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AIBU to find European summer holidays too expensive and crowded now?

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raleigha · 06/08/2026 09:52

I used to love going on holiday to Spain, to Greece, to Portugal for our summer hols.

But it’s all just so expensive now? I don’t need fancy.

Yes I can seek out the local taverna or go to the local markets, but I then spend most of my holiday looking out for rip off establishments that want to charge me €9 for a bottle of water.

There are people just everywhere and as someone whose husband is autistic, this is stressful.

We now try and limit our summer holidays to trips in the UK and save most of our abroad holidays for our winter when we go to South Africa or Antigua.

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WhatNoRaisins · 06/08/2026 15:26

It's horses for courses but I don't see what appeals at all about a crowded touristy area. It's always best to work out what suits you whilst being open to trying new places.

GucciGucci · 06/08/2026 15:38

It depends entirely on where you go and when. Europe is not just Barcelona or Ibiza. There are plenty of locations in Europe that are not hugely overpriced or jam-packed with tourists.

theneighboureatmysalad · 06/08/2026 15:42

I am not sure what else you expect if you go to a holiday destination at the peak of the holiday season? If you go to Cornwall in August, it might be a tad busier than at the end of November too.

Spain, Greece, Portugal, they all have quiet and non-touristy places.
Prices that have gone up, sadly, it seems the same everywhere.

It does make me laugh when tourists complain about places being too "crowded" when THEY are the crowd.

Ginmonkeyagain · 06/08/2026 15:48

YABU Europe is a big continent - it is not just Spain, Portugal and Greece - and holidays are not just a beach resort and pool.

We had a week in Toulouse in late June this year and it was great - no rip off prices or crowds (of course it was buzzy cos it is a large, successful French city).

Maddy70 · 06/08/2026 15:54

I live in Spain (and a very expensive part too). I have never seen water more than 3€

hahabahbag · 06/08/2026 16:01

Depends where you go. Last year I was on the Atlantic coast of Spain, this year Scandinavian road trip, neither were busy and contrary to what I’d been told, Scandinavian prices aren’t bad now, booze is pricier in Norway but I don’t mind only having one, not that kind of trip, petrol is cheaper.

Shinyhappyapple · 06/08/2026 16:37

Gosh - €9 for a bottle of water is expensive. Where are you?

I wonder if, after the intense heat people are experiencing this year, more people will look to holiday in places like Scandinavia, or at different times of the year if they can. Although I guess if it’s busy in Italy, Spain etc a lot of the holiday makers are from that country anyway.

betterchoicesnexttime · 06/08/2026 16:38

Try the Netherlands. It’s a great place for family holidays. Islands like Texel or places like Zeeland have amazing beaches.

Shinyhappyapple · 06/08/2026 16:42

RafaFan · 06/08/2026 13:30

Popular European destinations are now attracting tourists from further afield now too. Our small local airport in Canada now has seasonal direct flights to Portugal, Spain, and Italy for package holidays. This only started in the last few years, and demand has been huge this year as Canadians who used to go "down South" (Florida and North Carolina mainly) are avoiding the USA because of the Trump effect.

That’s interesting. We’ve met a few Canadians in Europe over the past year (and they are always keen to tell us where they from!)

Dilemma999 · 06/08/2026 16:45

There are lots of places off the beaten track. We like to stay on the outskirts of a large village or small town and dip in and out. However, we’ve decided not to holiday in Europe during the summer months as it’s just too hot these days. We can tolerate a 3 day break but not longer. We save Europe for May or Sept/October.

We enjoy the Scandinavian countries in July and August but the weather can be wet there and it’s also very expensive.

Cooshawn · 06/08/2026 16:49

I don't really understand your point. You prefer to go on holiday in South Africa and Antigua so you go there. So what's the problem?

Europe is massive, and both crowds and price varies enormously not just by country but within countries.

RafaFan · 06/08/2026 16:49

Shinyhappyapple · 06/08/2026 16:42

That’s interesting. We’ve met a few Canadians in Europe over the past year (and they are always keen to tell us where they from!)

They want to be sure you know that they're NOT AMERICAN!

whirlyhead · 06/08/2026 16:51

I live in Mallorca and even in the mega touristy areas I’ve never seen a bottle of water that cost 9 € either. Max I’ve seen is about 4 €.

frozendaisy · 06/08/2026 16:52

Well done place being busy just means that other people want to be at a the same time and place as you do, you are contributing to that busy, it’s difficult to complain about somewhere being busy.

A lot of travel is expensive. It’s not getting cheaper anywhere.

Research beforehand can make a holiday much more enjoyable, if you travel for a particular reason, to see particular things, or to do a particular activity, it’s worth investigating either when it is quieter or if there are less busy alternatives.

Many amazing people give budget tips on food, local travel, accommodation, free entry to everywhere on the planet, a few nights on Google deep searching is never a waste.

Ginmonkeyagain · 06/08/2026 16:57

@whirlyhead TBF we once (and once only) got stung for about 7 euros in a cafe on the Corniche Kennedy in Marseille for a 1.5l bottle of Badoit as I was so hot and thirsty I forgot to specify "une carafe d'eau" (ie free tap water).

Was not best pleased but owned my mistake.

peebles32 · 06/08/2026 16:58

It has definitely got more expensive and paying a bit extra gets you out of Europe. I think prices have shot up. For me I don’t think it has necessarily got bigger but as I have got older my tolerance for busy places has got lower. You just need to go out of season and avoid package holidays or get a villa! However, I have found I don’t get excited about the travel anymore either so just getting old and miserable. Never thought it would happen to me as I was a holiday rep in my younger years.

Ginmonkeyagain · 06/08/2026 17:02

Well also the pound is not as strong against the euro any more - long gone are the glory days of a euro being worth about 60p.

JacknDiane · 06/08/2026 17:04

We haven't been abroad in years, what we can afford we don't fancy.

cestlavielife · 06/08/2026 17:08

Go to Albania

Crushed23 · 06/08/2026 17:17

magentastardust · 06/08/2026 12:47

I agree, for those saying you are going to the wrong places or of course its busy its summer ..that is true but it has changed in the last few years.
I work in education so can only take school holidays but we often head to Portugal or Greece and we avoid very touristy spots , little fishing villages with nice beach and character and we always found quietish spots...however tiktoks and reels now showing every must visit and cute spot on social media has meant a big surge in those quieter places we once went too . I use social media to look up places abroad and Uk before I visit to, so I am part of the problem too... I think gone are the days when you explored when you arrived, I know from my teens comments if we go somewhere new now they will know of a recommend restaurant or beauty spot before we get there . I do think that has had an impact. Definitely go out of season if you can.

Agree with this. Everywhere that was once good / quiet / cute / authentic is now ‘discovered’.

I visited an island in 2018 that I loved. Undisturbed paradise. There wasn’t even WiFi. This island was subsequently ‘discovered’ by ‘influencers’ and their followers. Not realising this, I returned a few years later to find that it had completely changed for the worse. Gutting.

cantsleepneedsleep · 06/08/2026 17:28

It’s been expensive in the summer for years, there are more airports, more budget carriers & people travel from all over.
The heat now puts me off & I prefer to travel there in May or Oct.

Itsbeenalongtimeincoming · 06/08/2026 17:32

The problem is the over tourism coupled with everyone now thinking that a summer holiday abroad is a necessity and their God given right.

There are many many many wonderful less touristy places to go but a lot of countries realise the money in tourism and have ruined their local places to attract the money. There is a reason there is a large anti tourist feeling in loads of places.

Some research is key - it’s not hard to avoid the crowds. Which are quite frankly horrible.

cardibach · 06/08/2026 17:44

Dinosweetpea · 06/08/2026 10:02

You are going to the wrong places. Avoid resorts and book air bnbs.

Wrong places, yes. But I don’t use AirBnB anymore. Too many problems - not with accommodation, with the concept. And it won’t be easily available in Spain...

SchnitzelAgain · 06/08/2026 17:52

We only go to central Europe these days. It’s clean, safe, and less crowded than the beaches of the Mediterranean. Next summer, the Alps!

WineAndBridgerton3322 · 06/08/2026 18:00

Everything is more expensive, including holidays. The cheap deals we used to get circa 2005 are gone.

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