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Aibu to report neighbours

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aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 07:31

This is a bit odd.

6 months ago we had new neighbours move in to a council house on our street. In 6 months theyve spent two weekends at the house.

They are never there, never check on the property and just leave the curtains shut. We saw them once and rhey explained the council made them take the property due to homelessness but their family live 45 minutes away so they took rhe house to eventually exchange when they're allowed and live with family. Know nobodies there as theres no n
Movement in the property, bins never taken out, and when they do appear they are very loud.

Our area has had stolen cars and lots of attempts to break into people's houses. I'm worried someone's going to clock on nobody lives there and basically make our street a target for break ins. Am i unreasonable to report to the council that they're not actually living there? Also takes the piss lots of people are facing homeless and theres a perfectly decent house basically being left to rot. Obviously winters coming and the pipes will likely freeze and burst if nobodies there.

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OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 09:41

My council would do zero. I have a neighbour who hasn't lived in his property since COVID as he has caring responsibilities elsewhere. The council know but don't care.

aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 09:45

unlikelysuspect · 22/09/2026 08:42

I'd report it. Is there a possibility that its being used as a cannabis growing house?

I would think we would see people going in and out more to tend to the plants if that was the case. They wouldn't leave them months at a time.

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aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 09:48

AbzMoz · 22/09/2026 08:28

It is tenancy fraud and a misuse of council housing stock. I would notify the council or the social landlord that the occupants are only there sporadically and this doesn’t appear to be their sole or primary residence.

I thought this. I know in rentals you can be evicted for leaving the rental unattended for months at a time as landlords don't like it. (Pipes freezing, attracting squatters, house left to go to shit with mould from heating not on etc) also insurance purposes. They definitely have somewhere else to live. At first I thought maybe they had a rental they atill had notice on nd where between houses but that doesn't seem the case.

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TonyDancer · 22/09/2026 09:50

If the house is allocated to them it’s theirs as long as they want it. If the rent is being paid, as a previous poster said, the council won’t care. Mind your own business. I doubt your main concern is a burst pipe. You just fancy sticking the boot in.

roxyro · 22/09/2026 09:50

If this was happening near me I'd assume there was what is known as 'a grow' in there.

Sounds very dodgy to me and would explain closed curtains.

Where are they actually living if not in that house?

Malasana · 22/09/2026 09:53

I understand why you think you should report it.
Look at it from another point of view if you do - they may then move into it and make your lives miserable with their noise. Just think carefully what you want the outcome to be.

Icecreamandcoffee · 22/09/2026 09:53

I would report. Purely because this is a huge waste of a resource in very short supply. There are families stuck in temporary housing for years and years who would be glad of this house.

Then again I am one of the evil people according to MN who thinks that housing needs should be assessed every 5 years if you are in social/ council housing and moved into appropriate sized housing for your needs. There are an awful lot of under occupied council properties round us. Lots of older couples/ single person households with 3 and 4 bed council properties that are happy to pay the extra bedroom charges but really should be in a 1 or 2 bed (there are absolutely loads of these about) and a massive waiting list for 3 and 4 bed family houses.

Zimunya · 22/09/2026 09:56

lolacherricoke · 22/09/2026 07:43

keep your nose out, the system is buggared and they had no choice but to take!! What harm is this doing you?

Well, they clearly did have a choice as they are obviously living elsewhere currently. This is really unfair and unreasonable for all the many families on waiting lists.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 09:56

roxyro · 22/09/2026 09:50

If this was happening near me I'd assume there was what is known as 'a grow' in there.

Sounds very dodgy to me and would explain closed curtains.

Where are they actually living if not in that house?

I keep my living room curtains closed most of the time. I'm not growing cannabis

Sartre · 22/09/2026 09:56

Guessing the state are subsidising or paying full rent on the property as well. If they had enough money they’d be privately renting close to family. Absolutely report, this home should go to someone who actually needs it.

Dozycuntlaters · 22/09/2026 09:59

Don't hate the player, hate the game.

The system is flawed and this is probably the only way they can eventually get a house in the area the need to be in. Maybe they have no support in that area, maybe they need to be near family to help out with kids or whatever. I personally wouldn't report it. If they had turned it down who knows how many more years they would have gone down the list.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 10:01

The people who are telling you to leave this alone because you don't know who you will get in next have a point. I certainly don't think all council tenants are problematic. I'm one myself but having had experience of living next to very anti social tenants over a long time period.

I get your point about pipes freezing. A few years ago my neighbours pipes froze as did mine but his were so bad that a specialist company had to come out and sort things. The housing officers absolutely know he's not living there but his rent is being paid and that's all they care about

LilyBunch25 · 22/09/2026 10:01

aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 07:52

The area is nice minus the break ins but that happens everywhere. They said as its not near their family, you can't exchange for two years so by their logic they want to leave it empty for another eighteen months. I just think its wrong when its a sought after house and we have 100s of families stuck in temp housing.

Tbh I think you'll find the social landlord will become aware of this pretty quickly. They'll be liable for utilities and council tax, so even if they don't collect post regularly they can't just actually lock up and walk away. Also every 12 months they'll have to have a gas check. If the property isn't even properly furnished this will be flagged by the third party contractor especially on the first check if hardly any gas has been used (if it has gas) as they'll think there's a fault. A lot of social landlords also now do regular 'walk rounds' mainly to spot ASB or untidy properties. They'll notice an empty uncared for property quite quickly

BillieWiper · 22/09/2026 10:01

There's a huge three storey double fronted house (council) that's been empty for about 9 months. Totally refurbed. There's another set of flats in the same style, at least two are empty and have been for a year. Another whole row of little houses were emptied (people bribed/coerced out of London) and the two that are still in council control are both empty. And that's just within one minute of my home! One of the council cottages had a supposed tenant but he was a local 'figure' who was know to have multiple other properties. He was barely there.

Surely you'd rather quiet neighbours than noisy disruptive ones? You can't prove they literally never ever sleep there. It's a widespread issue and the council keep too many places empty themselves. I wouldn't do it to try and mess up my neighbours housing situation.

roxyro · 22/09/2026 10:02

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 09:56

I keep my living room curtains closed most of the time. I'm not growing cannabis

You are, however, living in your home. Hardly the same.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 10:07

LilyBunch25 · 22/09/2026 10:01

Tbh I think you'll find the social landlord will become aware of this pretty quickly. They'll be liable for utilities and council tax, so even if they don't collect post regularly they can't just actually lock up and walk away. Also every 12 months they'll have to have a gas check. If the property isn't even properly furnished this will be flagged by the third party contractor especially on the first check if hardly any gas has been used (if it has gas) as they'll think there's a fault. A lot of social landlords also now do regular 'walk rounds' mainly to spot ASB or untidy properties. They'll notice an empty uncared for property quite quickly

They might. But that doesn't mean they will do a thing about it. My downstairs neighbour hasn't lived a night in his flat since I moved in six years ago. He has a timer on his living room light that goes on at the same time every day to give the illusion he lives there, they know he's not living there but they don't care.

Dutch1e · 22/09/2026 10:11

I'd stay out of it. Assuming their situation is true (and it sounds like you're accepting it at face value) then it sounds like they want the same thing you want: for a family who needs the house to be living in the house.

Not their fault that their hands are tied for two years, and maybe your social efforts could be better spent lobbying for a change of rules on how long a tenant has to wait before they can begin negotiating a home swap.

mirrorsandlights · 22/09/2026 10:11

UnwillingAdvocate · 22/09/2026 07:54

Well the terms are that you must be using it as your main home if you want a council property so….

This is technically a breach of tenancy and if people are going to say breaches of tenancy in council properties shouldn’t be reported then they also need to apply that when their neighbours are causing trouble.

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I’m inclined to agree with this. There are families in dire temporary accommodation and in desperate need of permanent housing. The 18 months they have left before they exchange could be 18 months of a child having a decent home to live in and a chance to start a stable life. They can’t be that desperate if they aren’t living in it. I am a HA tenant myself if that makes any difference to my viewpoint at all.

mirrorsandlights · 22/09/2026 10:14

OhBotherSaidPoo · 22/09/2026 09:14

Why have you posted this both on Reddit and Mumsnet?

To get opinions?

Lookatmelookatmedontevenlookatme · 22/09/2026 10:21

theneighbourgotmycake · 22/09/2026 09:39

I am not sure telling people "you can crash with family, you don't need a property" to remove applicants from social housing is a very good idea.

That’s pretty much what happens though.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 22/09/2026 10:27

aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 09:48

I thought this. I know in rentals you can be evicted for leaving the rental unattended for months at a time as landlords don't like it. (Pipes freezing, attracting squatters, house left to go to shit with mould from heating not on etc) also insurance purposes. They definitely have somewhere else to live. At first I thought maybe they had a rental they atill had notice on nd where between houses but that doesn't seem the case.

It's actually pretty hard to evict people from properties now particularly in England with the RRA.

Spaniels4Eva · 22/09/2026 10:31

My DD lives in a HA semi detached, and the lady who had the other side was never there. The house was empty, no gardening done, she even had charities doing food parcels that were left to rot on the doorstep. DD reported it over and over again, but the woman knew how to play the system and told them it was triggering her anxiety. Eventually their housing manager got involved with it, and they attended around 4 times without any sign of occupancy there and threatened her with removing the property. Turns out she was living with a BF and just using the address for benefits....it's disgusting that some poor family was living in a hotel somewhere that could have used it. And it costs the taxpayer twice. So do report it.

PrettyLittleRose · 22/09/2026 10:33

I may be a bit of a lone voice in the distance (haven't RTFT,) but I would report it for sure. Millions of people (in expensive private let, and insecure accommodation like B & B) are waiting for a council house/secure tenancy. These (barely) neighbours are taking the piss.

Report them to the council @aibucouncilhouse and do it today.

ThreadGuardDog · 22/09/2026 10:33

My stepdaughter has a toddler and was told she was a low priority for housing because she was living with her mum, even though she was sleeping on the sofa and had no privacy. She waited ages and was only rehoused when her mum made it clear she couldn’t stay any longer.

This family have somewhere to stay to the point where they can leave the house empty, so they weren’t really homeless in the sense that local authority housing define it. It’s very unfair when there are lots of people in the same situation.

Etincelle · 22/09/2026 10:36

aibucouncilhouse · 22/09/2026 07:39

Needs to be two years of being there so another 18 months to go. Just seems wrong theres families stuck in temp housing when theres a perfectly good house not being used.

I agree