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AIBU to find European summer holidays too expensive and crowded now?

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raleigha · 06/08/2026 09:52

I used to love going on holiday to Spain, to Greece, to Portugal for our summer hols.

But it’s all just so expensive now? I don’t need fancy.

Yes I can seek out the local taverna or go to the local markets, but I then spend most of my holiday looking out for rip off establishments that want to charge me €9 for a bottle of water.

There are people just everywhere and as someone whose husband is autistic, this is stressful.

We now try and limit our summer holidays to trips in the UK and save most of our abroad holidays for our winter when we go to South Africa or Antigua.

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BendyDickCumbInMySnatch · 07/08/2026 15:19

@SwirlyGates i laughed at that as well 😂

SwirlyGates · 07/08/2026 15:17

BendyDickCumbInMySnatch · 07/08/2026 15:14

I'm in Ibiza in a quieter resort but it's still expensive

banging food tho 😂

"Vegetarian of tuna", interesting!

BendyDickCumbInMySnatch · 07/08/2026 15:14

I'm in Ibiza in a quieter resort but it's still expensive

banging food tho 😂

AIBU to find European summer holidays too expensive and crowded now?
AIBU to find European summer holidays too expensive and crowded now?
AIBU to find European summer holidays too expensive and crowded now?
AIBU to find European summer holidays too expensive and crowded now?
AIBU to find European summer holidays too expensive and crowded now?
WineAndBridgerton3322 · 07/08/2026 15:10

BeccaGeej · 06/08/2026 18:31

That's interesting. Having just endured a week of 40 degrees in Italy, was thinking of the Netherlands for next year.

I lived in Zeeland for 3 years. It's glorious when it's sunny but it rains more than in the Midlands or London. And the wind was something else. Sometimes I felt I was going to literally be blown away. It's quite rural as well, and while pretty, there isn't much to do if the weather is shit.

And it rains even more in the more northern parts of the Netherlands. It's not a cheap country either.

PurpleCoo · 07/08/2026 14:45

Within Europe, I have been to Portugal, Slovenia and Croatia in recent years. Lisbon and Porto were busy but not wildly crowded. Slovenia and Croatia were absolutely fine. Nowhere seemed wildly expensive.

Loulou4022 · 07/08/2026 14:39

davidraker · 06/08/2026 23:31

@Loulou4022sorry to hijack the thread but would you mind telling me the name of where you are. It’s what my husband would love to do for his birthday and I’m looking for recommendations!

Colehurst Lake. We booked through Airbnb but they have a website too. It’s been my favourite in 5 years of Airbnb’s!! Cosy homely cabin and about 20 feet to the lake so DH loved that for fishing! It had the loveliest outdoor covered kitchen too! I hate cooking but loved cooking it it!! It was only perhaps 1/2 mile from the main road so very easy to get to but still very peaceful! There’s a wood fired hot tub too.

davidraker · 06/08/2026 23:31

@Loulou4022sorry to hijack the thread but would you mind telling me the name of where you are. It’s what my husband would love to do for his birthday and I’m looking for recommendations!

MyMiniMetro · 06/08/2026 23:21

lol jeesh humble brag much. You’ve found a solution so the problem isn’t a problem anymore. Why post?

Shinyhappyapple · 06/08/2026 21:07

cardibach · 06/08/2026 17:44

Wrong places, yes. But I don’t use AirBnB anymore. Too many problems - not with accommodation, with the concept. And it won’t be easily available in Spain...

Equally it’s important to remember that in many places, AirB&B properties can be an Annexe to the owner’s property, or often the owner moves into the Annexe for the summer months so they can gain more income from letting out the larger part of the property, which they move back into in the winter.

sugarandcyanide · 06/08/2026 20:53

You're going to the wrong places! Get out of the main tourist areas and there are still places without crowds.

And we recently paid €4 for a beer and a glass of wine in Europe. It was a simple bar, nothing fancy but it had an amazing view. That's impossible in England now.

IberianLynx · 06/08/2026 20:45

Agree that the extreme heat has ended the appeal of destinations like Greece and Spain. Spent two weeks this summer in Scotland and Northumberland. Beautiful scenery and 20ish degrees, bliss!

Bulldog01 · 06/08/2026 20:05

Yes,I agree when you factor in Baggage,transfers,food & spending money it's very expensive.We just booked a week in Tossa, Catalonia.We have been to different areas of Catalonia on seven holidays.We booked the 1st week in October.With Love Holidays.Its the only way we could afford a holiday.I wanted to go to Costa del sol.Just too expensive.Tossa, quite & very clean.Affordable,we go to a small local supermarket get drink & toiletries for the week.If you have school aged children.You will then obviously need to book up now for August,the price will be higher,but that location in Spain is very good value compared with Balerics,Majorca,Alicante,South of France.
Our holiday four us two with 4* hotel Breakfast,pool view, Double room & AC Afternoon flights,baggage,transfers,7 days.
£800.Please shop around,you will find something!

BeccaGeej · 06/08/2026 18:31

betterchoicesnexttime · 06/08/2026 16:38

Try the Netherlands. It’s a great place for family holidays. Islands like Texel or places like Zeeland have amazing beaches.

That's interesting. Having just endured a week of 40 degrees in Italy, was thinking of the Netherlands for next year.

WineAndBridgerton3322 · 06/08/2026 18:00

Everything is more expensive, including holidays. The cheap deals we used to get circa 2005 are gone.

SchnitzelAgain · 06/08/2026 17:52

We only go to central Europe these days. It’s clean, safe, and less crowded than the beaches of the Mediterranean. Next summer, the Alps!

cardibach · 06/08/2026 17:44

Dinosweetpea · 06/08/2026 10:02

You are going to the wrong places. Avoid resorts and book air bnbs.

Wrong places, yes. But I don’t use AirBnB anymore. Too many problems - not with accommodation, with the concept. And it won’t be easily available in Spain...

Itsbeenalongtimeincoming · 06/08/2026 17:32

The problem is the over tourism coupled with everyone now thinking that a summer holiday abroad is a necessity and their God given right.

There are many many many wonderful less touristy places to go but a lot of countries realise the money in tourism and have ruined their local places to attract the money. There is a reason there is a large anti tourist feeling in loads of places.

Some research is key - it’s not hard to avoid the crowds. Which are quite frankly horrible.

cantsleepneedsleep · 06/08/2026 17:28

It’s been expensive in the summer for years, there are more airports, more budget carriers & people travel from all over.
The heat now puts me off & I prefer to travel there in May or Oct.

Crushed23 · 06/08/2026 17:17

magentastardust · 06/08/2026 12:47

I agree, for those saying you are going to the wrong places or of course its busy its summer ..that is true but it has changed in the last few years.
I work in education so can only take school holidays but we often head to Portugal or Greece and we avoid very touristy spots , little fishing villages with nice beach and character and we always found quietish spots...however tiktoks and reels now showing every must visit and cute spot on social media has meant a big surge in those quieter places we once went too . I use social media to look up places abroad and Uk before I visit to, so I am part of the problem too... I think gone are the days when you explored when you arrived, I know from my teens comments if we go somewhere new now they will know of a recommend restaurant or beauty spot before we get there . I do think that has had an impact. Definitely go out of season if you can.

Agree with this. Everywhere that was once good / quiet / cute / authentic is now ‘discovered’.

I visited an island in 2018 that I loved. Undisturbed paradise. There wasn’t even WiFi. This island was subsequently ‘discovered’ by ‘influencers’ and their followers. Not realising this, I returned a few years later to find that it had completely changed for the worse. Gutting.

cestlavielife · 06/08/2026 17:08

Go to Albania

JacknDiane · 06/08/2026 17:04

We haven't been abroad in years, what we can afford we don't fancy.

Ginmonkeyagain · 06/08/2026 17:02

Well also the pound is not as strong against the euro any more - long gone are the glory days of a euro being worth about 60p.

peebles32 · 06/08/2026 16:58

It has definitely got more expensive and paying a bit extra gets you out of Europe. I think prices have shot up. For me I don’t think it has necessarily got bigger but as I have got older my tolerance for busy places has got lower. You just need to go out of season and avoid package holidays or get a villa! However, I have found I don’t get excited about the travel anymore either so just getting old and miserable. Never thought it would happen to me as I was a holiday rep in my younger years.

Ginmonkeyagain · 06/08/2026 16:57

@whirlyhead TBF we once (and once only) got stung for about 7 euros in a cafe on the Corniche Kennedy in Marseille for a 1.5l bottle of Badoit as I was so hot and thirsty I forgot to specify "une carafe d'eau" (ie free tap water).

Was not best pleased but owned my mistake.

frozendaisy · 06/08/2026 16:52

Well done place being busy just means that other people want to be at a the same time and place as you do, you are contributing to that busy, it’s difficult to complain about somewhere being busy.

A lot of travel is expensive. It’s not getting cheaper anywhere.

Research beforehand can make a holiday much more enjoyable, if you travel for a particular reason, to see particular things, or to do a particular activity, it’s worth investigating either when it is quieter or if there are less busy alternatives.

Many amazing people give budget tips on food, local travel, accommodation, free entry to everywhere on the planet, a few nights on Google deep searching is never a waste.