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To ask her to STOP blowing your stupid fkn vape in my direction.

7 replies

DallazMajor · 06/08/2026 11:22

AIBU to ask my friend to stop vaping at inappropriate times.

We go on holidays together and she’s always surrounded by a cloud of vape smoke. (It’s like she’s just coming through the fucking reveal door on “Stars in their Eyes”

Vaping as soon as she wakes up (in bed) We share a twin room. Plus vaping in the room generally.
Vaping whilst we are dining in restaurants in-between courses.
Vaping just every fucking where and just blowing it into my face.

It stinks. Like sickly smells such as candy floss or bubble gum.

OP posts:
Cherrysoup · 06/08/2026 11:42

In the room is unfair on you, you can’t escape. Of course YANBU.

DallazMajor · Today 10:43

Cherrysoup · 06/08/2026 11:42

In the room is unfair on you, you can’t escape. Of course YANBU.

It just stinks!

OP posts:
Flamingojune · Today 10:46

How selfish of her

Elieza · Today 10:46

its vile. absolutely vile.

the other issue is that the machine does not create smoke. it comes out as smoke only AFTER it’s been inside the persons mouth and lungs.

so when it blows in your face and you smell the candy sickly sweet smell ….you know it’s been inside someone. sometimes a stranger walking by.

🤢 🤢 🤢

Mumdiva99 · Today 10:47

Yuk a vape is as disgusting as a cigarette. Surely she can refrain from vaping in the apartment and at the dinner table.

x2boys · Today 10:48

DallazMajor · 06/08/2026 11:22

AIBU to ask my friend to stop vaping at inappropriate times.

We go on holidays together and she’s always surrounded by a cloud of vape smoke. (It’s like she’s just coming through the fucking reveal door on “Stars in their Eyes”

Vaping as soon as she wakes up (in bed) We share a twin room. Plus vaping in the room generally.
Vaping whilst we are dining in restaurants in-between courses.
Vaping just every fucking where and just blowing it into my face.

It stinks. Like sickly smells such as candy floss or bubble gum.

You dont seem like the ideal holiday companions

Whatifitallgoesright · Today 10:49

She should be going outside to smoke it as if it was a normal fag. In-between courses is horrible. Hasn't staff ever told her to take it outside?

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