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I feel so down, I cant help but miss him

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tammybear · 04/03/2005 20:59

I feel so down. Im fine when Im busy, but even then I still think of dp but it gets even worse when Im at home, and dd's gone to bed, and Im all alone. I miss him so much and I think about him all the time

I havent spoken to him since Tuesday. Tuesday! Can you believe its only been three days, three days and it feels like a lifetime!!! I feel so upset, especially at the thought that maybe he's forgotten all about me already, just getting on with his life and not missing me or thinking about me at all.

I dont know what to do. I have to be strong during the day when Im at work, and when Ive with dd, but I just dont know what to do. I feel lost

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tammybear · 04/03/2005 21:12

who else is it gonna be? lol. to be honest, i dont think ive really been that strong, i think im just trying to be okay just so i dont sit here crying my eyes out, especially in front of dd

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namechangingnortherner · 04/03/2005 21:12

(((((((hugs)))))) to you Tammybear, do you know for sure that he's not thinking about you? I mean do you talk much on the phone e-mail etc...sorry for being ignorant but are you still together much (have a very bad memory at the best of times).

Lonelymum · 04/03/2005 21:12

So sorry you feel this way. Can quite understand it though. Is he the father of your dd? Is he still going to maintain contact for your dd's sake? It is bound to be hard for you but you are still very much in the early days of coping alone so don't have too high an expectation of how you will feel.

Evesmama · 04/03/2005 21:08

i knew this was yours before i saw your name.

sending you a great big hug honey.you sound like your just having a bad time as youve been really 'up' and strong recently