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Aibu to report neighbours

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aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 07:31

This is a bit odd.

6 months ago we had new neighbours move in to a council house on our street. In 6 months theyve spent two weekends at the house.

They are never there, never check on the property and just leave the curtains shut. We saw them once and rhey explained the council made them take the property due to homelessness but their family live 45 minutes away so they took rhe house to eventually exchange when they're allowed and live with family. Know nobodies there as theres no n
Movement in the property, bins never taken out, and when they do appear they are very loud.

Our area has had stolen cars and lots of attempts to break into people's houses. I'm worried someone's going to clock on nobody lives there and basically make our street a target for break ins. Am i unreasonable to report to the council that they're not actually living there? Also takes the piss lots of people are facing homeless and theres a perfectly decent house basically being left to rot. Obviously winters coming and the pipes will likely freeze and burst if nobodies there.

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passpartot · 22/09/2026 10:37

I'd lean into it for my and the area's benefit. Nothing to be gained from reporting IMO, the council would probably take 18 months to do anything anyway!

I would offer to turn on the lights, open the curtains and windows to air it out, or whatever would make the place look lived in, asking of course if you could do that for them. If the grass needs cutting especially in the front (if there is grass), I'd offer to do that too now and then.

No point in reporting and waiting months for anything to be done (if anything would be done), while you could make sure the house and gardens are looking ok.

You could say they should do that themselves. Fair enough if they do, but if they don't, and if they are ok with it, the above is what I would offer, for my sake and the sake of safety from burglars (not guaranteed) and the look of the road.

T1mesAreHardForDreamers · 22/09/2026 10:43

It's really tricky; my moral compass is saying not to report as it's someone's life you are fucking with, and it sounds like they were probably in a difficult situation housing wise but also reliant on support, so on balance have made the decision to tough out the difficult housing situation in order to reach their long term goal of a secure home in the area.

I understand the need by LA's, but I think it's also really harsh how far councils can place homeless families away from their local authority or local area. I would hate to have to uproot my children from their stability especially if you are in a vulnerable situation.

However, I'm on the social housing waiting list and it's highly unlikely I will ever be offered anything because the demand is so high, and it stings to know there are situations where properties are standing empty, and understand the desire to prevent this where possible.

I'd also think about the practicality. I reported my neighbour (lots of issues with squalor, drugs and police raids), as no longer being at the property and our housing association did put up a notice of abandonment literally taped to the front door, however he saw it and was able to contact them just in time. The process is longwinded and easily thwarted by the tenants as long as they have paperwork and don't miss the period for the notice of abandonment (not sure what it's officially called).

AbzMoz · 22/09/2026 10:47

aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 09:48

I thought this. I know in rentals you can be evicted for leaving the rental unattended for months at a time as landlords don't like it. (Pipes freezing, attracting squatters, house left to go to shit with mould from heating not on etc) also insurance purposes. They definitely have somewhere else to live. At first I thought maybe they had a rental they atill had notice on nd where between houses but that doesn't seem the case.

I’d give a factual account to the council based on what you’ve observed (ie nothing that they’ve told only you). The fraud team at the council have ways to determine occupancy rates, and will take it from there. Your account should remain confidential.
I am astounded at the posters saying keep quiet and enjoy having a vacant property next to you. That might work either way bus seats but is an atrocity in the context of housing!

FluffyFlipflops · 22/09/2026 10:48

BlondeBanshee · 22/09/2026 08:04

It won’t be them paying the rent tho will it?!

I’m another one on the fence. The fact that they are so entitled and blasé about it to tell someone who is effectively a stranger irks me. Also that there are kids and babies in b&bs when they could be in this house taken by people who don’t actually need it… the system is so broken.

do I think you should report it? Absolutely. Would I have the confidence to report it myself? Doubtful.

Using logic.
if they were paying themselves, they’d be privately renting in a place they wanted to live

Why is it 'logic' that they must not be paying their own rent?

Whilst I don't agree with what they're doing, that's quite an assumption. I'm in a council property. I have a full time job and pay my rent.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 10:50

Generally the council needs a court order to recover possession so even if they are found to have abandoned the tenancy it will be a slow process to get them out of the property.

aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 10:51

Spaniels4Eva · 22/09/2026 10:31

My DD lives in a HA semi detached, and the lady who had the other side was never there. The house was empty, no gardening done, she even had charities doing food parcels that were left to rot on the doorstep. DD reported it over and over again, but the woman knew how to play the system and told them it was triggering her anxiety. Eventually their housing manager got involved with it, and they attended around 4 times without any sign of occupancy there and threatened her with removing the property. Turns out she was living with a BF and just using the address for benefits....it's disgusting that some poor family was living in a hotel somewhere that could have used it. And it costs the taxpayer twice. So do report it.

Edited

They could be using for benefits. The partner works and I don't think hes down as living there. When she leaves the partner is picking her up so could potentially be taking her back to his place.

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OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 10:53

FluffyFlipflops · 22/09/2026 10:48

Using logic.
if they were paying themselves, they’d be privately renting in a place they wanted to live

Why is it 'logic' that they must not be paying their own rent?

Whilst I don't agree with what they're doing, that's quite an assumption. I'm in a council property. I have a full time job and pay my rent.

I'm on Universal credit now but I worked full time for decades and paid rent. My mum paid rent and worked full time. I don't know where people get the notion that council houses are only for people on benefits

It is common in the area that I live in to have a mix of people who are working and people on benefits in council/social housing.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 10:55

aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 10:51

They could be using for benefits. The partner works and I don't think hes down as living there. When she leaves the partner is picking her up so could potentially be taking her back to his place.

That's quite an assumption given that you said you've seen them twice in 6 months.

CuriousKangeroo · 22/09/2026 11:00

I’d report it purely on the basis that it is unfair that a family in need is likely in temp accommodation and suffering while this family appears to have options not to stay in the house at all if they aren’t living there. I don’t think having one empty house on the street makes the street a target for break-ins though.

FluffyFlipflops · 22/09/2026 11:00

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 10:53

I'm on Universal credit now but I worked full time for decades and paid rent. My mum paid rent and worked full time. I don't know where people get the notion that council houses are only for people on benefits

It is common in the area that I live in to have a mix of people who are working and people on benefits in council/social housing.

In fairness, for transparency I am also on Universal Credit. In an ideal world I wouldn't have to claim it, but I'm a single parent and unfortunately single incomes no longer cover outgoings without being topped up by UC (unless you're on a very good high salary of course). But yeah. I hate this impression people seem to have that if you're in a council house you must live off benefits and not pay your own rent or anything.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:01

AbzMoz · 22/09/2026 10:47

I’d give a factual account to the council based on what you’ve observed (ie nothing that they’ve told only you). The fraud team at the council have ways to determine occupancy rates, and will take it from there. Your account should remain confidential.
I am astounded at the posters saying keep quiet and enjoy having a vacant property next to you. That might work either way bus seats but is an atrocity in the context of housing!

Well maybe some posters have experience of what some councils do when they are told people aren't living in their tenancies -nothing.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:03

Is this a family who moved in? Mum dad kids ? Or single mum with kids?

ThreadGuardDog · 22/09/2026 11:09

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:03

Is this a family who moved in? Mum dad kids ? Or single mum with kids?

How would that make a difference ?

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:12

ThreadGuardDog · 22/09/2026 11:09

How would that make a difference ?

Edited

Because the Op stated that the Op has a partner who doesn't live there but spoke about neighbours in the first post.

ThreadGuardDog · 22/09/2026 11:13

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 10:55

That's quite an assumption given that you said you've seen them twice in 6 months.

In fairness though, it’s often the reason properties stand empty - because the address is used to pay single rate benefits while the person lives elsewhere with a partner. Not an unreasonable assumption.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:14

ThreadGuardDog · 22/09/2026 11:13

In fairness though, it’s often the reason properties stand empty - because the address is used to pay single rate benefits while the person lives elsewhere with a partner. Not an unreasonable assumption.

The person in question could work. The OP knows literally nothing about them.

ThreadGuardDog · 22/09/2026 11:19

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:14

The person in question could work. The OP knows literally nothing about them.

Not saying she does. Just saying it’s a reasonable assumption.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:20

If you really want to report then that's up to you but as I said previously it will involve a court order and it will be a slow process.

ThreadGuardDog · 22/09/2026 11:21

passpartot · 22/09/2026 10:37

I'd lean into it for my and the area's benefit. Nothing to be gained from reporting IMO, the council would probably take 18 months to do anything anyway!

I would offer to turn on the lights, open the curtains and windows to air it out, or whatever would make the place look lived in, asking of course if you could do that for them. If the grass needs cutting especially in the front (if there is grass), I'd offer to do that too now and then.

No point in reporting and waiting months for anything to be done (if anything would be done), while you could make sure the house and gardens are looking ok.

You could say they should do that themselves. Fair enough if they do, but if they don't, and if they are ok with it, the above is what I would offer, for my sake and the sake of safety from burglars (not guaranteed) and the look of the road.

And if it turns out they’re committing benefit fraud for example, you would be complicit.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:25

ThreadGuardDog · 22/09/2026 11:21

And if it turns out they’re committing benefit fraud for example, you would be complicit.

No they wouldn't. No one is responsible for the actions of neighbours who are complete strangers. The OP doesn't know if the tenant is on benefits.

ThreadGuardDog · 22/09/2026 11:31

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:25

No they wouldn't. No one is responsible for the actions of neighbours who are complete strangers. The OP doesn't know if the tenant is on benefits.

If someone reported them for benefit fraud and DWP thought there was a case to answer, part of the investigation would involve watching the comings and goings at the house. If someone was observed making it look as though the house was lived in - regularly cutting grass, turning lights on and off, drawing curtains and then leaving - of course they would be implicated. DWP aren’t stupid and at the very least they would question the person’s actions.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:35

ThreadGuardDog · 22/09/2026 11:31

If someone reported them for benefit fraud and DWP thought there was a case to answer, part of the investigation would involve watching the comings and goings at the house. If someone was observed making it look as though the house was lived in - regularly cutting grass, turning lights on and off, drawing curtains and then leaving - of course they would be implicated. DWP aren’t stupid and at the very least they would question the person’s actions.

Edited

Not necessarily. I was reported for benefit fraud I wasn't committing a few years ago and my house wasn't watched. They don't have the staff numbers to monitor the comings and goings of everyone reported.

ThreadGuardDog · 22/09/2026 11:36

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 11:35

Not necessarily. I was reported for benefit fraud I wasn't committing a few years ago and my house wasn't watched. They don't have the staff numbers to monitor the comings and goings of everyone reported.

They do now. Huge injection of cash specifically targeted at stopping fraud with the emphasis on UC.

Friendlygingercat · 22/09/2026 11:37

The house next door to me has been empty going on 3 years because the widowed occupier has dementia and cannot cope alone. She lives with her relatives and they come up every 2/3 weeks for a few hours to check on the place and collect mail. They rarely stay over night. If I was a busybody like some of the people on this thread UI could report it as an under occupied house and they would get charged double council tax. They would then probably sell it. Its a 4 bedroom house so it could be turned into an HMO or a big noisy family could move in. I don't want either of these things to happen therefore i say nothing.

If things are not broken do not fix them.

DancingLions · 22/09/2026 11:39

Whether you should report it or not, nothing is going to happen. They'll just say they are living there. People in SH are allowed to spend nights away from the property, to go on holiday or stay with friends/relatives. Worst case scenario, they'll just move back in for as much time as they have to and potentially make your life hell! They'll likely figure out someone in the street reported them, they don't plan to be there long term so they have no need to be good neighbours in the interim.

They wouldn't have been given the place if they weren't eligible for it. Having someone they can stay with temporarily is very different to having someone they can move in with. So what do you think will happen? They won't be evicted because their circumstances haven't changed. If (and it's a big if) it even went to Court, they could just say they stayed elsewhere temporarily for a myriad of reasons, and they'd be given another chance. It's extremely difficult to get someone evicted from SH.

I also don't see how you can be so sure of when they have and haven't been there. Unless you're permanently watching the place you don't know when they may have popped in or spent a night there.