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Did Venlafaxine change your life for the better?

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Crispsmakemehappy · 14/10/2022 09:29

Venlafaxine prescription sitting a few days now and I’m unsure what to do. I’m AD free as week now but scared to try these incase they make me have suicidal thoughts like others have….

Tell me your positive stories please, I know they are meant to be horrendous to come off and needs to be done at a super slow pace.

TIA 😌💐

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BertaHoon · 15/10/2022 17:34

I've always said I wouldn't wish it my worst enemy.

BertaHoon · 15/10/2022 17:32

That's good.

I'd say they stole my life. I am a slave to them and their side effects now. Especially excessive sweating for years. High blood pressure and dental problems.

I can only say how it has affected me, like everyone else can.

For me too, it was the only option after trying all others.
The crisis team called it a 90's drug that's very hard on your system, and it is, if you forget one dose.

I just don't think it's the one to go straight on to.

Hotpinkangel19 · 15/10/2022 17:25

BertaHoon · 15/10/2022 14:32

If it's anxiety and intrusive thoughts - definitely not.

These are prescribed for major depressive mood disorders.

No, no.

Have you tried Sertraline? That wasn't around before I had Venlafaxine.

The crisis team wanted me to try it but no, I can't even face trying to get off these.

I take them for Health anxiety, OCD and intrusive thoughts/magical thinking.
They work better than any other for me.
They gave me my life back

ReginaPhalangee · 15/10/2022 17:07

@Crispsmakemehappy I have had periods of no medication and have tried a whole range of different types. I'm currently on citalopram and propranolol. This works for me at the present time, it hasn't always.

Just wanted to make sure you had a balanced view and I'm so glad to read the positive stories around venlafaxine. I just know I never, ever can get those lost years back.

Blahburst · 15/10/2022 15:58

Crispsmakemehappy · 15/10/2022 15:48

@Blahburst glad to hear they helped u too. What dose did u begin with and what dose are u on now?

I worked up to 225 before they started working then slowly reduced after about a year. Took them for about 5 years and off them altogether for about 5 years now. I had already tried sertraline which was a disaster for me.

Crispsmakemehappy · 15/10/2022 15:48

@Blahburst glad to hear they helped u too. What dose did u begin with and what dose are u on now?

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Crispsmakemehappy · 15/10/2022 15:25

My last post didn’t post 🙃 truely confused what to do now.

So citalopram for 12 weeks…nothing

then onto the devil aka fluxotine for 5 weeks - NEVER AGAIN

i don’t think SSRI’s agree with me….

prescribed mertaxapine and refused them

so now onto these…..I’m just so so worried then send me crazy like fluxotine.

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BertaHoon · 15/10/2022 14:37

All that said, it hasn't changed my life for the worse.
I've still got stitched up in hospital through SH. I've still behaved like a depressive arsehole.

I'll not post more. Sorry. I do hope it works for you.

At least if you have the hard tablets you can come off and nibble a bit everyday to ward off the effects.

I was on 75mg for 10 years, 150 for 5, and now 225.

I do think your body becomes used to it and you need to up.

I've been on 225 since lockdown.

BertaHoon · 15/10/2022 14:32

If it's anxiety and intrusive thoughts - definitely not.

These are prescribed for major depressive mood disorders.

No, no.

Have you tried Sertraline? That wasn't around before I had Venlafaxine.

The crisis team wanted me to try it but no, I can't even face trying to get off these.

IamEarthymama · 15/10/2022 14:31

Crispsmakemehappy

My DW was so so depressed to the point of suicide. She had been prescribed Sertraline, Citalopram etc. Nothing had helped.

When she started taking Venlafaxin, she felt better so quickly.
She has been taking them for several years and this, along with some psychotherapy, has changed her life for the better.

She asked me to tell you this and urges to try them.
Don't run out of the pills, you will need to maintain the dose.
Good luck.

Crispsmakemehappy · 15/10/2022 14:30

@ReginaPhalangee im so confused what to do. Do you take anything at the moment?

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Blahburst · 15/10/2022 14:29

Saved my life, not a question. Been off them about 5-6 years now.

BertaHoon · 15/10/2022 14:27

I would say no.

20 years on.

Be prepared of the withdrawal side effects that will start as soon as you have missed a dose.
They are SO hard to get off.

I had a meltdown in the pharmacy as was 1 day into withdrawal.

I've always said that I wouldn't wish the drug on anybody.

Crisis teams have asked me to get off. GP has asked me to get off.

Once you are on you are on.

Do not take them.

225mg daily.

They keep me stable, because the withdrawal makes me very unstable.

I don't even know a true calmness now.

ReginaPhalangee · 15/10/2022 14:27

They started me on 75mg and just kept raising the dosage. I believe 375mg is as high as you can get. Please don't let this happen to you! It was only when I googled it that I came across all of the (anecdotal) stuff which I know I'd been feeling but wasn't made clear to me.

Crispsmakemehappy · 15/10/2022 14:23

Oh@ReginaPhalangee I’m so sorry to hear this. Really sounds like a nightmare😢 did they start you on that high dose?

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ReginaPhalangee · 15/10/2022 14:20

Just for balance.

I was on 375mg and I've absolutely no memory of about 4 years of my life after my daughter was born apart from looking at photographs. I constantly had compulsions to steal, to my knowledge I didn't but I was mortified to feel like that. My family were so worried about me they didn't know what to do. My exH called my DM once at 5pm when he came home and found me delirious.

Coming off them was the worst thing I've ever experienced. The brain shocks were the worst.

I'm glad to read that others have much better experiences. To this day I can't bear thinking about it and feel so bitter that they threw these drugs at me - 8 stone and 5 ft - at the highest dose with no warnings.

exitlight · 15/10/2022 14:10

Ooh @Crispsmakemehappy I thought of another thing that helped - I found the capsules quite tricky to swallow, particularly the larger ones / bigger doses. Venlafaxine also comes in tablets (which I much prefer - you don’t get the weird sensation of the stuff inside the capsules rolling about as you swallow <har, that’s a terrible description, it’s the only ‘sensory’ thing I’ve ever got the ‘ick’ about) 👍🏻

Crispsmakemehappy · 15/10/2022 14:05

GlitchStitch · 14/10/2022 19:35

I've been on them over 3 years and they have literally saved my life. I'm on 337.5mg modified release daily. Started on 37.5 for first couple of weeks to minimise side effects but I don't really get any. Bit of nausea when first started or when dosage increases, and maybe a bit of night sweating. But they completely switch off my intrusive thoughts.

I was able to go back in to work 2.5 years ago after thinking I would never be able to, and my anxiety being terrible. I now work full time and have had promotions. No other drug has ever worked for me.

@GlitchStitch thats wonderful to hear. Can I ask had u tried many AD’s before these? I’m just so nervous to try and not react well to them, especially coming up to Christmas if that makes sense. My summer went past in a blur as I first started citalopram in June and I was so up and down it was horrendous

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Crispsmakemehappy · 15/10/2022 14:01

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@dane8 i would definitely start slowly. I think they would give me more diazepam as they had done with the fluxotine. I think I’m just disappointed as I had just thought the citalopram would do the trick. I never had thought some might not agree with me.

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hugznotdrugz · 15/10/2022 13:58

I'm on 75mg I'm on other psych meds (including another AD) but it's definitely helped a little

Crispsmakemehappy · 15/10/2022 13:55

@fuckinghorgel god I hope so. I was on citalopram for 12 weeks and waited and waited to feel different but nothing, then onto fluxotine and it was shockingly bad. SSRI’s don’t seem to agree with me. Doctor had then prescribed mirtazapine 2 weeks ago but once I checked them up I refused them. Now these. I am just terrified to take them after what happened with the fluxotine. I just want to feel normal again. So happy they helped you. I love hearing positive stories

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emmetgirl · 14/10/2022 21:06

YES!! Venlafaxine saved my life. That's not an exaggeration. 5 years of nothing else working and finally my life went back to normal. That was 20 years ago and I'm still well now.

ThatCheeseIsMine · 14/10/2022 20:56

@ThatCheeseIsMine anxiety and intrusive thoughts. And maybe a bit of depression too for good measure

That sounds very like mine. I hope although not everyone has liked it, you will try it because it can really help with these things. The anxiety is probably making you worry about it now more than you need to IYSWIM.

Re taking it, I have mine last thing at night after a snack.

Nextlevelnonsense · 14/10/2022 19:43

Against everyone else - Venlafaxine almost made me end everything.
It made me totally unable to function.
I'd had a breakdown, and was prescribed it alongside Amitriptyline.
If it makes your brain stop being able to comprehend anything, please stop trying with it.
Currently taking Duloxetine. I'm really good right now.

Guavafish1 · 14/10/2022 19:42

Yes