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Why hasn’t Michael Jackson been cancelled??

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PoliteSquid · 12/09/2026 19:56

I’ve been out at a 80s day disco today… loads of fun. But it struck me that people were still delighted by MJ… why? He was a wrong ‘un of the very worst kind. How come he hasn’t been cancelled?!

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AutumnLover1999 · 13/09/2026 09:06

Sakura7 · 13/09/2026 08:32

Wow you're naive.

Can you explain why Jackson was in possession of child pornography, if he's so innocent?

Wow you're naive. Don't you think he would have been arrested and jailed if that was the case? The art books don't count as child p.

labtest57 · 13/09/2026 09:07

SayWhatty · 13/09/2026 08:50

He especially liked being around aesthetically pleasing boys aged 7-13.

No girls for sleepovers.
No younger boys.
No older boys.
No siblings pairs.
No groups.
No disabled kids.
No fat kids.
No kids with facial differences.

Open your eyes.

Yes. Funny how the boys aged out of his 'friendship' to be replaced by another in his preferred age range

everyoldsock · 13/09/2026 09:08

Aluna · 13/09/2026 08:38

Jordy Chandler has never said any such thing. Gavin Arviso, James Safechuck, Wade Robson and now the Cascio family all said he abused them.

The Casio’s got millions in a settlement and now want another slice of the pie. It’s not a good look.

vickylou78 · 13/09/2026 09:10

SayWhatty · 13/09/2026 08:50

He especially liked being around aesthetically pleasing boys aged 7-13.

No girls for sleepovers.
No younger boys.
No older boys.
No siblings pairs.
No groups.
No disabled kids.
No fat kids.
No kids with facial differences.

Open your eyes.

He actually had girls and siblings and parents to stay at Neverland and often with his nieces and nephews etc. There are plenty of witnesses saying this.

The whole reason Neverland was built was so disabled and underprivileged children who couldn't afford Disney could go to the fairground. He had thousands go there each year. He was a huge philanthropist.

thefeetarefirst · 13/09/2026 09:11

SayWhatty · 13/09/2026 08:50

He especially liked being around aesthetically pleasing boys aged 7-13.

No girls for sleepovers.
No younger boys.
No older boys.
No siblings pairs.
No groups.
No disabled kids.
No fat kids.
No kids with facial differences.

Open your eyes.

Absolutely this!

All this ‘oh he was just like a child’ bollocks.

Do none of the posters saying this have son’s? Boys tend to have sleepovers in groups.

MJ isolated one child, in his age and sex preference, so he could abuse them.

EatMoreChocolate44 · 13/09/2026 09:12

You can love the art and not the artist.

vickylou78 · 13/09/2026 09:13

everyoldsock · 13/09/2026 09:08

The Casio’s got millions in a settlement and now want another slice of the pie. It’s not a good look.

Yep all of MJ's accusers are from families of liars (cascio's), were pressured by parents to lie, or are out to make a lot of money from their claims.

Fizbosshoes · 13/09/2026 09:14

vickylou78 · 13/09/2026 09:10

He actually had girls and siblings and parents to stay at Neverland and often with his nieces and nephews etc. There are plenty of witnesses saying this.

The whole reason Neverland was built was so disabled and underprivileged children who couldn't afford Disney could go to the fairground. He had thousands go there each year. He was a huge philanthropist.

There are plenty of other ways he could have helped disadvantaged children, without having a theme park at his house, and inviting young boys kids into his room.

Dolly Parton grew up similarly poor, also with lots of siblings. She set up a foundation to send books to kids, she didnt invite kids into her bed, to read them a bedtime story!

Zipidydodah · 13/09/2026 09:14

Because people will always put themselves, their thoughts and their wishes above anything else.
People will tie themselves in knots to explain / justify what they want to be true to the point of ludicrousness.

Half of America will still vote for Trump despite the fact that he led an insurrection, has sexually assaulted multiple women and raped girls and has be proven a liar on multiple occasions.
The other half voted for Biden despite it being very well known that he was open to bribes and deals had to include money for him “what’s in it for the big guy.”

Most Labour supporters tied themselves in ridiculous knots trying to explain how their MPs tax evasion, fraud, taking gifts of wealthy donors is “different” / less bad /whataboutery. Reform supporters will now do the same with dodgy donations.

Kanye West concerts sold out in seconds. My DD bought a ticket. She’s one of the most vocal politically active teenagers I know and she knows EXACTLY what he said but she loves his music (it’s their generational thing) and she made up all sorts mental gymnastics about why it was ok.

I love the red hot chilli peppers but I know the lead singer raped girls. And I want to make all sorts of excuses so I can listen to their music but I don’t …..because I’m trying not to be an arsehole. Most don’t.

Palomiino · 13/09/2026 09:14

AutumnLover1999 · 13/09/2026 09:06

Wow you're naive. Don't you think he would have been arrested and jailed if that was the case? The art books don't count as child p.

Only a pedophile would enjoy having those books. The legality or otherwise is irrelevant.

AutumnLover1999 · 13/09/2026 09:14

labtest57 · 13/09/2026 09:07

Yes. Funny how the boys aged out of his 'friendship' to be replaced by another in his preferred age range

Girls IE the sisters, Michael's cousin's etc would also be on sleepovers but this was never mentioned as it doesn't fit the narrative does it?

MonteStory · 13/09/2026 09:15

I love the self righteousness of “ they took the money!!,”

so youre telling me, if Jackson’s lawyer turned to you and said “look, your kid is traumatised. Their face is in every newspaper alongside awful sexual language. You will never win because he can afford the best lawyers in the world. For years. Years and years of battling in courts until he wins. His fans are cult level insane - people think he’s basically Jesus. His family are incredibly powerful. They will pay off the press. Hell they’ll probably pay of the government. This man has a completely unbelievable amount of money.

So how about we give you a few millions and this will all go away? You can pay for your kids therapy, move house so the press can’t find you. Your kids are set, their college fees, their first cars, their houses, their weddings. Everything”

And you, looking at your child who has faced the unimaginable would put them through a trial they would probably lose and be re traumatised and walk away with nothing?

Sure you would.

thefeetarefirst · 13/09/2026 09:16

vickylou78 · 13/09/2026 09:10

He actually had girls and siblings and parents to stay at Neverland and often with his nieces and nephews etc. There are plenty of witnesses saying this.

The whole reason Neverland was built was so disabled and underprivileged children who couldn't afford Disney could go to the fairground. He had thousands go there each year. He was a huge philanthropist.

Yes and Jimmy Seville was a philanthropist who gave lots of money to the hospital, so shut up you silly girl. Those are the words of a nurse that a girl disclosed her abuse by Saville to.

It’s clear the poster you are responding to was talking about MJs victims, the ones he took to his bed. Not the kids he used as cover, to fool people like you.

Palomiino · 13/09/2026 09:16

EatMoreChocolate44 · 13/09/2026 09:12

You can love the art and not the artist.

I don’t think you can listen to songs like ‘The Way you make me feel’ without being aware that these songs were likely about people too young to consent.

vickylou78 · 13/09/2026 09:17

It's so funny how people believe this narrative about him only hanging out with boys of a certain age etc. they ignore that he had plenty of siblings and girls who also stayed. There are girls on you tube who talk about this and their stories never get printed. The press leave out that as doesn't fit the narrative.

Busybeemumm · 13/09/2026 09:17

R Kelly, J Saville and whoever else mentioned just don't compare to MJ. They would have faded away with or without their convictions.

MJ on the other hand is probably one of the most influential artists and his music is outstanding. Always a hit on the dance floor. It hasn't dated and the teens of today play his music.

He was a sad lonely person deeply affected by the abuse by his father. He was not convicted. However I wouldn't leave my DC with him but don't mind them listening to a bit of MJ.

SayWhatty · 13/09/2026 09:18

vickylou78 · 13/09/2026 09:10

He actually had girls and siblings and parents to stay at Neverland and often with his nieces and nephews etc. There are plenty of witnesses saying this.

The whole reason Neverland was built was so disabled and underprivileged children who couldn't afford Disney could go to the fairground. He had thousands go there each year. He was a huge philanthropist.

Did he have any of them sleeping in his bed night after night? No.

Pedophiles are humans. They can do nice things, they can be philanthropic. They can also image-manage and groom.

I'm not convinced that the whole Neverland thing would have been cheaper than buying tickets for the same number of kids wholesale from Disney, but even if it was it is irrelevant.

MonteStory · 13/09/2026 09:19

AutumnLover1999 · 13/09/2026 09:14

Girls IE the sisters, Michael's cousin's etc would also be on sleepovers but this was never mentioned as it doesn't fit the narrative does it?

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There are some accounts of the sisters being there and of sibling groups. There are many accounts of children he didn’t abuse.

this isn’t evidence of anything. That’s like saying “well the shoplifter didn’t steal this packet of crisps. Or this one…or this one…or thse biscuits…or this chocolate”

So the fuck what? He wasn’t an idiot. He’s not going to say in front of the kids parents “no, only boys between 8 and 14 in my room thank you” If anything, the sisters are very helpful because they can truthfully say “he was nice to me, he never touched me” and their brothers think they won’t be believed.

thefeetarefirst · 13/09/2026 09:19

Fizbosshoes · 13/09/2026 09:14

There are plenty of other ways he could have helped disadvantaged children, without having a theme park at his house, and inviting young boys kids into his room.

Dolly Parton grew up similarly poor, also with lots of siblings. She set up a foundation to send books to kids, she didnt invite kids into her bed, to read them a bedtime story!

Yeah, if he wanted poor kids to go to Disney, he could have just paid for their holiday to Disney.

But that wouldn’t have given him access to kids and their families, or the ability to observe and choose preferred victims.

vickylou78 · 13/09/2026 09:20

thefeetarefirst · 13/09/2026 09:16

Yes and Jimmy Seville was a philanthropist who gave lots of money to the hospital, so shut up you silly girl. Those are the words of a nurse that a girl disclosed her abuse by Saville to.

It’s clear the poster you are responding to was talking about MJs victims, the ones he took to his bed. Not the kids he used as cover, to fool people like you.

There are literally hundreds of victims and witnesses regarding Saville - he was a monster

GoldenSandy · 13/09/2026 09:20

PoliteSquid · 12/09/2026 19:56

I’ve been out at a 80s day disco today… loads of fun. But it struck me that people were still delighted by MJ… why? He was a wrong ‘un of the very worst kind. How come he hasn’t been cancelled?!

Some people are more than their music, but for other people their music is more than them. He's the latter. Plus he's dead and therefore not profiting.
For the most part I agree in cancelling celebrities like the nonce in Lost Prophets. But I think MJ's music is just so damn good and he was found not guilty (not enough evidence). But mostly I think his music is so much part of the mainstream culture that it is hard to remove him.

I do think he's definitely not played that much on radio anymore and don't really hear him at weddings etc but still on occasion his music is played and I've never heard anyone boo it like they would others.

I hate the idea that someone can be so talented that we ignore they're probably a kiddy fiddler, but I think it really is the case. Plus he had a really difficult and brutal childhood which I think provides an explanation (not an excuse) and people are willing to accept that.

Palomiino · 13/09/2026 09:22

vickylou78 · 13/09/2026 09:20

There are literally hundreds of victims and witnesses regarding Saville - he was a monster

Savile abused anyone he could get his hands on. MJ had a type and the way he carried out the abuse was different. He was never violent.

everyoldsock · 13/09/2026 09:22

Palomiino · 13/09/2026 09:16

I don’t think you can listen to songs like ‘The Way you make me feel’ without being aware that these songs were likely about people too young to consent.

Edited

Bit of a reach there, I think.

Palomiino · 13/09/2026 09:24

everyoldsock · 13/09/2026 09:22

Bit of a reach there, I think.

Edited

Artists write songs about their own lives and feelings.

There is no evidence that he was attracted to adults.

WigglywagglyWanda · 13/09/2026 09:25

Aluna · 13/09/2026 08:19

Repulsive.

Indeed

I was prolific on past threads on this subject so won't repeat myself, but seeing the same old usernames popping up to defend a child abuser because he was the king of pop is staggering.

And on the actual subject of the thread...i think the old fans don't care and the new fans don't know the actual details of what this man did.

I admit that historically we have artists and authors who were less than perfect and I actually can separate the artists work from his/her personal life.

In Jacksons case, I find because I've heard so many details and actually believe the victims (notice his fans put that word in speech marks because thsy can't even admit it) I just have the biggest repulsion when his music is played. I would never say "cancel" because it's impossible due to his worldwide historical musical legacy, but on a personal level I find the man a monster.