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To buy a dry robe as a winter coat?!

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justtosayihelped · 18/09/2026 08:45

I live in the south west. From October to March, our weather is 99% driving rain and howling wind. I’ve tried over the years to find a decent winter coat that keeps me warm and dry. I’ve found a few that work somewhat, including a lovely M&S rain jacket, but it’s a bit thin.

im considering just biting the bullet and buying a big waterproof changing coat from regatta and being cosy.

But does it look a bit wanky?! Is it okay?!

this is the one I have my eye on

https://www.regatta.com/adults-waterproof-changing-robe-dark-cherry/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=%7Bcampaignname%7D_16108952393&utm_content=%7Badgroupname%7D_&utm_term=&utm_brand=regatta&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=16097452002&gbraid=0AAAAADQdSE8zgQrK5ij4KWiKVriu-WZ3p&gclid=CjwKCAjwwrPVBhA1EiwAv_YO-URMzXzdUfe_4pedDIy1IwFhHmTq04jbmI2WidUesYp3VTPhi4AJvBoCfVEQAvD_BwE

YABU - accept the soggy legs and wear something more dignified

YANBU - stay warm and dry

Adult's Waterproof Changing Robe | Dark Cherry

Oversized, weatherproof and warm, our Adult Waterproof Changing Robe will give you freedom of moveme

https://www.regatta.com/adults-waterproof-changing-robe-dark-cherry/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=%7Bcampaignname%7D_16108952393&utm_content=%7Badgroupname%7D_&utm_term=&utm_brand=regatta&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=16097452002&gbraid=0AAAAADQdSE8zgQrK5ij4KWiKVriu-WZ3p&gclid=CjwKCAjwwrPVBhA1EiwAv_YO-URMzXzdUfe_4pedDIy1IwFhHmTq04jbmI2WidUesYp3VTPhi4AJvBoCfVEQAvD_BwE

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DeftGoldHedgehog · 19/09/2026 22:00

Itsbeenalongtimeincoming · 19/09/2026 19:15

Guess I learned in school not to swear at people, be aggressive toward them and have such a blantantly poor attitude.

Wear what you like. Still hideous.

And yet here you are, bizarrely angry and bitter on the internet about someone else's perfectly sensible coat choice.

Ekal · 19/09/2026 22:50

I am a little concerned that you need to consult strangers about a matter that's entirely up to you. That kind of coat is on sale, it sells well, ergo, plenty of people are buying it and, presumably, wearing it. Of course it's also up to you whether you consult people, but how could it possibly be unreasonable to buy a coat suitable for wet weather if you live in the South-West? Enjoy wearing it!

likelysuspect · 19/09/2026 23:02

Ekal · 19/09/2026 22:50

I am a little concerned that you need to consult strangers about a matter that's entirely up to you. That kind of coat is on sale, it sells well, ergo, plenty of people are buying it and, presumably, wearing it. Of course it's also up to you whether you consult people, but how could it possibly be unreasonable to buy a coat suitable for wet weather if you live in the South-West? Enjoy wearing it!

You're 'concerned'?

Really!!!

Its a chat forum. You know, for people to query, muse, rant, vent, joke, chit chat, bore, interest, laugh and cry.

And ask questions about coats.

Papster · 19/09/2026 23:10

Wanky
Bulky
Not very warm
Don’t do it

Ekal · 19/09/2026 23:16

likelysuspect · 19/09/2026 23:02

You're 'concerned'?

Really!!!

Its a chat forum. You know, for people to query, muse, rant, vent, joke, chit chat, bore, interest, laugh and cry.

And ask questions about coats.

No, not really, that was an exaggeration. I just think it's weird to consult a bunch of strangers over the choice of a garment and that the poll question as to whether choosing a particular garment could be deemed "unreasonable" is quite ludicrous. The only way reasonableness would come into it would be if the price were way out of OP's budget, but they have not mentioned their budget, as far as I noticed.

gillefc82 · 19/09/2026 23:16

I live in NW England and have a Beachbum one that I wear for going to watch the football during the cold, wet and windy Winter months.

It’s certainly not the epitome of elegance or style, but frankly when it’s a freezing cold Tuesday night in February and I’m sat in my seat in the Hill Dickinson, with driving rain and the wind blustering straight off the Royal Blue Mersey, all I care about is whether the coat keeps me warm and dry. And that it does!

https://beachbumsup.com/products/limited-edition-blackout-brobe

Limited Edition Charcoal Brobe

Designed in Dorset, made from the highest quality recycled materials, our Brobe Changing Robes are designed for the curious and adventurous. The Brobe has been constructed with an Nylon 250gsm outer shell that’s both waterproof and windproof and a supe...

https://beachbumsup.com/products/limited-edition-blackout-brobe

Pumpkindice · 19/09/2026 23:22

justtosayihelped · 18/09/2026 10:36

I need something waterproof though. I have a couple of “water repellent” coats (Uniqlo) and they just get soaking wet

Look on sports pursuit website for waterproof jackets. They sell end of line stock.
See what they have, and then Google reviews of them to see if they are decent - you want genuine hiking gear, like certain ranges in Rab, Patagonia, marmot, Berghaus etc, not fashion brands or fashion versions.
Although they're only waist length I got a waterproof rab softshell jacket and a thin fleecy layer to wear underneath it. Really warm, genuinely waterproof. Total was around £150 and they've lasted years.

LozzaCh0ps · 19/09/2026 23:30

GroveInn · 19/09/2026 09:03

Can I ask the name of the style?

Helle I believe!

Itsbeenalongtimeincoming · 19/09/2026 23:43

DeftGoldHedgehog · 19/09/2026 22:00

And yet here you are, bizarrely angry and bitter on the internet about someone else's perfectly sensible coat choice.

Nope not bitter or angry just answering the initial question from the OP if dry robes are wanky which they are.

And atill I didn’t swear or get passive aggressive but am ‘bitter and angry’.
How ridiculous.

TheMadGardener · 20/09/2026 01:25

I work in primary schools on windy rain-swept Dartmoor. One of my colleagues does all her winter playground duties in a massive dryrobe and she is the warmest and driest of all of us! I say go for practicality over looks.

(Speaking as someone who wears a massive thermal neck-warmer on playground duty in midwinter to keep the wind/rain from going down my neck...)

tiredtiredd · 20/09/2026 01:50

They look like stinky dressing gowns

AgentKim · 20/09/2026 06:17

How can any form of clothing be "Wanky"? That's such a horrible word.
Lots of clothes snobs about.
Wear what you like I say life's too short to worry what other people think. We dont all live on a cat walk.

MyGutsyRubyCat · 20/09/2026 07:11

My very stylish DS lives in the same part of UK and she bought one to use for dog walking. She thinks it’s a good idea so it’s good enough for me.

Imdunfer · 20/09/2026 09:11

justtosayihelped · 18/09/2026 08:51

If a dry robe is off the charts where can I find a good coat?! It needs a hood!

The Equestrian market has a number of similar coats designed for riding instructors standing out teaching in all weathers. They are a bit less voluminous!

BooksandSlippers · 20/09/2026 09:15

I've got one for sorting the ducks in winter as they get so muddy. It's a Regatta one and brilliant for what I need. The ducks don't care how I keep dry and warm!

VivIsBlonde · 20/09/2026 10:04

Yes if you’re going to use it for it’s intended purpose, going to the beach for a cold water swim 🤣
if it’s for everyday use then no, they’re so ugly and I am near where they’re made and by the beach

rosagarten · 20/09/2026 10:04

WorthyOpalZebra · 18/09/2026 08:54

I have a Seasalt Janelle which is fairly long, waterproof and warm without being too heavy. It's not particularly stylish but I'm at the point in my life where I will take warm and dry over looking cool!

Just to add here that Seasalt is 20% off today.

Fizbosshoes · 20/09/2026 11:04

Imdunfer · 20/09/2026 09:11

The Equestrian market has a number of similar coats designed for riding instructors standing out teaching in all weathers. They are a bit less voluminous!

Are these acceptable if youre not a riding instructor or not doing anything to do with horses? Some people are quite strict about how and where dry robes should be worn!
(I sometimes do cross country races in the winter and lots of runners seem to have them - sometimes they get changed under them, sometimes they are just for warmth, before or after a race)

blueskydays45 · 20/09/2026 11:43

I've got a regatta one. It looks wanky and I feel like a bit of an idiot in it but it does keep me warm and dry when walking the dog or standing on the sidelines. The hood is rubbish though, too small so it sits too far back on my head.

allthiscarryon · 20/09/2026 11:46

justtosayihelped · 18/09/2026 08:45

I live in the south west. From October to March, our weather is 99% driving rain and howling wind. I’ve tried over the years to find a decent winter coat that keeps me warm and dry. I’ve found a few that work somewhat, including a lovely M&S rain jacket, but it’s a bit thin.

im considering just biting the bullet and buying a big waterproof changing coat from regatta and being cosy.

But does it look a bit wanky?! Is it okay?!

this is the one I have my eye on

https://www.regatta.com/adults-waterproof-changing-robe-dark-cherry/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=%7Bcampaignname%7D_16108952393&utm_content=%7Badgroupname%7D_&utm_term=&utm_brand=regatta&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=16097452002&gbraid=0AAAAADQdSE8zgQrK5ij4KWiKVriu-WZ3p&gclid=CjwKCAjwwrPVBhA1EiwAv_YO-URMzXzdUfe_4pedDIy1IwFhHmTq04jbmI2WidUesYp3VTPhi4AJvBoCfVEQAvD_BwE

YABU - accept the soggy legs and wear something more dignified

YANBU - stay warm and dry

Get an actual Dry Robe. They’re amazing and there is no other brand that come close to the quality and cosiness! Be prepared for people - mostly
men- to call you a Dry Robe Wanker whichever brand you go with. There’s something about women wearing clothes that disguises their figure and keep them warm and dry that pisses a lot of blokes off!
I love mine but live by the sea, open water swim, walk on the beach daily,
walk the dog is howling weather, go camping etc and importantly couldn’t give a shite what anyone else thinks!
Can be used as picnic blanket, to sit on outside, as emergency child warmer in the back of the car etc

Imdunfer · 20/09/2026 14:49

Fizbosshoes · 20/09/2026 11:04

Are these acceptable if youre not a riding instructor or not doing anything to do with horses? Some people are quite strict about how and where dry robes should be worn!
(I sometimes do cross country races in the winter and lots of runners seem to have them - sometimes they get changed under them, sometimes they are just for warmth, before or after a race)

Acceptable to whom?

The only person it needs to be acceptable to is you.

Greenmouldycheese · 20/09/2026 14:53

Go for it. I have been thinking of getting ine too. They are great for being outdoors during kids sports training and the school run. I dont think any winter coats are nice except for fur coats, but you obviously cant wear them during rain.

Fizbosshoes · 20/09/2026 15:41

Imdunfer · 20/09/2026 14:49

Acceptable to whom?

The only person it needs to be acceptable to is you.

All the people who think dry robes can only be worn within a 50 metre radius of water.....might also think the equestrian jacket can only be worn in close proximity to a horse!

allthiscarryon · 20/09/2026 15:52

Fizbosshoes · 20/09/2026 15:41

All the people who think dry robes can only be worn within a 50 metre radius of water.....might also think the equestrian jacket can only be worn in close proximity to a horse!

Dickheads are the ones insisting that you can only wear a changing robe near water! It’s bizarre, can you imagine another coat that people insist can ONLY be used under certain circumstances.