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so down today

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 13:52

ive got to go to a friends party on sat and i really have no clothes (i no this is trivial compared to what some people are going through)

i went into town and there is nothing that fits me so i came home with a plain black v neck off the sholder top,
im really thinking about not going now as i feel embarressed and ashmed that everyone will look lovely and i will look like a fat ugly blob and i will proberlly end up getting very drunk and feeling sorry for myself

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nikcola · 26/03/2005 16:36

they are still too long!

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nikcola · 26/03/2005 16:36

why is it so hard to wonder web trousers

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nikcola · 26/03/2005 15:50

thanks lunavix, i will

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lunavix · 26/03/2005 15:49

I'm glad you are going to have a lovely night

My secret to losing some post-ds weight is weightwatchers (and a lot of diet pepsi )
Whenever I'm hungry I have a diet drink!

Don't worry about it now, have a fantastic night. Then in a few days time, sit down and think of what your goals are weightwise and what you are happy to do to reach it.

Have fun tonight

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nikcola · 26/03/2005 15:45

just about to wonder web my trousers !!!
dp has taken dd out for the afternoon so i can start to get drunk!!! and have a nice long bath and pile on the slap

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nikcola · 25/03/2005 21:37

shit trousers are too long will have to wonder web them tomoorw

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nikcola · 25/03/2005 18:54

going

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nikcola · 25/03/2005 18:53

i told him im goigna nd to fuck off!!! i said id be back at 11pm yeh right will i we are going clubbing after he will be lucky if im back before 5am!!!!!!!!

me and best friend are gonna start drinking at 5pm

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WigWamBam · 25/03/2005 17:02

I'm glad the trousers are OK, nikcola Take no notice of dp, you go and have a great time.

lou33 · 25/03/2005 16:51

You know what we think, ignore him he is trying to control you again. Have a great time!

motherinferior · 25/03/2005 16:41

Yep, you GO OUT and have a fab time. WTF business is it of his??

If you're ever near Primark, I think their sizes go up to yours - and they are really cheap and VERY have some fabulous clothes.

(and if you snog someone gorgeous, we won't tell )

nutcracker · 25/03/2005 15:08

Tell him to F* off Nik or give me your number and i will.

You go out and have a great time.

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nikcola · 25/03/2005 14:53

dp has been trying to make me feel bad about going out tomoorw

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nikcola · 25/03/2005 14:48

trousers came they fit me they are quite nice just need some new shoes !!!

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 20:26

i will try that lou xxxxxx

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lou33 · 24/03/2005 15:22

i was going to suggest drinking a glass of water when you feel hungry, it takes the edge off. Maybe doing it before meals would make you eat a smaller portion? I don't know how sensible it is tho!

sweetmonkey · 24/03/2005 15:11

well if you ever need support or someone to talk to im here and you have my email ad too!!!

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 15:10

thanks for that its lovely it made me smile xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

as for the carrots im going food shopping later so i will try to do a healthy shop
ive lost a lot of weight before about 5 stone so i no i can do it its just actually doing it iykwim!!!!

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sweetmonkey · 24/03/2005 15:01

hope you dont mind

sweetmonkey · 24/03/2005 15:01

can you check yr email for me please!!!

sweetmonkey · 24/03/2005 14:52

you really shouldnt worry about what people think. this might sound daft but i lost weight recently and i found eating carrots or cucumber as snacks when i was hungry really helped. i could never eat raw carrots before but once i started i found they werent actually that bad and now if i ever get tempted i have a couple of carrots and a glass of water. its v difficult i know but then when you do treat yourself to whatever you fancy yo wont feel as bad about it

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 14:49

{{{{{{{{{{}}}}}}}}}} ill try by 8pm ill proberlly be so drurnk i wont care what people think!

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WigWamBam · 24/03/2005 14:47

Don't blush - just have a fantastic time on Saturday.

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nikcola · 24/03/2005 14:47

thank you so much xxxxxxxxx

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WigWamBam · 24/03/2005 14:46

They're all packed up and ready to go - I don't want anything for them, don't be daft. I just hope that they're OK!