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AIBU to oppose housing 1,000 undocumented young men near Piddington?

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PiddingtonFan · 16/09/2026 09:38

We dont need anymore undocumented young males.

1000 proposed to be housed near Piddington. Young males from a different culture.

AIBU to agree with them. Enough undocumented males. Too many males overwhelming a small population. 😪

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LakieLady · 16/09/2026 10:13

Rollingpinofdoom · 16/09/2026 09:47

I think the government should take Piddington seriously. And let them be independent. Of course they’ll have to raise the money to reimburse government for use of the roads, they won’t be entitled to the nHs or schools, and will have to arrange to provide all the services councils provide such as bin collection etc. I say they crack on.

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And they'll have to form their own emergency services!

Asylum seekers have to be accommodated somewhere. What's so special about Piddington that it shouldn't be that somewhere?

billycat321 · 16/09/2026 10:13

They don't 'have to be housed somewhere'. If they are genuinely seeking asylum they should keep their documents to hand, not throw them away as many do. We taxpayers have no obligation to house people who cannot prove their identity.

MustTryHarderAndHarder · 16/09/2026 10:14

PiddingtonFan · 16/09/2026 09:49

Yes I agree they didn't take any notice when housed elsewhere. However, doesn't mean they should ignore the problem coming to them. Should everyone just ignore it because they are housed in cities or hotels in areas of higher population. Because others ignored it, should they.

Well why did they vote Lib Dem if they don't want asylum seeker in the country?

Why didn't they vote Reform?

I feel sorry for them, but it serves them right.

NeelyOHara · 16/09/2026 10:14

Theresmagicwheretheflowersgrow · 16/09/2026 10:10

You're taking the piss now.

They have been all along

LakieLady · 16/09/2026 10:15

Thecows · 16/09/2026 09:48

1200 unknown men just dumped somewhere and allowed to do what they like? That's not OK anywhere

They're not "allowed to do what they like", they're subject to the same laws as anyone in the UK.

angelos02 · 16/09/2026 10:15

Some of the comments on here are ridiculous. I can't quite work out whether they are serious or not. We are one of the most densely populated countries in the world. Enough is enough.

backformoreofthesame · 16/09/2026 10:15

I wonder what kind of documentation is available to people in war torn countries ?

when people have lost everything / does that mean everything apart form their passport and birth certificate?

is the claim that none of these people have any documents actually true ?

Cheese55 · 16/09/2026 10:16

MustTryHarderAndHarder · 16/09/2026 10:14

Well why did they vote Lib Dem if they don't want asylum seeker in the country?

Why didn't they vote Reform?

I feel sorry for them, but it serves them right.

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Reform is not going to be able to 'stop the boats' despite what they say. International law is in the way

NancyThompson · 16/09/2026 10:17

Cheese55 · 16/09/2026 10:16

Reform is not going to be able to 'stop the boats' despite what they say. International law is in the way

The Tory plan for offshoring the housing was a good one - the EU is now doing similar. It's just a pity that Labour decided to reverse it.

LakieLady · 16/09/2026 10:17

PiddingtonFan · 16/09/2026 09:52

Piddington doesn't look stale, it looks lovely. What jobs are young undocumented males going to do. Maybe retrain as care workers? Perhaps training and assistance with language and assimilation might be useful.

There is a leaflet they hand out.

Asylum seekers aren't allowed to work. The right to work only comes if and when they are granted refugee status.

Hirono · 16/09/2026 10:17

DebbieSavage · 16/09/2026 09:49

I am not a resident of Piddington but if I was I would have no problem with it. Immigration has always brought culture and breathed new life into our stale neighbourhoods. New food, new traditions to celebrate, new wonderful languages to be introduced to. What's not to like?

https://x.com/visegrad24/status/2084000695091401015?s=20

New traditions like 'drowning witches' on the boat over?

How wonderful. I wonder how they will determine whichnof the Piddington ladies are witches?!

Such fun entertainment!

We should all go and watch the witch trials!

The joys of diversity!

Visegrád 24 (@visegrad24) on X

Illegal migrants speak about how witches sometimes manage to sneak onto their dinghies when they cross the Mediterranean Sea to go to Europe. They say that when witches are detected, they are tied up and thrown into the sea to drown. 🇪🇺

https://x.com/visegrad24/status/2084000695091401015?s=20

TheOriginalSpacecadet · 16/09/2026 10:18

Rollingpinofdoom · 16/09/2026 10:06

But they did. They voted in an open borders MP?

“Piddington voted for an ‘open borders’ MP, but not agreeing to this proposal means they’re racist” is quite a leap.
Voting for a political candidate does not mean every person in that constituency has signed a blank cheque agreeing with every future proposal affecting their village.
People are perfectly entitled to support immigration, welcome refugees, vote for a particular party and still ask questions about the scale and practical impact of a specific accommodation proposal on their own community.
And if the response to those questions is simply “you voted for them, now shut up and accept it”, that doesn’t exactly sound like a particularly open-minded debate, does it?
Apparently democracy is wonderful right up until the people affected by a decision have the audacity to question it.

Hoardasurass · 16/09/2026 10:19

DebbieSavage · 16/09/2026 09:49

I am not a resident of Piddington but if I was I would have no problem with it. Immigration has always brought culture and breathed new life into our stale neighbourhoods. New food, new traditions to celebrate, new wonderful languages to be introduced to. What's not to like?

Really 1200 unknown men moved just outside a village of 350 people that has no shops or drs surgeries with no pedestrians access to the site and free to roam around in gangs to harass women and girls as has been shown to happen where ever they put these men and you'd be happy with that for your family ? Honestly?
Oh and before you accuse me of racism and or generalisation this is from scotland
https://www.scottishdailyexpress.co.uk/news/scottish-news/schoolgirls-handed-rape-alarms-amid-36982464

Schoolgirls given rape alarms amid fears hotel migrants are stalking them

Males staying at the Mercure Hotel in Dumfries have allegedly been 'leering' at teenage girls with one parent saying children are afraid to walk the streets

https://www.scottishdailyexpress.co.uk/news/scottish-news/schoolgirls-handed-rape-alarms-amid-36982464

Mischance · 16/09/2026 10:20

DebbieSavage · 16/09/2026 09:57

Sanitation, healthcare, tourism, leisure and entertainment. Basically all the jobs most Brits think they are too good to do.

I can guarantee these men will work hard for your community, but you just need to give them a chance instead of villifying them. Welcome them to your home, get to know them. Anyone can bond over a lovely cup of tea and a biscuit. The world isn't as scary as the right wing want you to believe.

But they are not allowed to work while the agonisingly slow bureaucracy processes their claims - this is the problem. They are at a loose end. Lots of young active men herded together with nothing to do is not a good thing at all, for them or for the local community.

Maybe Piddington and the surrounding areas could look at what voluntary work might be needed and create a scheme to direct them towards that.

dogsaremybusiness · 16/09/2026 10:20

Rollingpinofdoom · 16/09/2026 09:45

So you agree with reform then? Does that make you a far right bigot? If not, why not?

Ah yes, if you don't want thousands of young men from a different culture, living right next to you, you are a Bigot. In that case, yes, I'm Bigot, and I couldn't care less. It's the bleeding heart Lefties that have got us into this mess.

DebbieSavage · 16/09/2026 10:20

Hirono · 16/09/2026 10:17

https://x.com/visegrad24/status/2084000695091401015?s=20

New traditions like 'drowning witches' on the boat over?

How wonderful. I wonder how they will determine whichnof the Piddington ladies are witches?!

Such fun entertainment!

We should all go and watch the witch trials!

The joys of diversity!

Yeah, I don't believe a single thing coming from THAT platform. There's a reason I only use trusted sources like the Guardian and why I don't fear people from other cultures like people who use THAT platform do.

springintospring26 · 16/09/2026 10:20

ExtraOnions · 16/09/2026 10:04

Where do you suggest we put them ?

Not a HMO (flag wavers have done away with those)
Not hotels (flag wavers tried to burn those down)
Not near schools (as they are all sex offenders)
Not in City Centres (large groups makes women uncomfortable)

We aren’t going to build anywhere, it would take too long and be too expensive. Reusing vacant government owned buildings seems to make sense.

So where do they go ?

I live two doors away from an HMo owned by Clearsprimgs / Ready Homes. It houses male asylum seekers. There’s plenty of HMO’s in my town similar. I can tell you it’s currently not much fun although for many years it wasn’t a problem

I can assure anyone that these men are having the time of their lives. The house is a four floor Georgian listed property which is party central on our road. The party starts around midnight and finishes at 5am. Good news is they sleep in the day. A five bed house in my area sells for £450 and rent would be 2,000 minimum a month.
while our laws dictate we need to provide housing to those seeking asylum this is what we need to do no matter the inconvenience to our own lives. However we need to stop anymore.

sesquipedalian · 16/09/2026 10:21

@ Mouldemort -
The “vast majority” of them are really, really not genuine refugees. According to an article in the Times (Sept 6th this year), a whistleblower at the Home Office has said that “At best 1 per cent of asylum seekers are genuine. There’s almost no aspect of the asylum system that isn’t either a massive fraud or just really dysfunctional. Nothing works as it should.” He said “staff … feel unable to challenge even the most obviously false claims.” There are apparently “block applications” from Pakistanis purporting to be gay, for example. “ An undercover BBC investigation exposed a shadow industry of law firms and immigration advisers charging thousands of pounds to help asylum seekers lodge fake claims pretending to be gay.” There’s also the fact that it’s so much easier to process a successful claim than to reject someone. The whole system is rigged in the (economic) migrants’ favour, especially as most of them actually come on a student, visitor or work visa.

NancyThompson · 16/09/2026 10:22

LakieLady · 16/09/2026 10:17

Asylum seekers aren't allowed to work. The right to work only comes if and when they are granted refugee status.

And yet...
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cy4yjpv87v0o

Wonder how that's going?

 Deliveroo delivery driver rides a bicycle in London, Britain, 12 February 2024 - pictured from behind he is moving through and area crowded with pedestrians with his food delivery bag clearly visible on his back

Home Office to share asylum hotel locations with Deliveroo, Just Eat and Uber Eats

The agreement is aimed at helping companies identify migrants who are working illegally in the UK.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cy4yjpv87v0o

DebbieSavage · 16/09/2026 10:22

springintospring26 · 16/09/2026 10:20

I live two doors away from an HMo owned by Clearsprimgs / Ready Homes. It houses male asylum seekers. There’s plenty of HMO’s in my town similar. I can tell you it’s currently not much fun although for many years it wasn’t a problem

I can assure anyone that these men are having the time of their lives. The house is a four floor Georgian listed property which is party central on our road. The party starts around midnight and finishes at 5am. Good news is they sleep in the day. A five bed house in my area sells for £450 and rent would be 2,000 minimum a month.
while our laws dictate we need to provide housing to those seeking asylum this is what we need to do no matter the inconvenience to our own lives. However we need to stop anymore.

You know these men have often come from wartorn countries and faced the kind of oppression that people like us can only dream of right? I don't think anyone can blame them for letting their hair down and enjoying themselves for once in their darn lives, they aren't hurting anyone why can't you just live and let live?

Switchnow · 16/09/2026 10:23

PiddingtonFan · 16/09/2026 09:50

Usual insults rather than solutions to the problems we are experiencing. Anything productive to add or just insults and name calling?

What is your solution then? Where should these men be housed while waiting for decisions on their asylum applications, 70% of which will be approved?

NancyThompson · 16/09/2026 10:23

@sesquipedalian quite. In reality, there are huge, set-for-life wins if a migrant can get here and get their claim through. What this leads to in effect is a Hunger-Games style pipeline where we get those most willing to flout the law.

Hirono · 16/09/2026 10:23

DebbieSavage · 16/09/2026 10:20

Yeah, I don't believe a single thing coming from THAT platform. There's a reason I only use trusted sources like the Guardian and why I don't fear people from other cultures like people who use THAT platform do.

So the video isn't real because its on X?

If the guradian ran the video you would believe it?

🤨

The video is on many different platforms.

3 men stood there and all 3 agreed that witches must be killed.

Women are constantly having 'heart attacks' on the way over.

Can you not see that these men are not safe for women??

Their culture dictates a male hierarchy over women to the point women must cover themselves.

They will not integrate or assimilate they will dominate.

springintospring26 · 16/09/2026 10:25

DebbieSavage · 16/09/2026 10:22

You know these men have often come from wartorn countries and faced the kind of oppression that people like us can only dream of right? I don't think anyone can blame them for letting their hair down and enjoying themselves for once in their darn lives, they aren't hurting anyone why can't you just live and let live?

Ha ha
ive lived with asylum seekers so quite aware. I actually know the reality.

EarthSight · 16/09/2026 10:25

PiddingtonFan · 16/09/2026 09:38

We dont need anymore undocumented young males.

1000 proposed to be housed near Piddington. Young males from a different culture.

AIBU to agree with them. Enough undocumented males. Too many males overwhelming a small population. 😪

I feel sorry for the women who did not vote for their Lib Dem MP, but the rest of them, no.

Like many middle class people, they voted to welcome these men into the U.K......but as long as they're dumped onto the working class. As long as they're put somewhere else where they won't affect their own house prices or pose a danger to themselves, it's fine.

I hope other neighbourhoods see this as a cautionary tale, but I suspect they won't as their ideology is stronger than sense.

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