Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To just want it to be autumn now?

287 replies

cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 15:03

I hate the depths of winter (January and February) with a passion, but my god I am craving those lovely September days where it’s not so hot you feel sweaty by 8am, and you're able to walk around without feeling disgusting.

I want soups and stews and pies back on the menu instead of pasta and salads, I want a piping hot bowl of leek and potato soup with a crusty bit of bread, a steak and ale pie with a helping of buttery mash, a roast dinner.

I’m sick of wearing dresses and sandals, I have a Birkenstock tan line ffs. I want to get into bed and feel cosy, not just have a sheet over the top of me. I’m craving a cosy autumn afternoon, a nice walk through orange woods and coming back to a lovely bowl of stew with a helping of crusty bread, tucked under a blanket reading a book.

I’m just bloody sick of summer!

OP posts:
Thread gallery
6
SpeedwellBlue · 02/08/2026 17:59

I agree. I like the BER months. (Although September sun can still be annoyingly hot.)
I saw a video by an American guy who lives in England. He said he never used to believe England got hot, but the sun seems ANGRY here.
I think it's a combination of no air con, buildings and pavements storing up heat and reflecting it back and lack of breeze.
I'm not mad on Jan and Feb, but at least you start seeing Spring flowers and hearing bird song

JoshLymanSwagger · 02/08/2026 17:57

@cravingcrispmornings we've just had some rain...😁

OnlyUsername · 02/08/2026 17:56

cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 17:29

Genuinely so, so strange.

Yep. I'm in the SW too and this is the first time in weeks (and I mean since the first heatwave at the end of May) that there have been raindrops and single-digit night temps on the forecast. We've been consistently over 60% humidity and it's not dropped below 24 in my new build.

31 tomorrow. Yay. Can't wait...

I think being in the red zone back in June with closed schools was so awful that it's made me crave cold even more.

To just want it to be autumn now?
cardibach · 02/08/2026 17:54

glitterpaperchain · 02/08/2026 17:51

Let's let other people have their own opinions, eh?

Goes both ways…but objectively the ‘cosy’ crew has it better in the U.K. I think summer lovers (most people outside of MN) have more cause to comment on this.

cardibach · 02/08/2026 17:52

cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 17:29

Genuinely so, so strange.

It’s really not strange to enjoy warm weather. The only place I find people complaining (outside of 32+ heatwaves) is on MN.

glitterpaperchain · 02/08/2026 17:51

cardibach · 02/08/2026 17:48

You get this from September to May most years. Let’s just have a few months without, eh?

Let's let other people have their own opinions, eh?

cardibach · 02/08/2026 17:48

Lilypad34 · 02/08/2026 17:03

Yes, I want my lovely jumpers feeling cosy darker nights and cool evenings. I am sick of this heat. However it has been nice to not have to deal with the constant deluge of rain for a while. I wish we had proper seasons instead of just rain interspersed with more rain and possibly a heatwave.

You get this from September to May most years. Let’s just have a few months without, eh?

Upthehill32156 · 02/08/2026 17:48

I couldn't agree more! I will really really enjoy this Autumn when it comes. Let's hope the worst of the intense heat is behind us.

LakieLady · 02/08/2026 17:47

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 02/08/2026 16:09

This coming week is supposed to be more traditional English summer- I’m being promised low to mid 20s and a clouds.

I never thought I’d say it but I’d be glad for some rain so I can stop carrying watering cans of water to the plants I put in this spring.

That would be lovely.

The forecast for my part of Sussex is 32 degrees on Wednesday!

I'm tired of it now. I want some proper rain.

cardibach · 02/08/2026 17:47

JoshLymanSwagger · 02/08/2026 16:52

I've been counting down the days until September since the 1st June (92) at least there's only 29 more days to go!
I can't wait for the darker nights and mornings...and frost! I want frost!

Have you considered moving to somewhere further north? Greenland maybe?

Dontcallmescarface · 02/08/2026 17:45

Nope. Once the Summer has gone it's just month after month of cold, wet and windy weather. Trying to dry washing indoors just makes it more unbearable and so depressing.

Neuronimo · 02/08/2026 17:39

Yep trying hard to be all 'Mindful and in the moment' but have struggled to enjoy the summer. I've had to wear ugly shoes for months on end so don't even feel nice in dresses and I just can't regulate in the extreme heat.

I think I have adapted a bit, I've enjoyed very, early morning walks, but I am craving the crisp! Blackberry picking tomorrow though to batch cook for the freezer before the heat descends again. We are seriously moving further north when Dh retires.

Nobodyiswatching · 02/08/2026 17:34

Autumn is my power time. I come alive. I feel good, excited, everything is a bit mysterious and changeable. Summer makes me slightly flat. It has a depressive effect on me

namechange6766333545544 · 02/08/2026 17:33

I’m enjoying the heat and the sunshine, the light evenings and the summer clothes. Just the thought of autumn makes me miserable.

cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 17:29

glitterpaperchain · 02/08/2026 17:26

Just reading through the thread and that PP does seem a little obsessed 😅 MN can be such a weird place

Genuinely so, so strange.

OP posts:
Dragonscaledaisy · 02/08/2026 17:29

ApplePieCinamon · 02/08/2026 17:18

I grew up in one of those countries but they are equipped for the heat. Here it’s just extreme with no relief in your own home.

Of course they're not. Have you never visited any developing countries?

Dragonscaledaisy · 02/08/2026 17:28

Definitely not. This summer has been glorious and there's a lot more to come. I don't do 'cosy'.

glitterpaperchain · 02/08/2026 17:26

cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 17:25

What’s your issue? Genuinely? Get a life!

Just reading through the thread and that PP does seem a little obsessed 😅 MN can be such a weird place

cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 17:25

Crushed23 · 02/08/2026 17:23

Music to OP’s ears. 🎵🎶

What’s your issue? Genuinely? Get a life!

OP posts:
Crushed23 · 02/08/2026 17:23

moonraker0 · 02/08/2026 17:22

It was 8 degrees at 5am when I was in work this week in South Wales. The temperature has dropped a lot here this past week.

Music to OP’s ears. 🎵🎶

PurpleCoo · 02/08/2026 17:23

No, I definitely don't want to wish the sunshine away, but I do wish it would rain. Ideally on a day I am working 🤣

I am enjoying wafting around in little shorts/skorts and vests, my tan looks great (I do use SPF), and it's so nice to spend all day and evening in the garden (I have shade). I am quite happy to live in my Birkenstocks (I have 3 pairs in different styles so don't get the Birkenstock tan lines experienced by a PP).

I have a wool duvet which regulates your temperature so I can sleep with my normal duvet at night.

I have adjusted to walking the dog before work. It's easy enough to fit in 5 miles before starting. Then I can just chill when I finish work and don't have to go out, or go for an outside swim if I choose.

I have no desire to eat stodge and happy to have salads and wraps for lunch instead of cold weather soups. Smoothies for breakfast instead of porridge. Stir fries, ramen, noodles etc for dinner.

The 30+ temps seem to have dropped to about once a week, anything below 30 most of us have probably acclimatised to now and it's just a case of staying out of the sun in the afternoon (for most of us)

Of course, I appreciate those with illnesses and disabilities or the elderly or infants might still feel discomfort in the high 20s heat, so won't feel the same way.

But me, I am easygoing and tend to take things in my stride and enjoy whatever we are experiencing in the moment. I enjoy the seasons and will enjoy autumn and winter when they come around, but I do prefer the weight to be tipped to more summer time and less ice/winter extreme cold time. Those short winter days where it's dark before you start work and dark when you finish are very long, and bit great if you have to walk for hours in it!

moonraker0 · 02/08/2026 17:22

Crushed23 · 02/08/2026 16:59

OP is in luck. Much of the South-West is cold and rainy next week. As cold as 10 degrees at night in places - I’d get that duvet out!

It was 8 degrees at 5am when I was in work this week in South Wales. The temperature has dropped a lot here this past week.

shelbysummers · 02/08/2026 17:20

Sherararara · 02/08/2026 15:17

Nope long may the summer continue.

This so much!

emeraldsapphirepearl · 02/08/2026 17:18

I’m totally over the summer. I want the children back at school / preschool and some structure to the week. As well as darker evenings!

ApplePieCinamon · 02/08/2026 17:18

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2026 17:17

Millions of people manage it in countries that have summers like this every year.

I grew up in one of those countries but they are equipped for the heat. Here it’s just extreme with no relief in your own home.