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To just want it to be autumn now?

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cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 15:03

I hate the depths of winter (January and February) with a passion, but my god I am craving those lovely September days where it’s not so hot you feel sweaty by 8am, and you're able to walk around without feeling disgusting.

I want soups and stews and pies back on the menu instead of pasta and salads, I want a piping hot bowl of leek and potato soup with a crusty bit of bread, a steak and ale pie with a helping of buttery mash, a roast dinner.

I’m sick of wearing dresses and sandals, I have a Birkenstock tan line ffs. I want to get into bed and feel cosy, not just have a sheet over the top of me. I’m craving a cosy autumn afternoon, a nice walk through orange woods and coming back to a lovely bowl of stew with a helping of crusty bread, tucked under a blanket reading a book.

I’m just bloody sick of summer!

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cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 20:02

Crushed23 · 02/08/2026 19:38

I mean, not as strange as rewriting history and fabricating a whole new reality in which for the whole of June and July there was unbearable heat without respite somewhere in the South-West in which you were ‘sweating by 8am’… 🤦‍♀️ And when multiple people pointed that, as early as 2 days away, the weather cools significantly, you still go on about how you wish it were autumn already.

Are you still banging on?

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Ilovecakey · 02/08/2026 19:56

Yabu, at least we're having a nice summer this year! I hate winter it so cold dark and depressing

RampantIvy · 02/08/2026 19:52

FoxRedPuppy · 02/08/2026 19:34

I love running in cold weather and in the dark 😂. I love the dark, verbally. I do like light evenings too. But I don’t mind dark evenings at all. Cold weather is great to run in, you just dress right and get out. The heat makes me feel sick of if I run in it.

Running in cold weather hurts my lungs.

RampantIvy · 02/08/2026 19:50

Lululimess · 02/08/2026 19:03

Yanbu I can’t wait for autumn and the run up to Halloween! I love seeing the leaves change, having a cosy fire and candles, pumpkin spice lattes and the colder weather!

I don't like any of those things, except for autumn colours.

ShanghaiDiva · 02/08/2026 19:46

moonraker0 · 02/08/2026 19:44

Genuinely don’t understand why people prefer cold and rain. I find everyone more sociable in the summer as well, it’s like everyone goes into hibernation once the clocks go back. Life just seems happier when it’s sunny 😎

that’s the other advantage: no need to socialise!

Specialneedsnightmare · 02/08/2026 19:46

moonraker0 · 02/08/2026 19:44

Genuinely don’t understand why people prefer cold and rain. I find everyone more sociable in the summer as well, it’s like everyone goes into hibernation once the clocks go back. Life just seems happier when it’s sunny 😎

Same here. How can anyone enjoy feeling cold or grey miserable days? Give me warm sunny days any day of the week. They lift my spirits.

moonraker0 · 02/08/2026 19:44

Genuinely don’t understand why people prefer cold and rain. I find everyone more sociable in the summer as well, it’s like everyone goes into hibernation once the clocks go back. Life just seems happier when it’s sunny 😎

Sartre · 02/08/2026 19:40

I like elements of summer. I don’t like applying suncream constantly but I equally like how freeing summer clothes are, I don’t miss wrapping up warm. I enjoy sitting outside reading my books but I don’t enjoy needing a cover to shade my laptop screen when I’m working outside. I enjoy summer days out.

Crushed23 · 02/08/2026 19:38

cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 17:29

Genuinely so, so strange.

I mean, not as strange as rewriting history and fabricating a whole new reality in which for the whole of June and July there was unbearable heat without respite somewhere in the South-West in which you were ‘sweating by 8am’… 🤦‍♀️ And when multiple people pointed that, as early as 2 days away, the weather cools significantly, you still go on about how you wish it were autumn already.

FoxRedPuppy · 02/08/2026 19:34

cardibach · 02/08/2026 15:49

Exercising in winter isn’t easier. It’s too bloody cold to leave the house for a start! And dark. Ugh.

I love running in cold weather and in the dark 😂. I love the dark, verbally. I do like light evenings too. But I don’t mind dark evenings at all. Cold weather is great to run in, you just dress right and get out. The heat makes me feel sick of if I run in it.

Cantwaitforwinter · 02/08/2026 19:07

drivinmecrazy · 02/08/2026 19:00

That sounds blissful for night time!!
it's fine if you’re on holiday but when you still need to do the day to day boring shite it’s so hard.
trios to the supermarket, sweeping the floors, doing the laundry.
not fun in this heat.
all the while being on fire watch.
it’s just so dry here and have had four local fires recently.
as I said, it’s a world away from a two week holiday.
even the pool is like a bath.
never known it so bad!

My family have lived in Spain since 2014, according to them every summer has gotten worse and they now regularly take trips to the UK to get away from the heat. Luckily my family are in an area not possible for wildfires but I’m still worried for them every year.

Whilst it has been nice being able to wash and dry laundry in under 3 hours this summer (in England), everything is dead, my grass, flowers. It’s reached 52°c at work on multiple occasions, there’s been field fires nearby and vulnerable people ending up in hospital due to the heat.
last night was bliss, we’ve even turned the fan off and put the 4.5 tog duvet back on, I was cold walking upstairs last night.

I have read that due to the super El Niño which has caused this hot summer, we will have an exceptionally cold winter, so that’s something to look forward to

Potplantsandvino · 02/08/2026 19:07

I don’t want to complain because we’ve had some awful cold, wet summers…..but yes, it’s all gone on a bit too long! Everything is so brown and crispy, I’m worried about the very real possibility of wild fires, I have fans going everywhere, I’m sweaty all the time and it’s very often too hot to walk the dogs.
I should add that I do not live in London and I cannot imagine the hell that is the tube right now.

Specialneedsnightmare · 02/08/2026 19:06

God no i love summer. I'm dreading autumn as I get SAD.

drivinmecrazy · 02/08/2026 19:05

We haven’t even got the evenings to look forward to because the temps just do not drop.
I’m coming back in October and that will be lovely.
just as autumn kicks in🤞

Lululimess · 02/08/2026 19:03

Yanbu I can’t wait for autumn and the run up to Halloween! I love seeing the leaves change, having a cosy fire and candles, pumpkin spice lattes and the colder weather!

drivinmecrazy · 02/08/2026 19:00

Cantwaitforwinter · 02/08/2026 18:53

I have family in southern Spain, apparently it has been unbearable. What area of the uk are you returning to? I’m in the midlands and it was 9°c last night

That sounds blissful for night time!!
it's fine if you’re on holiday but when you still need to do the day to day boring shite it’s so hard.
trios to the supermarket, sweeping the floors, doing the laundry.
not fun in this heat.
all the while being on fire watch.
it’s just so dry here and have had four local fires recently.
as I said, it’s a world away from a two week holiday.
even the pool is like a bath.
never known it so bad!

Cantwaitforwinter · 02/08/2026 18:56

ginasevern · 02/08/2026 18:19

The British really don't like summer do they. Why would anyone want to wear woolly jumpers, boots and hats to keep out freezing cold winds and and then love it when it gets dark at 4pm. It isn't even as if we have clearly defined seasons in the UK. The winter lasts so, so long in this country. I had the heating on during most of June for god sake.

You’ve had heating on recently in the UK?! Where on earth are you from originally?!
For the UK born and bred, this is an exceptionally hot summer and our homes/businesses aren’t designed for it, they’re designed to absorb and retain heat, air con isn’t a thing in many homes. We’re not used to it and struggle

Cantwaitforwinter · 02/08/2026 18:53

drivinmecrazy · 02/08/2026 18:52

I can’t wait to come back to UK on Tuesday.
I’ve spent the past six weeks in southern Spain so 28 sounds blissful to me.
it struggles to go below 25 at night.
can’t wait to get into my bed and pull the duvet around me.
Bliss!

I have family in southern Spain, apparently it has been unbearable. What area of the uk are you returning to? I’m in the midlands and it was 9°c last night

drivinmecrazy · 02/08/2026 18:52

I can’t wait to come back to UK on Tuesday.
I’ve spent the past six weeks in southern Spain so 28 sounds blissful to me.
it struggles to go below 25 at night.
can’t wait to get into my bed and pull the duvet around me.
Bliss!

cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 18:30

ginasevern · 02/08/2026 18:19

The British really don't like summer do they. Why would anyone want to wear woolly jumpers, boots and hats to keep out freezing cold winds and and then love it when it gets dark at 4pm. It isn't even as if we have clearly defined seasons in the UK. The winter lasts so, so long in this country. I had the heating on during most of June for god sake.

I love summer.

When I’m not having to work in an office that’s regularly hit 32° this summer.

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ginasevern · 02/08/2026 18:19

The British really don't like summer do they. Why would anyone want to wear woolly jumpers, boots and hats to keep out freezing cold winds and and then love it when it gets dark at 4pm. It isn't even as if we have clearly defined seasons in the UK. The winter lasts so, so long in this country. I had the heating on during most of June for god sake.

RampantIvy · 02/08/2026 18:14

I totally get people wanting relief from high temperatures.

However, I really don't get people who prefer to wear jumpers and the long dark evenings. Oh, and candles are for power cuts only 😁

I'm currently sat outside in a cloudy 22 degrees with a glass of chilled white wine.

South Yorkshire weather forecast:

Still praying for rain though.

To just want it to be autumn now?
Cantwaitforwinter · 02/08/2026 18:09

I feel like this thread has converted people! The usual “give me 35°c and sun all year round” people are coming to our side!
The Ber months are less than 30 days away.

Ive already started ordering ornamental pumpkins and ceramic leaf decorations, can’t wait to complain about the cold, wet and dark weather (in January)

MiddleAgedDread · 02/08/2026 18:08

Ouuuuccchhhh · 02/08/2026 15:35

Move to Scotland! (I jest). But it’s much cooler here, I’ve been compelled to put a hoodie on a few times in the past few days and properly snuggle under the duvet in bed at night!

This! The temperature has been just right, high teens-low 20’s so warm enough to sit out and walk around in shorts, I think we’ve only had 2 or 3 days that were verging on unbearable.

Tel12 · 02/08/2026 18:03

I had a horrible thought yesterday. Suppose it doesn't end?