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To think everything will be unrecognisable in 50 years

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CurdinHenry · Today 11:38

Just thinking about how different the UK was in the 70s and how change is supercharged now by tech and mass migration and the loss of shared cultural reference points in TV and newspapers and radio.

I live in Glasgow and many parts of it are no longer at all Scottish-seeming apart from the old sandstone tenements. What even is Scottish any more? It's hard to imagine Scottish independence being taken up by the new communities. But what's next?

I think human societies are programmed to self destruct every so often in the absence of external numbers control pressures and I think that's what's starting now across Europe. We have never had it so good in the history of time yet rage flourishes

What can we do as individuals, I'm just not sure

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HoppityBun · Today 12:56

OrangeFlower14 · Today 12:50

@Ponoka7 ”The rest of us, who have had our governments use punishing benefit legalisation to make us not want children”

could you explain this please?

It’s nonsense inspired by grievance and rigid political ideology.

Robert Sapolsky has pointed out that, rather than the complete social breakdown that Malthus predicted would be caused by overpopulation, the global decline in childbirth is perhaps making this avoidable. And it is a global decline.

FouDeFafa · Today 12:56

CurdinHenry · Today 12:09

Er because of the country being borderline bankrupt, three days weeks, doing homework by candlelight when the power was off.

Didn't sound fab...

Yep, I remember the homework by candlelight. Because we were kids it seemed an exciting adventure, those times must’ve been a nightmare for our parents.

SmallDFartyCarNRG · Today 12:57

I actually do regret having DC when I imagine what will be in 50 years. I am actually unsure if the human race will be alive; we have given power to far too many greedy men who don't have the ability to consider consequences.

shuggles · Today 12:57

PurplePinata · Today 12:55

It worries me so much what Britain will be like in 50 years time. White British people are predicted to be a minority by then. I know there are people who think this is wonderful and others who are indifferent, but a lot of people are genuinely concerned about how this will impact culture, politics, religion, ways of living, womens rights.However they just get branded as racist. I dont think it's irrational to predict that the uk could be governed by a Muslim party in 50 years and the UK officially becoming a Muslim country. It's happened in orher countries where Islam has taken over. I'm so scared for my daughter's future.

At least there wouldn't be any more threads on mumsnet in which people express their anger at women wearing revealing clothing.

shuggles · Today 13:00

HoppityBun · Today 12:56

It’s nonsense inspired by grievance and rigid political ideology.

Robert Sapolsky has pointed out that, rather than the complete social breakdown that Malthus predicted would be caused by overpopulation, the global decline in childbirth is perhaps making this avoidable. And it is a global decline.

@HoppityBun And it is a global decline.

False. Birth rates far exceed the replacement rate (2.2) across almost all of Africa.

GeneralPeter · Today 13:04

Yes. AI and demographics (mass migration and aging) will change everything.

MsMacheath · Today 13:05

zoeslim · Today 11:43

Agree I was in Glasgow recently it was not like a Scottish city

What's that meant to mean?

daisychain01 · Today 13:05

frozendaisy · Today 11:56

You could try and get involved to change things as you would like them

Thinking you are this feeble passenger almost kidnapped from choice is a navel gazing luxury that many before, and now, and in the future do not have.

Read, educate yourself more, read different view points, go out, walk around, look at the sky, this planet will turn and go round the sun for thousands and thousands of years once all humans have departed. You have 70/80 years, a blink of an eye, of your own consciousness to embrace the life which luck has given you.

(As a percentage of income food is still relatively cheap it’s housing that costs part of the frustration of the rioters in Europe right now - and whilst some of them are causing damage and violence there is an understanding of their frustration and at least they are doing something)

Change happens, in waves, always has (history comes into this) we are on a downward slope at the moment but it won’t last forever, depending on your age depends on whether you will see it rising again.

Buy some books, read something to feed your mind of what you want to learn about. Get involved.

It will work out in the end.

Easier said than done.

Many many people feel and are completely disempowered in making change happen. Look at all the people who have a degree and cannot find work other than behind the bar at a Spoons or stacking shelves.

It's another trope like the "just work harder and don't buy so many Costa coffees" as the solution to the unaffordable of housing.

Thesque · Today 13:07

I was in my teens and 20s in the 70s. Of course I was young and it was my era but it was fabulous. The worry was about nuclear war and overpopulation, neither of which are top of the list now.
What was different then that meant we were content was two things.
Firstly no social media. You didn't get any sense of how others were better off so less envy.
Secondly almost all of my generation were better off than our parents. My parents were born just before WWII and grew up in poverty. I grew up in poverty, although we were better off than many, we had very little in the way of material belongings. We didn't go abroad on holiday, I had very few clothes, I never ate in a restaurant until I was 18. There was enough to eat but no money for luxury. Once I started working I was significantly better off than my parents had ever been.

To the poster who had never heard of Scottish sectarianism. It was and still is to some extent a division between Catholic and Protestant in a similar way to northern Ireland. There's obviously much more to it than that. Rangers v Celtic isn't just sporting rivalry.

blondeseaside · Today 13:07

I grew up in a City in the Midlands, and even back then (80's), there were parts of the City that white people could not go. It was full of shops and restaurants aimed at the foreign people that lived there, and the people had no desire to integrate with "white trash". I can't imagine what it must be like now, what with all this extra immigration.

CurdinHenry · Today 13:10

Aussiesgettingsmashed · Today 12:17

AI is projected to wipe out humanity by the middle of the next decade so hopefully that puts your mind at rest.

I think human reliance on it will be the problem rather than the thing itself

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MsMacheath · Today 13:11

bababamama · Today 12:07

Talk to someone who properly remembers the 1970’s , it wasn’t a fun decade with the 3 day week, strikes, energy strikes, houses doubling in cost … As to Glasgow not “feeling” Scottish, I don’t think Glasgow or Edinburgh do feel like the rest of Scotland, never have, they feel like metropolitan cities, they have always absorbed incomers in large numbers who become Scottish by living there. What is Scottish anyway, what is English - personally I’m British, that’s my nationality on my passport (I’m white and family long standing English but I feel British!)

I agree with everything you say, including feeling British although I do think Glasgow, although much larger than Edinburgh is not as metropolitan /cosmopolitan as Edinburgh. Edinburgh is a European city.

WhereAreTheTrueGreens · Today 13:13

Wildgoat · Today 11:39

What in earth do you mean parts of Glasgow are not Scottish, have you lived elsewhere ?

Possibley means due to immigration?

DeftGoldHedgehog · Today 13:15

I find lots of places stay more or less the same.

RaininSummer · Today 13:17

Haven't read whole thread but if course many things will be different. I was a teen in the seventies and this is a different country and we do things differently here. Not all good, not all bad.

CurdinHenry · Today 13:17

AnonyMumAuDHD · Today 12:32

It depends upon what measures of wealth you are using? Yes, we have central heating and hot water, double glazing; most families have cars, tvs/phones and annual holidays so compared to growing up 50 years ago we seem superficially wealthier. But are we?

The NHS is crumbling and people are dying from avoidable illnesses as a result of delayed diagnosis; schools are struggling with large class sizes and lack of resources; our children are getting into considerable debt to get degrees that no longer aid in anyway to get them jobs; there are fewer and fewer jobs for all age groups, but the under 25s especially; and many people have no hope of ever owning their own homes without the benefit of inherited wealth… which is being eroded by care costs in old age.

So, in some respects having an outside loo/bathroom, one central fireplace, no second car or annual holidays are hardly compensation for an education system that equipped you with the skills to enter the workforce, plenty of local work in industry/retail/agriculture and the expectation that an average wage would actually pay for rent, utilities and put food on the table makes many feel very shortchanged. And far from ‘wealthy’ compared to their grandparents.

There wasn't an NHS at all 80 years ago. Barely anyone went to university or even left the area they were born.

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cavvum · Today 13:18

the loss of shared cultural reference points in TV and newspapers and radio
what do you mean by this?

HoppityBun · Today 13:19

CurdinHenry · Today 13:17

There wasn't an NHS at all 80 years ago. Barely anyone went to university or even left the area they were born.

I thought you were asking talking about 50 years ago?

sunshinestar1986 · Today 13:21

Aussiesgettingsmashed · Today 12:17

AI is projected to wipe out humanity by the middle of the next decade so hopefully that puts your mind at rest.

😂

OooPourUsACupLove · Today 13:22

CurdinHenry · Today 11:38

Just thinking about how different the UK was in the 70s and how change is supercharged now by tech and mass migration and the loss of shared cultural reference points in TV and newspapers and radio.

I live in Glasgow and many parts of it are no longer at all Scottish-seeming apart from the old sandstone tenements. What even is Scottish any more? It's hard to imagine Scottish independence being taken up by the new communities. But what's next?

I think human societies are programmed to self destruct every so often in the absence of external numbers control pressures and I think that's what's starting now across Europe. We have never had it so good in the history of time yet rage flourishes

What can we do as individuals, I'm just not sure

The people living in 50 years time (assuming we don't have total climate collapse and end of civilisation) will think being "Scottish" is what they see around them. Just as people 50 years ago had a different idea of "normal" and "change" to you. Most of what we understand as traditionally "Scottish" culture today was created during the 19th (possibly also 18th, I'm not sure) Scottish Nationalist revival.

Things change all the time. It's very human to see the state of things when we are growing up like some sort of fixed point that change happens to but it isn't, every time is just one moment in a river of ongoing change.

I thought the other day, walking down my high street which is one of the most multicultural in the UK, in 50 years time Britain may not be considered a white country any more. And you know what? I realised I don't care. I feel just as connected to a future Britain that isn't mostly white as I do to one that is. It will still be Britain. It will still be that story, moving on and changing as it always has. There are cultural moments in my neighbourhood that are uniquely British now because there are children growing up together as neighbours from cultures that would never have met if they were tied to geography rather than all here at this exact point in time.

All that we need to do to qualify for our place in the story is to be here and be part of it.

Letsgonowthen · Today 13:22

Unfortunately I think it's a symptom of globalism. Every highstreet starts to look the same, with the same shops. The same products are available everywhere, the same food. So what differentiates places gets less and less.

Popstarrrrr · Today 13:23

CurdinHenry · Today 11:49

The demographic stats are really startling. I guess it's one way to put an end to the sectarian problem. Well the original one anyway.

When I read your opening post I really wasn't sure what you were getting out. Then you posted this and voila, all became clear.

An interesting way to start one of the many 'too many forrreigner' threads I'll give you.

frozendaisy · Today 13:26

daisychain01 · Today 13:05

Easier said than done.

Many many people feel and are completely disempowered in making change happen. Look at all the people who have a degree and cannot find work other than behind the bar at a Spoons or stacking shelves.

It's another trope like the "just work harder and don't buy so many Costa coffees" as the solution to the unaffordable of housing.

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There are things you can control though. You can use the best of advancements and ignore the rest.
You can decide that regardless of where someone was born, or how they arrived living in your road that they are also other human beings with hopes, dreams and traditions.
You can keep yourself healthy to try and avoid unnecessary visits to the GP/NHS
You can be happy with enough instead of wanting more
You can go to church for community (everyone bangs on about the UK being lost but you don’t see crowds flocking into churches even though people bang on about Christian values)

We have a free at the point of use, still, for the time being health service, we have benefits so people aren’t starving, we have to option of buying cheap goods.

And I know the issues with housing, stunted life possibilities for the young, the cost and possible pointlessness of university, the difficulties for the younger generations we have two teens in exam years and by jove it’s a different world to our world. But they have the internet and YouTube full of free tutors (one of ours is upstairs learning Arabic quotes for his RE mock right now), there are huge problems their generation need to solve, they are going to have to be inventive. We as their parents have/are going to bypass any inheritance to us direct to them and pay £100k plus god knows for their higher education. So we know this. We could navel gaze “it’s not fair” and you know what some things aren’t “fair” they just are.

Some things are better, some things are worse. Like every generation/time/place in history.

The UK was rich (beyond it’s natural means) because we had an Empire, we matched in and stole India for starters, we are utter hypocrites for thinking “oh immigrants coming here taking things” - that was our job eh!

We have an educated, creative population. We have a world-class creative industry and mostly robust ethics and political system. Brexit was a shot in the foot and some now want to get rid of the BBC (big mistake - change it yes but instead of looking at the soft power and influence it still has many want to put it in the bin).

We don’t treasure and support the good stuff in the UK, we just whinge and complain. And do nothing. That is who we are now.

There’s loads of things people can do.

Snowyowl99 · Today 13:36

JustWalnut · Today 11:42

Everywhere and everything in Glasgow is Scottish. Because it's in Scotland. Hope that helps.

Exactly!

TinyLittleThings · Today 13:37

Thank God I'll be dead in 50years time - the world will be awful by then