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Aibu to report neighbours

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aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 07:31

This is a bit odd.

6 months ago we had new neighbours move in to a council house on our street. In 6 months theyve spent two weekends at the house.

They are never there, never check on the property and just leave the curtains shut. We saw them once and rhey explained the council made them take the property due to homelessness but their family live 45 minutes away so they took rhe house to eventually exchange when they're allowed and live with family. Know nobodies there as theres no n
Movement in the property, bins never taken out, and when they do appear they are very loud.

Our area has had stolen cars and lots of attempts to break into people's houses. I'm worried someone's going to clock on nobody lives there and basically make our street a target for break ins. Am i unreasonable to report to the council that they're not actually living there? Also takes the piss lots of people are facing homeless and theres a perfectly decent house basically being left to rot. Obviously winters coming and the pipes will likely freeze and burst if nobodies there.

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OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:41

ThreadGuardDog · 22/09/2026 11:36

They do now. Huge injection of cash specifically targeted at stopping fraud with the emphasis on UC.

They've put more money into trying to stop fraud but that won't necessarily mean people being watched. The normal procedure if someone is suspected of benefit fraud is to go for a compliance interview

Kadiofakit · 22/09/2026 11:42

I don't get it, if they want to chose to live somewhere else, then they don't need it surely? the whole point of council's placing them away from their family, that is the reality for many many many people. My kids won't be able to afford to live on our doorstep. It also sounds like they are a family so not a single young person who is placed away from all they know.

A council tenancy is for those who needs to be housed, no other choice, if the area doesn't suit them, rent privately near your other family.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:44

DancingLions · 22/09/2026 11:39

Whether you should report it or not, nothing is going to happen. They'll just say they are living there. People in SH are allowed to spend nights away from the property, to go on holiday or stay with friends/relatives. Worst case scenario, they'll just move back in for as much time as they have to and potentially make your life hell! They'll likely figure out someone in the street reported them, they don't plan to be there long term so they have no need to be good neighbours in the interim.

They wouldn't have been given the place if they weren't eligible for it. Having someone they can stay with temporarily is very different to having someone they can move in with. So what do you think will happen? They won't be evicted because their circumstances haven't changed. If (and it's a big if) it even went to Court, they could just say they stayed elsewhere temporarily for a myriad of reasons, and they'd be given another chance. It's extremely difficult to get someone evicted from SH.

I also don't see how you can be so sure of when they have and haven't been there. Unless you're permanently watching the place you don't know when they may have popped in or spent a night there.

My neighbour hasn't put his bins out in years -because he doesn't live there. His nephew has Downs Syndrome and the night time carers stopped going in after COVID. He's a fire risk and can't be left alone. The council know and they have no interest in trying to evict him

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:52

aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 08:15

Not all council neighbours are loud though, we have a few council on this street and they're lovely people. So not worried about who moves in after at all. I just see it as they're taking the piss as they have other means of accommodation and taking up valuable resources which there already is not enough of.

If this is a secure council tenancy very few places would make people wait two years to exchange. It's immediate in Scotland and in England it's generally 12 months

Friendlygingercat · 22/09/2026 11:56

The neighbours are very foolish to have told you their circumstances.

Back in the 1990s I was in a housing association flat when I went to USA for a year long work exchange. I had a system to turn on the light at random times which meant utilities got used. I also arranged for a friend to pop in a couple of times a week and open my mail. He spent a few nights there to get away from his partner and even posed as the tenant when the HA wanted to inspect the fire door. Of course the workmen don't care who opens the door so long as they get access and can tick off their job sheet. Meanwhile the rent got paid. It was a tower block and these tend to be very anonymous. The neighbours probably thought my friend was the actual tenant.

Timeforachange26 · 22/09/2026 12:26

aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 10:51

They could be using for benefits. The partner works and I don't think hes down as living there. When she leaves the partner is picking her up so could potentially be taking her back to his place.

You actually KNOW this as fact( bearing in mind you rarely see them) or are you just taking a wild guess?

OutOfTheOtherSide · 22/09/2026 12:26

lolacherricoke · 22/09/2026 07:43

keep your nose out, the system is buggared and they had no choice but to take!! What harm is this doing you?

They are not living in it so they clearly do have a choice!

BlondeBanshee · 22/09/2026 12:49

Timeforachange26 · 22/09/2026 09:16

Nonsense. Maybe they can afford to pay £450 a month but not £1200

Yes. So who makes up the shortfall?

Timeforachange26 · 22/09/2026 12:51

BlondeBanshee · 22/09/2026 12:49

Yes. So who makes up the shortfall?

What shortfall? If they hVe social housing at £450 rent they can afford where's the shortfall

If private rental at£1200 they may not be able to

Whoopiedooo · 22/09/2026 12:59

I'd be very interested in the council's response if you do report it OP.

aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 13:35

Timeforachange26 · 22/09/2026 12:26

You actually KNOW this as fact( bearing in mind you rarely see them) or are you just taking a wild guess?

What do you not understand about the word COULD. Its not my fault you have the reading comprehension of a 5 year old.

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Timeforachange26 · 22/09/2026 13:47

aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 13:35

What do you not understand about the word COULD. Its not my fault you have the reading comprehension of a 5 year old.

Equally again they couldn't. You seem to know more about neighbours you never see than I do about mine who have lived there 20 years.

If it's only " could" why mention it. I could be a millionaire, or I could be living on the streets. Neither are true but.... So your surmising is the same

BlondeBanshee · 22/09/2026 14:19

Timeforachange26 · 22/09/2026 12:51

What shortfall? If they hVe social housing at £450 rent they can afford where's the shortfall

If private rental at£1200 they may not be able to

Fair. No shortfall in that case (are they still £450???) but there will be elsewhere if someone else’s rent is private and covered by benefits because that tenant isn’t able to get into this house that OPs neighbours think isn’t good enough for hem.

either way, they’re not entitled to the house if they have somewhere else to live. If they have £450 to fritter away on that, they probably do have £1200.

PrettyLittleRose · 22/09/2026 14:23

passpartot · 22/09/2026 10:37

I'd lean into it for my and the area's benefit. Nothing to be gained from reporting IMO, the council would probably take 18 months to do anything anyway!

I would offer to turn on the lights, open the curtains and windows to air it out, or whatever would make the place look lived in, asking of course if you could do that for them. If the grass needs cutting especially in the front (if there is grass), I'd offer to do that too now and then.

No point in reporting and waiting months for anything to be done (if anything would be done), while you could make sure the house and gardens are looking ok.

You could say they should do that themselves. Fair enough if they do, but if they don't, and if they are ok with it, the above is what I would offer, for my sake and the sake of safety from burglars (not guaranteed) and the look of the road.

You would seriously be an unpaid servant to these people who are taking the piss out of the social housing system? And on what planet would the council take 18 months to do anything about it? They will issue an NSP, and say they have information that suggests they are not living there. The council needs to demand that they show them the last 3 months utility bills, and 3 letters addressed to them dated over the last 3 months. And not next week's date, last week's! And they need to go and change the locks if they can't provide any of this.

I think they need to be investigated for benefit fraud too, as they may be claiming housing benefit.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 14:30

PrettyLittleRose · 22/09/2026 14:23

You would seriously be an unpaid servant to these people who are taking the piss out of the social housing system? And on what planet would the council take 18 months to do anything about it? They will issue an NSP, and say they have information that suggests they are not living there. The council needs to demand that they show them the last 3 months utility bills, and 3 letters addressed to them dated over the last 3 months. And not next week's date, last week's! And they need to go and change the locks if they can't provide any of this.

I think they need to be investigated for benefit fraud too, as they may be claiming housing benefit.

No one knows that this woman is claiming benefits.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 14:32

The council would not just go and change the locks. A notice of possession of recovery has to be served and then they would need to go to court

PrettyLittleRose · 22/09/2026 14:32

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 14:30

No one knows that this woman is claiming benefits.

No-one knows that they AREN'T claiming benefits either.

Best to report them so they can't take the piss even more than they're already doing.

Also, in my post, I said they MAY be claiming benefits, more likely housing benefit...... (not that they definitely were.....)

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OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 14:33

PrettyLittleRose · 22/09/2026 14:32

No-one knows that they AREN'T claiming benefits either.

Best to report them so they can't take the piss even more than they're already doing.

Also, in my post, I said they MAY be claiming benefits, more likely housing benefit...... (not that they definitely were.....)

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Edited

Housing element on UC.

PrettyLittleRose · 22/09/2026 14:35

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 14:32

The council would not just go and change the locks. A notice of possession of recovery has to be served and then they would need to go to court

Did you actually read my post, at ALL?! 🙄 I said they need to issue an NSP.... If you knew anything about this you would know that this a Notice to Seek Possession.

I did not say they could just 'change the locks.'

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 14:36

PrettyLittleRose · 22/09/2026 14:35

Did you actually read my post, at ALL?! 🙄 I said they need to issue an NSP.... If you knew anything about this you would know that this a Notice to Seek Possession.

I did not say they could just 'change the locks.'

Im in Scotland. It's worded differently here. Hth. And yes I know something about it. I worked in supported housing for 20 years

alittlepieceofme · 22/09/2026 14:59

Definitely report it, there is probably a family desperate for a council house!

EmmaOfNormandy · 22/09/2026 15:02

Maybe they are Russian spies ?

Or part of a terror cell ?

Or it's an MI5 safe house ?

Violet76 · 22/09/2026 15:04

TwentyDunhill · 22/09/2026 08:01

If they aren't using it they don't need it, and so many people do (I'm in temporary housing). We were in a Travelodge before this house and have no idea how long we'll be here. Were miles away from school, family. Utterly selfish. I'd report them.

Totally agree. I'd definitely report

ThreadGuardDog · 22/09/2026 15:24

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:41

They've put more money into trying to stop fraud but that won't necessarily mean people being watched. The normal procedure if someone is suspected of benefit fraud is to go for a compliance interview

Compliance interviews aren’t used where fraud is suspected. They are normally routine/random checks on claims or when information needs to be confirmed or updated.

Sometimes there is an escalated compliance interview where a routine compliance interview indicates a problem, but when fraud is actually suspected the DWP will carry out an investigation - where necessary using undercover surveillance during which they can monitor comings and goings, take photos and interview neighbours.

When they’ve built a case they will ask the claimant to attend interview under caution. Unlike compliance interviews, IUC is part of a formal criminal investigation, the interview is conducted under the rules of PACE and the claimant is read their rights.

ScholesPanda · 22/09/2026 15:43

It's annoying when so many people are on the waiting list for social housing and in temp accommodation.

However, I suspect if you report it all that will happen is they feel compelled to move in and spend more time there, whilst working out who reported them so they can take their revenge.