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Struggling to accept my marriage is over after talking too much

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Hippychickbbbb · 17/04/2026 13:19

Can’t except marriage is over! I’m really shocked and devastated he ended the marriage, he said I talked about my feelings too much and it wasn’t working ,Please don’t judge me for talking about talking about my feelings too much I couldn’t help it I was very emotional when I’m very upset I talk a lot about my feelings feelings it who I am I understand it was draining for him I deeply regret going on so much! I was feeling extremely emotional as I’d come off my antidepressants and lowered my antipsychotic this was a huge mistake I’ve since upped the dose of antipsychotic medication and gone on antidepressants but I still talk about things a lot I hate myself I wish I didn’t do this ,

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Batties · 21/04/2026 12:06

Yes, ring the crisis team.

If you don’t feel able to do that then please call the Samaritans. They will be able to offer you emotional support and sign post you to other services.

Wolfiefan · 21/04/2026 11:51

Contact crisis team and get rl legal advice.

WaterandSandy · 21/04/2026 11:35

Hippychickbbbb · 21/04/2026 11:28

Im feeling desperate

Please ring the crisis team OP, you need help

Hippychickbbbb · 21/04/2026 11:28

Im feeling desperate

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Hippychickbbbb · 21/04/2026 11:27

Im still living with him but he says we have to sell the house as he lost his job he dosent want tto

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EverythingChanges80 · 21/04/2026 09:47

I think his decision will most likely be about him and not you. I think him saying you’re talking too much means he doesn’t feel listened to. If you’re talking you can’t listen.

Wolfiefan · 20/04/2026 21:29

You really are unwell. Please see the professional who deals with your mental health. Show them this thread if it would help.

Batties · 20/04/2026 21:02

Hippychickbbbb · 20/04/2026 20:54

Ive done nothing wrongʻ

I’m not saying you have. You don’t sound like you have done anything wrong, you have been through what was clearly a really traumatic time, and that’s not your fault. But you are not well and you really red some real life help.

Hippychickbbbb · 20/04/2026 20:54

Ive done nothing wrongʻ

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Batties · 20/04/2026 20:49

Hippychickbbbb · 20/04/2026 20:38

Im not unwell

You are, lovely. I really feel for you and you really need to speak to someone in your real life. Do you think it would be possible to have a chat with your GP?

Hippychickbbbb · 20/04/2026 20:38

Im not unwell

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Batties · 20/04/2026 20:08

Hippychickbbbb · 20/04/2026 19:25

He calls me a pain in the ass difficult a nightmare I talk a lot about everything he doesn’t like it

How though when you separated from him quite a while ago?

Kindly, you are clearly struggling and need proper professional help. You have been stuck in this negative thought spiral for quite some time. Your relationship has been over for a long time, you need to accept that and start taking steps to move on. You are clearly unwell, and your perceptions may not be entirely accurate right now.

WaterandSandy · 20/04/2026 19:58

Hippychickbbbb · 20/04/2026 19:25

He calls me a pain in the ass difficult a nightmare I talk a lot about everything he doesn’t like it

You are just posting the same thing over and over for years and don’t respond to other posters.

Hippychickbbbb · 20/04/2026 19:25

He calls me a pain in the ass difficult a nightmare I talk a lot about everything he doesn’t like it

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WaterandSandy · 20/04/2026 17:29

I see from previous posts that you have been sectioned in the past and I’m wondering if you need support from the crisis team at the moment as you seem to be really struggling?

Batties · 20/04/2026 16:44

How do you think we can best help you? What would make things a bit easier for you at the moment?

Hippychickbbbb · 20/04/2026 16:26

No

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Batties · 20/04/2026 16:24

Hippychickbbbb · 20/04/2026 16:22

I’ve got a councillor

Did your counsellor have any insight into what you are experiencing? Did s/he give you any advice?

Hippychickbbbb · 20/04/2026 16:22

I’ve got a councillor

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Batties · 20/04/2026 14:37

OP, I would really like to help you, but kindly, it would be good if you could answer our questions. Have you spoken to anyone in real life about how you are feeling? What do you think would help you the most at the moment?

Hippychickbbbb · 20/04/2026 11:53

Can’t believe he ended the marriage I’m still in shock i upset my daughter by carrying on about my feelings so much why couldn’t I just stop I hate myself I just remember having so much to say and being so wond up that it was hard to stop talking

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ThisJadeBear · 20/04/2026 08:24

I feel so much for this poor lady. She’s clearly very distressed. This has clearly been going on for some time and it’s clear she needs mental health support over and above medication.

Wolfiefan · 20/04/2026 06:46

Speak to your GP for RL MH help. Posting on MN clearly isn’t helping you.

Batties · 20/04/2026 00:00

Hippychickbbbb · 19/04/2026 23:54

I'm traumatised by the end of my marriage married for 15 years I can't see a way forward

It has been a long time since it ended based on your previous threads.

Have you spoken to anyone in real life? What do you think would help you the most at the moment?

Hippychickbbbb · 19/04/2026 23:54

I'm traumatised by the end of my marriage married for 15 years I can't see a way forward

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