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AIBU to want a different Universal Credit work coach?

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QuestioningEverythingNow · 08/08/2026 12:19

dons hard hat in advance

I have always worked and have been a solid earner but have been recently told formally (writing was arguably on the wall a few months before) that my job is being outsourced to a combination of a cheaper service centre outside the UK and AI. As I said I saw it coming but assumed I would be able to get a new job quickly or that an exit package would be offered. That has not happened.

I have been looking while still employed, but the job market has handed it's arse to me and it is clear that I will struggle to find a new role quickly. I therefore went to the Job Centre to claim UC from when my employment ends.

My AIBU is that I have NO faith in the work coach that I have been allocated.
She literally struggled to navigate the basic sign up process - not clicking in the right place, not recognising where a response was required, not seeing where answers were already answered so clicking "back" instead of "next". What should have been a 30 min ID check took almost an hour. She doesn't have great typing skills so lots of typo errors when filling in fields etc. I ended up asking her to face the screen towards me and pointing out typos, missed fields, incorrect selections from drop downs etc. No issue with it being collaborative, some people aren't great with typing on screens etc.

This is not personal - I have nothing against her. I just don't think this person is going to be helpful to me in my very urgent job hunt. I have to see her every week which I have no issue with but I just don't have much faith in how she will actually help me and I am DESPERATE - I am job-hunting almost constantly - I am so stressed - I am doing my own searches and applications, sweating my network, applying to anything (not just in my field) etc.

I have never claimed before, never thought I would have to but here I am. I have no issue with her personally but I just can't see how she is going to be helpful when she doesn't seem that capable on a basic ID check and seemed to have zero experience or awareness of my job and what roles would be suitable. My job is basic - I am an accountant, nothing at all to write home about. She kept suggesting applications to things far outside my remit and that I am not qualified for eg SEN teaching assistants, delivery driving (I don't have access to a car) etc.

Is it possible to request a different work coach? At the moment, I can't see how we will work well together.

Is that entitled given that I am seeking to claim benefits, and am fully aware that I am quite privileged that this is an option in itself, something I am very aware of. Perhaps ashamed as well.

I could be panicking/catastrophising so am braving AIBU for more balanced views.

I will attend the next appointment and be polite and engaged - I just wondered if it would be better to switch coach sooner rather than later. Is that possible? Any suggestions, shared experiences, guidance would be so appreciated.

OP posts:
MolkosTeenageAngst · 08/08/2026 18:47

QuestioningEverythingNow · 08/08/2026 18:36

Thank you for this and the clear explanation about qualifications. Thanks also to @Cherry8809 and @inthequietofdawn for your comments about being a SEN TA/teacher. There were 2 separate jobs pushed to me, to be clear.

I appreciate the information you have provided about the fact that I don't need specific qualifications to do this kind of work. That was helpful. I do have 2 children of my own and so I don't have an active hate for kids, which also is useful.

However, I am a chartered accountant and tax advisor. I trained very hard for many years to gain my qualifications. Many many exams I took and passed to get my accreditation. And I did enjoy my work.

It just got taken away from me with little to no notice.

I do hear what you are saying - I am the one who is desperate with no alternative so yes, I will probably complete the SEN teaching assistant/teaching job applications because I am desperate. Based on what you have said, I just need to show transferable skills. I can do this.

I do think though, it is heart-breaking for me in a way. I worked so hard to build my career, a career of my choice. I am not sure if I can express this well but it feels like I am taking a job just for the sake of it rather than out of real desire for it.

I cannot hand on heart say that I ever wanted to be a Teaching Assistant and I feel sad for myself and I also feel sad for the kids I'd be working with to be honest, because I can't truly say I'd want to be there. Not because there is anything at all wrong with being a TA but because it's just not really for me.

But thank you for telling me that there is no impediment to me getting such jobs due to lack of prior experience. That is helpful.

I totally understand why you wouldn’t want the job - I absolutely love my job as a teacher in a special school and would be devastated if I had to leave it and the only option was to become an accountant. I wasn’t meaning to suggest it would be the long term role for you, but perhaps an option if you can’t find a job you want to do straight away. If you did take a TA job I would still encourage you to keep looking for something you actually want to do and I would always say the same to my team,

I really hope that you are able to find something more suitable to your skills, experience and interests than being a TA. My understand is that August is not the best time to be job searching as so many industries quieten down a bit with staff on annual leave and so there may be more options available in the coming weeks and months. I really hope this is the case.

QuestioningEverythingNow · 08/08/2026 18:45

topcat2014 · 08/08/2026 13:25

I'm an accountant who lost a job last year sacked :( but, like the OP, not from a practice background.

I would love to move to doing "the books" for small businesses, but, these days the costs of compliance insurance and software would be at least £3k per year.

I'm now back in manufacturing. Lower level, but zero stress.

I have a practice background :-(

When I said "sweating my networks" I mean this honestly - I have spoken to all my former bosses but they have "no budget for new headcount". My CV is "on file" in so many places.

I am too expensive, basically - too much experience to come in as a cheap trainee and I know this is true.

When I was a Manager in professional services I was acting as a Senior Manager and the Senior Manager above me was acting as a Director and so on and so on.

OP posts:
19lottie82 · 08/08/2026 18:43

QuestioningEverythingNow · 08/08/2026 13:28

It is quite sad but a measure of my mental state - I did google any work coach jobs available in my area because I could actually do that job, and do it better!

I don't think it is possible to understand how bad things are in the UK job market and/or these systems until you have actually experienced it.

I intend to attend all appointments and have utter respect for the need to be accountable if expecting to receive benefits.

I will continue job hunting my own way i guess; that is what I am taking away from this thread.

@Pickledonion1999 I have a full driving licence - been driving since I was 16 (licensed - grew up in a different country with different age limits) - I just don't have a car at the moment. Husband has kept the shared car (acrimonious divorce).

My life is just really sh*t at the moment and all I want to do is get a job and this seems impossible for some reason.

Have you tried registering with recruitment agencies? They often have immediate start work that’s a lot easier to walk into then a. Permanent role.

bobajob1 · 08/08/2026 18:41

@MayaPyjama ’s post looks good OP!
Plus, never mind the SEN jobs, someone more suitable can do those.

wanttoworkbut · 08/08/2026 18:39

Stop apologising, you are entitled social security. You have paid your stamp and have children to support.

I'm on JSA so maybe different, I don't know if the people who ring me are coaches but they are quite hands off. They did refer me to Smartworks who are excellent.

I am also midlife, dumped from a technical career that is in theory in demand. I'm sure if I went down south there'd be more opportunities but I don't want to leave my home, I have little else to cling on to.

QuestioningEverythingNow · 08/08/2026 18:36

MolkosTeenageAngst · 08/08/2026 15:28

I’m a SEN teacher and you don’t need any qualifications to be a SEN teaching assistant, experience with children (with or without SEND) is preferable but even that isn’t essential especially in the current climate where recruiting staff is a real challenge. If you have your own children you would have more experience than most of the people we employ!

Just to add, obviously you would be working under the direction of the teacher and at my school you would receive training to support you in the role too. There is also the opportunity for TAs to gain on the job qualifications once they’ve passed probation.

Edited

Thank you for this and the clear explanation about qualifications. Thanks also to @Cherry8809 and @inthequietofdawn for your comments about being a SEN TA/teacher. There were 2 separate jobs pushed to me, to be clear.

I appreciate the information you have provided about the fact that I don't need specific qualifications to do this kind of work. That was helpful. I do have 2 children of my own and so I don't have an active hate for kids, which also is useful.

However, I am a chartered accountant and tax advisor. I trained very hard for many years to gain my qualifications. Many many exams I took and passed to get my accreditation. And I did enjoy my work.

It just got taken away from me with little to no notice.

I do hear what you are saying - I am the one who is desperate with no alternative so yes, I will probably complete the SEN teaching assistant/teaching job applications because I am desperate. Based on what you have said, I just need to show transferable skills. I can do this.

I do think though, it is heart-breaking for me in a way. I worked so hard to build my career, a career of my choice. I am not sure if I can express this well but it feels like I am taking a job just for the sake of it rather than out of real desire for it.

I cannot hand on heart say that I ever wanted to be a Teaching Assistant and I feel sad for myself and I also feel sad for the kids I'd be working with to be honest, because I can't truly say I'd want to be there. Not because there is anything at all wrong with being a TA but because it's just not really for me.

But thank you for telling me that there is no impediment to me getting such jobs due to lack of prior experience. That is helpful.

OP posts:
NeverDropYourMooncup · 08/08/2026 18:07

QuestioningEverythingNow · 08/08/2026 14:31

I am literate, numerate and breathing. I am not making demands. As I said.

I do not think I am special. Why would I? I am just a standard working mum of 2 who has lost her job and needs support until I can change things for better.

What on earth makes you say that I think I am "special". Special for what? Special for working before? Special for claiming benefits for the first time? What is so special about me? Nothing! Nothing is special about me.

I am clearly desperate and have not hidden this. I do not want to remain unemployed - I am desperate for work.

I don't think I can be a SEN teacher without any upskilling or guidance. I only know very basic information about SEN children and their needs. I would not be able to support them appropriately, I don't think. I don't think their parents would be happy with me handling this with no experience at all.

Edited

It's the point of view of UC/the benefits system and is how you are regarded by them. The fact that you've worked before and have both qualifications and experience is irrelevant, as you are in the same position as claimants that haven't. You also said a SEND TA, which is a position that doesn't necessarily require experience or specific qualifications, and with the way things are now, most parents would be relieved that there was actually somebody with their child for a change.

In any case, it's shit, the system's shit, it's definitely not designed to provide a bespoke service, it's intended to make sure that you keep on applying for jobs in exchange for the UC payment. Genuinely, you keep doing what you are already doing, meet their requirements, keep the journal up to date, smile sweetly and take the money. You're entitled to it.

MayaPyjama · 08/08/2026 17:54

QuestioningEverythingNow · 08/08/2026 14:38

Thank you - am registered with so many agencies it's hard to keep track of. I have about 24 folders at this point.

Indeed, Reed, CV Library, Total Jobs, etc - all done

Specialist accounting firms - all done

Tax recruiting agencies (which aligns with my experience) - all done - lots of emails saying no recruitment budget at the moment, maybe after the summer etc

Thank you though. Will keep trying.

Where are you and what is your specialism?

I am always astounded by these job market posts as I (a tax accountant, albeit in practice) have never been in such demand nor have we ever found it so difficult to find potential recruits (I had a vacancy open for a full year with no applicants). You will have absolutely heard of where I work, and nationally we have about 30 open vacancies you’re likely to be qualified for (I don’t know your geography).

Have you tried applying for junior roles in practice? Say at even just the top 10 firms? I just can’t square your experience with mine.

OneRealRosePlayer · 08/08/2026 17:43

Try school business managers or primary school receptionists. Not fantastic money but thats what my dad did after a career as an accountant

largeprintagathachristie · 08/08/2026 17:12

I’m not sure if the role was called a Work Coach at the time, but when I was on job seekers allowance 11 years ago, my equivalent thought I was an artist because I had a Bachelor of Arts degree.

allydoobs83 · 08/08/2026 16:57

It sounds like my partner is a similar position; he's been a self employed copywriter for 12 years,but the introduction of AI made him redundant, almost overnight. He's been applying for every possible job (I work a 3 on/3off night shift pattern,and my 7 year old son lives with us so one of us needs to be able to do the school drop off/pick up, no family nearby, and DP doesn't drive),so his options are limited.
He has seen a few Career Advisors and Work Coaches through the Job Centre,but they've been no help whatsoever.

Hope Andy Burnham has a plan for supporting people that have been made irrelevant, due to AI.....

waterrat · 08/08/2026 16:38

As a parent of a sen child who relies on Ta support it makes me unbelievably sad and angry that a work coach would suggest sen ta jobs to random people.

It is a highly sensitive and difficult role working with very vulnerable children who will be struggling even to attend sxhool in many cases. Absolutely ludicrous they are hawking job adverts around to anyone they can in the job centre and shows how poorly the education sector is treated. They should pay them more and use proper qualified professionals

I digress !

waterrat · 08/08/2026 16:35

Op i feel for you.

This is not exactly the same but I have been through similar trying to navigate the council sen system for my very vulnerable child.

I have been honestly gobsmacked by the poor levels of professionalism and general incompetence in many people I have been forced to rely on for support.

I'm afraid you need to keep your expectations so low they are in the bin.

Boomer55 · 08/08/2026 16:28

DWP Work coaches are notoriously useless. Your own job searches will be more use.

martha79 · 08/08/2026 16:25

Netcurtainnelly · 08/08/2026 16:09

What did they say?

I was allowed the slightly more expensive trousers that fit 🤣 They did also pay travel expenses for my induction day in that job (mostly remote role but had to go in person for that) - these little bits did help after running through a lot of savings.

PiMCA · 08/08/2026 16:23

I think a lot of people's experience of work coaches seems to hark back to the harsh sanction days under the Tories. Currently they are supposed to help people actually find work. They are not just administrators, they are junior management level, the administration of UC is generally done centrally and has nothing to do with individual jobcentres.

Sorry you are not finding your work coach helpful, but she does appear to be right in suggesting the SEN TA role though. And She probably has between 120 and 220 people on her caseload so you not having transport may have slipped her mind. On the other hand she may just be shit at her job. You could ask for a new work coach but if you do it through the journal you will be asking her!

Netcurtainnelly · 08/08/2026 16:10

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 08/08/2026 15:54

These threads always astonish me. I'm a work coach in Denmark and I cannot imagine treating my clients this way.

Alot if the JC staff are horrible, it's a shitty job, and they are under pressure to stop people's money.
If they weren't working at the job centre they would be out of a job too.

I can't believe anyone chooses to work there these days.

NotTheMrMenAgain · 08/08/2026 16:10

Try the civil service jobs site - there should be finance roles across the service but HMRC might be a good bet as it sounds like you have lots of experience and their recruitment is supposed to be ‘blind’, so no age discrimination (allegedly).

I had a long civil service career and ultimately had to resign when trying to work, be a single parent and care for a terminally ill parent became more than I could cope with, after three years of juggling. It took me almost two years to find a new job which fit around my caring commitments and it was pretty depressing, to be honest. I had a number of work coaches and some of them seemed lovely, we had some mutually supportive chats - a good number of them we not
enjoying the work coach experience, as it’s a low band, low paid civil service admin role with more targets/micro-management/people related aggro than the pay warrants.

But, as many people have mentioned, their role is basically to tick the boxes, make certain you are jumping through the relevant hoops and prod/harass you until you get a job. You should have an easier time of it as you will be seen as low-hanging fruit because you are actually willing to work.

Good luck, it’s rough out there.

Netcurtainnelly · 08/08/2026 16:09

martha79 · 08/08/2026 14:14

I had to claim UC for a few months after a contract ended and I hadn't found a new job - my work coach wasn't quite that bad but also fairly clueless (I've got a Masters and not had any previous breaks in employment since I was a teenager - not what they're used to dealing with). The worst bit was having to go to 'jobs fairs' which were just a few people sitting behind desks with posters, mainly for construction job schemes - I also don't drive so wasn't suddenly becoming a digger driver... I did get asked to apply for a job they had going in the job centre 😬🤣

It was a depressing few months. Just turn up to the appointments, keep applying for jobs and keeping your records of what you're applying for, to make sure you're ticking all the boxes.

They were so excited when I did finally get a job - my work coach was desperate to give me money from a fund they have for new work clothes - which I did take up, but turned out to be the slightly humiliating experience of having to send the exact links to the cheapest items at Matalan and tell them what size I was (I wrote a small essay about how I couldn't buy the very cheapest trousers because I'm short and needed petite length so could I please have an extra few pounds 🥹).

What did they say?

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 08/08/2026 15:54

These threads always astonish me. I'm a work coach in Denmark and I cannot imagine treating my clients this way.

Netcurtainnelly · 08/08/2026 15:45

QuestioningEverythingNow · 08/08/2026 12:19

dons hard hat in advance

I have always worked and have been a solid earner but have been recently told formally (writing was arguably on the wall a few months before) that my job is being outsourced to a combination of a cheaper service centre outside the UK and AI. As I said I saw it coming but assumed I would be able to get a new job quickly or that an exit package would be offered. That has not happened.

I have been looking while still employed, but the job market has handed it's arse to me and it is clear that I will struggle to find a new role quickly. I therefore went to the Job Centre to claim UC from when my employment ends.

My AIBU is that I have NO faith in the work coach that I have been allocated.
She literally struggled to navigate the basic sign up process - not clicking in the right place, not recognising where a response was required, not seeing where answers were already answered so clicking "back" instead of "next". What should have been a 30 min ID check took almost an hour. She doesn't have great typing skills so lots of typo errors when filling in fields etc. I ended up asking her to face the screen towards me and pointing out typos, missed fields, incorrect selections from drop downs etc. No issue with it being collaborative, some people aren't great with typing on screens etc.

This is not personal - I have nothing against her. I just don't think this person is going to be helpful to me in my very urgent job hunt. I have to see her every week which I have no issue with but I just don't have much faith in how she will actually help me and I am DESPERATE - I am job-hunting almost constantly - I am so stressed - I am doing my own searches and applications, sweating my network, applying to anything (not just in my field) etc.

I have never claimed before, never thought I would have to but here I am. I have no issue with her personally but I just can't see how she is going to be helpful when she doesn't seem that capable on a basic ID check and seemed to have zero experience or awareness of my job and what roles would be suitable. My job is basic - I am an accountant, nothing at all to write home about. She kept suggesting applications to things far outside my remit and that I am not qualified for eg SEN teaching assistants, delivery driving (I don't have access to a car) etc.

Is it possible to request a different work coach? At the moment, I can't see how we will work well together.

Is that entitled given that I am seeking to claim benefits, and am fully aware that I am quite privileged that this is an option in itself, something I am very aware of. Perhaps ashamed as well.

I could be panicking/catastrophising so am braving AIBU for more balanced views.

I will attend the next appointment and be polite and engaged - I just wondered if it would be better to switch coach sooner rather than later. Is that possible? Any suggestions, shared experiences, guidance would be so appreciated.

The DWP don't and can't help. It's merely an admin centre where they process claims. Their job is to harass you and pressure you into work and give out sanctions.
That's basically a punishment for relying on them and daring to need assistance.

Hope you can find yourself something soon. You won't get any help from the jobcentre just harrassment and threats.

It's many years since the job centre would actually help.

In fact there's rumours they are going to be renamed at the sanction centre 🤔😧🙃

Stopthattrain · 08/08/2026 15:41

I was in a very similar situation to you last year and unfortunately my partner is now going through it. Truthfully, if you’re an experienced professional then they don’t know how/have resources to help you so changing your work coach won’t make any difference. On one occasion the only advice they had for me was to just stay positive. Sorry you’re going through this, I hope you find something soon.

MolkosTeenageAngst · 08/08/2026 15:28

QuestioningEverythingNow · 08/08/2026 13:11

Thanks. Understood re: apply for any job - I am of the same mindset - I am really desperate. But I can't be a SEN teacher?!

I’m a SEN teacher and you don’t need any qualifications to be a SEN teaching assistant, experience with children (with or without SEND) is preferable but even that isn’t essential especially in the current climate where recruiting staff is a real challenge. If you have your own children you would have more experience than most of the people we employ!

Just to add, obviously you would be working under the direction of the teacher and at my school you would receive training to support you in the role too. There is also the opportunity for TAs to gain on the job qualifications once they’ve passed probation.

inthequietofdawn · 08/08/2026 15:23

SEN teaching assistant (as in your OP) or SEN teacher (as in your subsequent posts)? They are two different roles. Some vacancies for the former do not require any specific qualifications or experience. Sometimes that isn’t a problem because in some situations it is more about having the right fit rather than someone with SEN qualifications/experience.

Cherry8809 · 08/08/2026 15:23

QuestioningEverythingNow · 08/08/2026 14:31

I am literate, numerate and breathing. I am not making demands. As I said.

I do not think I am special. Why would I? I am just a standard working mum of 2 who has lost her job and needs support until I can change things for better.

What on earth makes you say that I think I am "special". Special for what? Special for working before? Special for claiming benefits for the first time? What is so special about me? Nothing! Nothing is special about me.

I am clearly desperate and have not hidden this. I do not want to remain unemployed - I am desperate for work.

I don't think I can be a SEN teacher without any upskilling or guidance. I only know very basic information about SEN children and their needs. I would not be able to support them appropriately, I don't think. I don't think their parents would be happy with me handling this with no experience at all.

Edited

My mum worked in retail for 30+ years, then applied to her local college as a SEN TA. She got the job with no qualifications or experience and has been there for 5 years now.