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To feel relieved the school has now completely banned phones

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Eastie77Returns · 04/09/2026 14:15

DD’s school has completely banned phones for all incoming Y7 pupils and this will last for the entirety of their time at the school going toward. Existing pupils are still allowed to bring phones in but have to keep to the old rule (if they are seen or heard they are confiscated for 20 days).

DD is Y9 so she will be able to follow the old rule but DS, who starts secondary next year, will not be able to take one in. I honestly feel a massive sense of relief. He doesn’t have a phone at the moment and I was planning to get him an old style Nokia as he isn’t bothered about tech or latest phones. However I was a bit worried that he’d feel left if all his friends had iPhones etc. The school seems pretty serious about it all, all pupils and parents have to sign an agreement and any child caught with a phone will be excluded - no questions asked. The mother of DS’ best friend has now decided she will not send her DS to the school as originally planned as she thinks the ban is reckless and dangerous?! AIBU to think the ban is fine and makes complete sense plus millions of children managed to get to and from school safely without phones a generation ago!

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PurpleThistle7 · 09/09/2026 15:58

ChalkOutlines · 09/09/2026 15:51

No method would be 100% effective.

Correct. So why spend thousands on something so useless? Better off just making a strict rule around seeing them in class / hallways / taking them away and making parents come get them / whatever. Spending thousand and thousands when there are so many other priorities for something that clearly only works for kids who feel like doing it is a waste of everyone's time and money.

Newname26 · 09/09/2026 16:08

No method would be, but the idea of pouches its nuts to me.

Were teachers never kids, can the not imagine what there 13 year old self would do.
But maybe teachers by nature are the "follow the rules" types so it doesn't cross their mind that they'll end up with a 1000 pouches filled with junk.

Its even more funny that on another thread poster asked, what sort of parents would BUY a fake phone.
The idea of kids using an old phone, or calculator or phone shaped object was beyond them

ChalkOutlines · 09/09/2026 16:08

PurpleThistle7 · 09/09/2026 15:58

Correct. So why spend thousands on something so useless? Better off just making a strict rule around seeing them in class / hallways / taking them away and making parents come get them / whatever. Spending thousand and thousands when there are so many other priorities for something that clearly only works for kids who feel like doing it is a waste of everyone's time and money.

Presumably, because it still gives an extra layer of protection/inconvenience , so the number of pupils flaunting the rules will be smaller. It also shows a clear infringement of the rules if a student is seen/caught using a phone. No excuses.

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