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AIBU to think if we need to politely ask men not to rape women (or men), then we don't want such people in the UK? PART 2

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CoventryCity · 24/08/2026 11:09

'Don't rape, sexually assault or make kissing noises' at people, asylum seekers warned in guidance about living in UK

UK arrivals have been told to treat women equally, not sexually assault partners or have sex with children in a new Home Office pamphlet. As well as the guidebook, a series of posters have also been designed by the government.'

https://news.sky.com/story/asylum-seekers-warned-not-to-make-kissing-sounds-at-people-in-new-guidance-about-living-in-uk-13574744

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NancyThompson · 26/08/2026 20:20

Here's a collation of just a fraction of the street incidents like assaults and indecent behaviour
https://x.com/SanchoGarcesI/status/2092490306167943525

RichPetuniaAgain · 26/08/2026 20:38

That's beyond awful and makes me very, very angry. Too many times now there's reports in the press of assaults by our friendly boat people. Latest yesterday was a poor woman who was assaulted and stabbed with a broken bottle 30 times. Police had lifted him two days before for having his trousers around his ankles. He has schizophrenia and will now be locked up for a very long time. Other countries had already denied him asylum so he came here on a boat.
I asked AI why a boat person's right to come here trumps British women's right to safety and was informed they are seen as two completely different things and not intertwined.
It has got to the stage that I'm very, very scared for what's to come. Ideally, there needs to be a grassroots movement for women dealing with this very issue because no-one (and by this I mean politicians) is listening.

Windsurf · 26/08/2026 21:04

The public sector equality duty overrides women's safety. As soon as any human anywhere on the planet decides to be British, the public sector will spend as much money as they can on Britishing them, and giving them "equality", ie free stuff the taxpayers don't get but have to pay for.

BubbleAndLeek · 26/08/2026 21:14

It baffles me how they get accommodation but we have homeless Brits

Violetdeparma · 26/08/2026 21:17

@BubbleAndLeek everything about it baffles me.

Putin is behind much of it and he is laundering criminal money he loves it

GaIadriel · 26/08/2026 21:20

Windsurf · 26/08/2026 21:04

The public sector equality duty overrides women's safety. As soon as any human anywhere on the planet decides to be British, the public sector will spend as much money as they can on Britishing them, and giving them "equality", ie free stuff the taxpayers don't get but have to pay for.

It's ridiculous.

There's always some numpty on here pointing out that the hotels are usually less than salubrious, but young British men often don't get housed at all as they're considered low priority. Literally a tent and sleeping bag in many cases.

The ideal solution would be for those in favour to pay extra tax in lieu of those not in favour. They'd be moaning like fuck if they had to pay towards statues of Nigel Farage!

GaIadriel · 26/08/2026 21:29

NullaEffugium · 26/08/2026 18:50

You have misunderstood. I was responding to the claim that Christians never ever do such things.

When did they sexually assault 1200 European women in one night? In public.

BubbleAndLeek · 26/08/2026 21:32

GaIadriel · 26/08/2026 21:29

When did they sexually assault 1200 European women in one night? In public.

Because some German men commit crimes at much much lower rates it's all okay 👍

GaIadriel · 26/08/2026 21:46

Some people don't like the focus shifting to these foreign men because it removes their favourite weapon - namely using sexual assault stats to berate the men around them.

I've read so many threads on here where the OP is lamenting that her 'previously very supportive' husband got annoyed about hearing sexual assault stats etc. Always loads of posters saying "oh, you've seen his true colours now!" These stories invariably start with "we were having dinner and I mentioned...."

Like, who wants to be lectured by some self righteous battleaxe while they're having their tea after a long day? And the privilege checking only ever goes in one direction. Try mentioning white feminism or that the biggest DV metastudy to date (by far) found women more likely to perpetrate....you will most likely witness an acute fembolism!

Were I a man hearing a privileged woman using the royal 'we' to build a victim narrative I'd probs find it hard not to enquire how many times they'd been murdered themselves.

GaIadriel · 26/08/2026 21:50

BubbleAndLeek · 26/08/2026 21:32

Because some German men commit crimes at much much lower rates it's all okay 👍

Well, if immigrants are allowed to do it while living off our charity then we can't really complain about tax payers doing the same.

twinklystar23 · 27/08/2026 04:04

Councils get money from central government to do so.

CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 07:07

@5MinuteArgument 'I really don't understand the liberal left mindset that thinks this is a price worth paying in order to be seen as 'tolerant' and 'welcoming'. Those people have blood on their hands.'

It must be beyond the 'to be seen as tolerant and welcoming' stage, if it was ever about that in the first place. There's definitely more to it, otherwise it's inexplicable. I don't know what it is - but it concerns money and power, I'm sure.

The way the thread - regarding the government cover up of sexual data offences linked to asylum seekers / immigrants - was almost immediately taken down yesterday, speaks volumes.

I really don't want a Reform 'government' but this is where we are heading, if this continues. absolutely idiotic.

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CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 07:09

CoventryCity · 26/08/2026 13:49

No response. Like calling the GP surgery.

Still no response btw

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CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 07:16

I can't actually believe that the UK my children are growing up in is unsafe for them. It is staggering.

Governments have allowed this - enabled this - encouraged this- after all the armed forces and its' members have done to protect us over many years. The government/s have imported danger into all of our lives. Well. Not the uber wealthy peoples' lives. Obviously.

The general UK born public, come last. Despite the fact that we are the only ones paying the taxes to prop the system up. For now anyway.

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LuckyHazelFox · 27/08/2026 07:53

NullaEffugium · 26/08/2026 18:50

You have misunderstood. I was responding to the claim that Christians never ever do such things.

Are Christians carrying out executions for people being homosexual and for going against dictatorships?

GunnelVallquist · 27/08/2026 08:02

LuckyHazelFox · 27/08/2026 07:53

Are Christians carrying out executions for people being homosexual and for going against dictatorships?

Must have missed that.

MaturingCheeseball · 27/08/2026 08:31

I think it’s very worrying that the Statistics thread was removed. After all there is a current bill in Parliament on this issue - but we here are not able to discuss the matter? Why not?

LuckyHazelFox · 27/08/2026 08:54

GunnelVallquist · 27/08/2026 08:02

Must have missed that.

I know, what are we like!

LuckyHazelFox · 27/08/2026 08:55

MaturingCheeseball · 27/08/2026 08:31

I think it’s very worrying that the Statistics thread was removed. After all there is a current bill in Parliament on this issue - but we here are not able to discuss the matter? Why not?

I didn't know that. That's rather worrying.

MaturingCheeseball · 27/08/2026 09:03

I wonder what would happen if there happened to be another Statistics thread…

EasternStandard · 27/08/2026 09:08

CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 07:09

Still no response btw

Hmm it would be good to know why.

Usually gov discussions and articles in a main paper are fine.

LuckyHazelFox · 27/08/2026 09:17

MaturingCheeseball · 27/08/2026 09:03

I wonder what would happen if there happened to be another Statistics thread…

Where was the deleted thread posted?

CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 09:42

LuckyHazelFox · 27/08/2026 09:17

Where was the deleted thread posted?

I posted it in AIBU. AIBU to expect the government to publish the data that has been requested (or something like that. It was deleted so quickly, I forget).

Instead Labour and Lammy are going through the courts (using tax payers money) to try and block the asylum seeker sex crime statistics being published.

I added something along the lines of we're paying for them they're supposed to be working for us but they are not, so how do we get rid of them? Bit of a mangled Tony Benn quote.

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CoventryCity · 27/08/2026 09:45

MaturingCheeseball · 27/08/2026 09:03

I wonder what would happen if there happened to be another Statistics thread…

How about if maturing cheeseball tries that one? CoventryCity obviously lost this one, as usual.. but don't announce it here, our kind giving never nasty observers will be looking out for it. A different user name is always a nice refresh, palate cleanser

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BunnyRabbitBella · 27/08/2026 09:51

How about the human rights of native Brits? Why are human rights only for asylum seekers?

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