacocks store near you? they do lovely clothes for the larger lady and all at really reasonable prices.

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 14:06

new look in luton do the bigger sizes but they only do a few things like combat trousers or something they dont do nice tips though,

are shops open tomoorw?

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