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To think people shouldn't park on yellow lines or park dangerously near schools?

85 replies

FunPartyIdeas · 16/10/2026 13:09

It happens constantly; both at my little one's primary, and also at my older child's secondary?
Junctions are also parked on, and driveways blocked.
Sadly a lady was knocked over at a crossing near the primary school a few weeks' ago. Of course we don't know the ins and outs, but selfish parking does absolutely reduce visibility.

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endofthelinefinally · 16/10/2026 14:12

ChubbyCheeksCharlie · 16/10/2026 13:58

I don't know why councils don't send traffic wardens round more often. The takings would more than cover the overtime+bonus and booze for the council's Christmas party.

In my area it is chaos at school time. We are over run with traffic wardens at other times of the day but at school time they are all in the pay and display car parks ( of which there are many) ticketing the people who have overstayed by one minute. It is easier than being abused by parents.

JohnofWessex · 16/10/2026 14:33

Police officers can give points for parking offences.

I suggest that if they did it would 'deter' at least some drivers

Either that or start towing

nuttymut · 16/10/2026 14:45

It’s not a new thing , my kids are 33 and 35 and we had dickheads parking irresponsibly then . I regularly drive past my local primary school and the parking is crazy , on the double yellow lines , the zigzag lines , over residents drives . Today I saw a parent doing a three point turn outside the school gates!!!! . 8.45 am really busy with parents and children .
some parents leave their brains at home on the school run and it’s often the ones in big SUVs and 4x4s.

Didimum · 16/10/2026 15:00

My kids' school is always emailing about this. It's a real issue.

GreenWheat · 16/10/2026 15:39

My Dad lives opposite a primary school. There was this one parent who parked on his driveway every day, blocking his car in. He repeatedly asked her not to, to which she giggled and said "Ooh but it's so handy" 🙄 The head eventually managed to get her to stop, so now she parks on the zig zags instead. What a prize tosser.

Wishingplenty · 16/10/2026 19:11

BirdLandedonmyHead · 16/10/2026 13:47

The parents would be in a lot more trouble than a parking ticket, or points on a license, if they were to injure or kill a child.

It is hardly likely to happen though is it? There has been more children killed riding a bike to school in the past couple of years than children being dropped off safely by parents. But that fact is too inconvenient a truth for the anti car brigade agenda pushers!

Cakeandslippers · 16/10/2026 19:23

ChubbyCheeksCharlie · 16/10/2026 13:58

I don't know why councils don't send traffic wardens round more often. The takings would more than cover the overtime+bonus and booze for the council's Christmas party.

At our school they show up every couple of weeks and on the days they do, people suddenly seem to be very considerate drivers and parkers. Next day it's back to normal. I think unless they are there daily it makes no difference. The area we are in is very suburban so they would never just be passing by.

BirdLandedonmyHead · 16/10/2026 19:23

Wishingplenty · 16/10/2026 19:11

It is hardly likely to happen though is it? There has been more children killed riding a bike to school in the past couple of years than children being dropped off safely by parents. But that fact is too inconvenient a truth for the anti car brigade agenda pushers!

Think about your logic there. A car driver killed a child... but you say it doesnt count as the child was on a bicycle instead of on foot.

AnnaQuayRules · 16/10/2026 19:26

Wishingplenty · 16/10/2026 13:33

Just wondering if the headteacher thought to ask the parents directly why they are parking there before contacting the police? It seems extreme to call the police on children's parents. Have they ever thought of the knock on effect on the wellbeing of the children in her care if the police choose to act on it. The implications for the children could be severe if parents get into trouble.That should be at the forefront of any good headteachers mind instead of willy nilly contacting the police.

No prizes for guessing if you are one of the offenders, @Wishingplenty

FunPartyIdeas · 16/10/2026 19:28

@AnnaQuayRules I'm the OP, but this wasn't my post?

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Wishingplenty · 16/10/2026 19:29

BirdLandedonmyHead · 16/10/2026 19:23

Think about your logic there. A car driver killed a child... but you say it doesnt count as the child was on a bicycle instead of on foot.

Yes but schools actively encourage children to cycle to school instead of been driven by their parents, pretending there are no risks involved. Where I live two children were killed by vans within a year of each other whilst cycling to school. There have been no children killed so far by children being dropped off by parents, not to my knowledge anyway.

AnnaQuayRules · 16/10/2026 19:30

FunPartyIdeas · 16/10/2026 19:28

@AnnaQuayRules I'm the OP, but this wasn't my post?

Apologies, meant to cite @Wishingplenty. I've now amended my post!

Jimmyjumpy · 16/10/2026 19:31

YABU for asking if YABU! Its against the law isnt it for that kind of parking?

Wishingplenty · 16/10/2026 19:33

AnnaQuayRules · 16/10/2026 19:26

No prizes for guessing if you are one of the offenders, @Wishingplenty

Edited

Nope sorry I am not. However I have witnessed vigilante type behaviour from parents directed at other parents and the outcome was not good. I don't think it is good to encourage parents to turn on each other, often the "do gooders" end up causing the most harm.

FunPartyIdeas · 16/10/2026 19:33

@Jimmyjumpy So if everyone genuinely thinks it isn't reasonable, why on earth it is such a widespread problem?!!! Someone's got to be parking irresponsibly!

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AnnaQuayRules · 16/10/2026 19:34

@Wishingplenty we are not the "anti car brigade" - I and DH are both drivers, as are most parents. I am, however, an anti "selfish parent driver" . It's fine to drive your child to school if you have to, but there is absolutely no need to park dangerously, block driveways, park on yellow lines or zig zags etc. people who do that are incredibly entitled and have no worries about putting children in danger

FunPartyIdeas · 16/10/2026 19:34

@Wishingplenty What do you think the solution is?

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Error404FucksNotFound · 16/10/2026 19:36

They dont care.

Im sure I their minds they have a reason
I have to get to work
Im in a rush
I cant park further away
We'll be late
Its only a few minutes
Everyone does it
Its not a big deal

Livelovebehappy · 16/10/2026 19:39

Agree. I live very near a school and it seems parents turn into monsters at drop off and pick up times. We get sworn at or screamed at if we point out that theyre blocking a drive or parking dangerously. Just park a little further away. Often the parents and their kids who park on the zig zags look like a bit of exercise would benefit.

LeBonBon · 16/10/2026 19:53

BirdLandedonmyHead · 16/10/2026 19:23

Think about your logic there. A car driver killed a child... but you say it doesnt count as the child was on a bicycle instead of on foot.

Tbf near us you really have to drive at 2mph and be super vigilant to avoid an accident. There's a road just next to the high school that we have to turn right into to get DCs to the nursery behind, and the boys on bikes appear out of nowhere and bomb across without looking. It's really frightening when you think you've done your checks and can see all the pedestrians stopped but then the bikes don't. I do crawl and just stop if I see a hint of a wheel.

I know lots wouldn't though.

FrippEnos · 16/10/2026 19:54

By people, do you actually mean parents?
because you can say that.

LadyChilli · 16/10/2026 20:00

The argument will be "But where do you expect us to park?", as though parking at the immediate destination is a right akin to breathing (breathing apparently less of a right, for the children who stand breathing the fumes from their idling engines as they wait on the zig zags). Because people cannot countenance walking a couple of streets. Of course they would be horrified if they had to explain to their DC that a classmate was dead. I imagine each one thinks they personally are only making things a little bit unsafe, and don't stop to think that their selfishness multiplied by many parents means significant danger for a lot of children.

seahorsessky · 16/10/2026 20:14

BurntBroccoli · 16/10/2026 13:32

Who are the 18% who think you are being unreasonable?!

Assume they are guilty of doing it. I live near a school and it drives me nuts the amount of entitled parents I see.

Agree, I guess they're thinking of people with disabilities? But I wouldn't think OP meant those who legally can park differently due to this.
A lot of people who don't have kids think that those of us who do these days tend to be very entitled. Can't deny a lot are. But I suppose a generation or two ago, most mums didn't have to rush to work, and grandma/dad often didn't work so could help with pick ups, roads were quieter, schools were smaller so parking spots weren't all taken, and generally kids were better behaved, so less last minute rushing, so it was easier in the past.
But it's no excuse, and I wouldn't park badly.

BirdLandedonmyHead · 16/10/2026 20:19

Bizarrest thing here is the school has a car park that parents can use... but apparently parking on the housing estate opposite is better.

DoubleBusy2026 · 16/10/2026 20:22

Just responding to the yellow lines part - don’t forget, those with blue badges can legally park on double yellow lines for up to 3 hours, as long as they are not blocking anyone’s driveway or obstructing a lane.

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