AIBU to say 6:30am isn’t the middle of the night?

Whatever.

You seem obsessed with me, Dredging up my past posts, declaring my views to be unsound for some bizarre reason because of them, various posts which I consider to be personal attacks.

I can send you my picture on a dartboard if you like.
😂

You have been picked up by multiple posters for your gutter level standards and accusing the OP of being unbearable.

So yes… posts like this are going to attract detractors

Maybe, but they're attacking the post not the poster.
They're not dredging up my posts from the past like you are.

One post i referred to
one
Referencing the fact you are planning on leaving your partner but here you are finishing and denigrating someone who’s been told to fuck off by her husband

I just cannot fathom why anybody would go to the trouble of seeking out another poster's past posts.
I cannot fathom why anybody would do this.
Why they'd then declare they've no right to comment on anything else because of it.

It's ridiculous to me.

Now are you going to let this go or are we going to have this ridiculous back and forth all day?
I don't want that, do you?

When someone posts something as concerning and denigrating as you… hell yes I’m going to look at the background

and sure enough in your case…

your posts are demeaning and rude, this is an example of one!

You’re telling people to stop
replying to you, when you’re replying to them and deciding it’s the end of the thread! Give over, you’re embarrassing yourself!

@Shezz95 im glad you’ve made up, but you know this is not acceptable!

He was denied the drink he wanted, whilst under the weather, is that your parenting style, because you don’t want to get up at a reasonable time?

Poor parenting IMO, but most of us are better than that, as this thread shows.

Why bother trying to get them 'back to sleep' when it's a normal time to get up. Why cant he have milk when he wants it.

@Morethanalover you've hijacked a thread from a woman asking for advice and support for some pathetic attempt to have the last word and creating arguments that simply didn't need to be there.

This is the reason people take the piss out of Mumsnet. What an embarrassment.

6.30 am is very early. But a lot of kids do wake up at this unearthly hour time. You need to take turns getting up.

It is not my parenting style, no.

It might be others. A child not getting the drink it wants at the exact time it wants it is not the end of the world.

The dh did not actively stop the OP from getting a drink of milk, did he?
Like he absolutely forbade it.
Now that would be cause for concern. Yes I see that it would be.

In my opinion, the whole incident is a storm in a teacup.

The OP and her dh have made it up now.

Obviously people can continue to post but there's no point arguing with me about it.
I'm not the OP.

I'm not advocating arguing with the OP at all but surely if you are going to argue with anyone it should be her, not me.

I think that it's good that she had ignored what I consider to be the more over the top reactions on this thread.

In my opinion you’re seriously over invested in this thread and determined to have the last word!

You’re an embarrassment!

I know the DH and OP have made it up, you’re like a stuck bloody record!

Go and have a lie down!

This has been said by several posters

It’s almost lunch time in our house 😂

Telling you to fuck off and refusing an unwell toddler milk isn’t ok but sounds like you’re sorting things out.

The OP has imo quite correctly clearly ignored the advice given by most on this thread.

I've not 'hijacked' anything.
That's a ridiculous comment.

I think this is a great site but a lot of fun that is poked at it does come from people shouting 'ltb' over the slightest issue. Like this one here.

Oh my gosh.

No she hasn't.

Seriously this is ridiculous.

Oh do calm down.

It really is that you must have the last word.

You’ve agreed that you may well tell your partner to fuck oof in front of children, you’ve says it was acceptable to choose to deny a glass of milk instead of water, why punish an unwell 4 year old!

It’s about tone? So a 4 year old going to school and saying fuck off is fine if his tone is ok?

Your parenting is very seriously off, if you can in anyway justify this man’s actions.

Hopefully you’ll realise that and stop accepting and giving out this type of behaviour, because unless you yourself act like this, I cannot understand you saying it’s acceptable.

Yes, we know OP had forgiven her DH, long may that not last and she’s expects and gets better treatment, or leaves him.

i rest my case….🤣🤣🤣

Yeah. I can justify his actions because to my mind it's no big deal.
What more do you want me to say?

People bicker. So what?

Insulting me won't change that.
And if you want me to stop replying to you stop replying to me.

I'm not going to change my mind.

If you want to express outrage, express it to the OP.

Not that I'm suggesting you do that at all, absolutely not, however, expressing outrage at another poster over their take on a situation is pointless.

I'm not ever going to agree with you so just agree to disagree and leave it be.

@Pinkchickenwine you have no idea how I parent.
Sorry, I forgot to say this in my previous reply.
So no personal attacks, OK. They're not allowed.

I think if you come on a post where a new mum is struggling with a DH who is behaving badly and declare that she is the one who has a problem then it’s not unreasonable for a poster to point out that you’re position is unusual due to your own relationship issues.

The fact that you’re fixated on the OP being in the wrong and arguing with everyone who is giving sensible advice is odd

I rest my case…