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To just want it to be autumn now?

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cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 15:03

I hate the depths of winter (January and February) with a passion, but my god I am craving those lovely September days where it’s not so hot you feel sweaty by 8am, and you're able to walk around without feeling disgusting.

I want soups and stews and pies back on the menu instead of pasta and salads, I want a piping hot bowl of leek and potato soup with a crusty bit of bread, a steak and ale pie with a helping of buttery mash, a roast dinner.

I’m sick of wearing dresses and sandals, I have a Birkenstock tan line ffs. I want to get into bed and feel cosy, not just have a sheet over the top of me. I’m craving a cosy autumn afternoon, a nice walk through orange woods and coming back to a lovely bowl of stew with a helping of crusty bread, tucked under a blanket reading a book.

I’m just bloody sick of summer!

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cardibach · 03/08/2026 11:57

OnlyUsername · 03/08/2026 11:46

Indeed. Nobody tries to Gotcha someone who hates winter by pointing out that actually the sun came out for an hour on Thursday 19th November and there was that one warm patch in March where it got above 16 for a day.

ETA: I say nobody. I can think of a poster who would. 😉

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They do actually. ‘It’s not even below freezing much’ is quite common. ‘Don’t you enjoy frosty mornings though?’ Is another. Even when I say it affects my mental health…though according to the OP I’m just a bit sad, I need to learn to cope or else make a GP appointment instead of being insufferable about it 🤷‍♀️

dogsmaid · 03/08/2026 11:52

😆

OnlyUsername · 03/08/2026 11:46

FoxRedPuppy · 03/08/2026 11:01

The sun lovers always get aghast on these threads. Thing is I do understand why people love the heat. I just don’t, not long term over 25 degrees. There have been cooler days- I had a blissful few days in North Yorkshire where it was cloudy and 18. Perfect for walking.

I can’t just walk out of the house in hot weather, I have to slather myself in factor 50 first and then remember to take it with me to reapply etc. I have photosensitive eyes (pale green) and so lots of bright light gives me headaches, so have to remember sunglasses.

I love sunshine and pleasant temps of up to 22ish.

Whether there have been no days below 26, it HAS been the hottest and driest summer. So even a few cooler days can make it feel relentless. In the same way that if you hate winter, even the odd dry, sunny day doesn’t make it feel less relentlessly grey.

Indeed. Nobody tries to Gotcha someone who hates winter by pointing out that actually the sun came out for an hour on Thursday 19th November and there was that one warm patch in March where it got above 16 for a day.

ETA: I say nobody. I can think of a poster who would. 😉

Crushed23 · 03/08/2026 11:15

FoxRedPuppy · 03/08/2026 10:57

Surely you don’t need a jacket at 18-19 degrees?

I absolutely do? I wear a crop top or vest and shorts during the day on hot summer days, and I socialise well into the night. It can be a glorious 26 degrees during the day and drop to 16 degrees by midnight. I can’t walk around in summer clothes in 16 degrees, personally, I’d freeze.

dogsmaid · 03/08/2026 11:14

I like the sun & heat just not in London

FoxRedPuppy · 03/08/2026 11:01

The sun lovers always get aghast on these threads. Thing is I do understand why people love the heat. I just don’t, not long term over 25 degrees. There have been cooler days- I had a blissful few days in North Yorkshire where it was cloudy and 18. Perfect for walking.

I can’t just walk out of the house in hot weather, I have to slather myself in factor 50 first and then remember to take it with me to reapply etc. I have photosensitive eyes (pale green) and so lots of bright light gives me headaches, so have to remember sunglasses.

I love sunshine and pleasant temps of up to 22ish.

Whether there have been no days below 26, it HAS been the hottest and driest summer. So even a few cooler days can make it feel relentless. In the same way that if you hate winter, even the odd dry, sunny day doesn’t make it feel less relentlessly grey.

FoxRedPuppy · 03/08/2026 10:57

Crushed23 · 03/08/2026 08:07

I pay no attention to weather apps more than 5 or 6 days out (learned the hard way with a holiday a few years back), but they’re usually fairly accurate for the next couple of days. Of course things can always change and it might be 30 degrees this weekend so I can go to my rave without a jacket (yes please 🙏), but across multiple apps it’s showing the UK cooling significantly this week.

Surely you don’t need a jacket at 18-19 degrees?

SquashedSquashess · 03/08/2026 08:29

I usually relish summer, but I have to agree OP. I’m actually bored of the unrelenting heat. For me, I think the main reason I want to get back to autumn is workwear. I work in London and my workplace has a strict corporate dress code. I don’t have the spare cash to invest in quality linen and cotton workwear which I’ll only wear 2-3 months of the year (at most). So it’s been a struggle to find office appropriate clothing that won’t make me break out in a terrible sweat.

I want to get back to smart trousers, nice quality knitwear, dresses with tights and boots.

dogsmaid · 03/08/2026 08:20

@Crushed23fingers x,

dogsmaid · 03/08/2026 08:16

@socks1107I read it’s because the app is based on historical averages for the future and forecasts in general are only accurate in the short term but who knows. I have given up hope for some reprieve 😆

It has been nice but I struggle with the temps above 28 particularly when working as we don’t have air con & the parks desperately need some rain.

We don't have particularly cold Septembers so I wonder what it will be like.

socks1107 · 03/08/2026 08:09

@dogsmaid this keeps happening! It looks like a drop to lovely summer weather and then that never happens. In many ways it has been nice to have a long period of sunny weather but I’m glad we’re in the last third now.
i remember saying in May I wander summer in store if we’re in a heatwave already / if only I knew!

Owninterpreter · 03/08/2026 08:07

Im looking forward to normal south east England summer of 22/23 degrees. With the odd rainy day for the plants. Its such a nice weather when its like that.

I have found the hovering at 28 feeling a bit much for being outside without shelter which some summer evens have been.

Crushed23 · 03/08/2026 08:07

dogsmaid · 03/08/2026 07:59

@Crushed23every time I look at the weather app it tells me in a few days it will be cooler and there will be rain. Then it changes…

I pay no attention to weather apps more than 5 or 6 days out (learned the hard way with a holiday a few years back), but they’re usually fairly accurate for the next couple of days. Of course things can always change and it might be 30 degrees this weekend so I can go to my rave without a jacket (yes please 🙏), but across multiple apps it’s showing the UK cooling significantly this week.

RampantIvy · 03/08/2026 07:59

Not for a lot of the country. It’s also ramping up again this week.

Temperatures are dropping significantly on Wednesday for most of the UK

Hopefully we will get some rain.

dogsmaid · 03/08/2026 07:59

@Crushed23every time I look at the weather app it tells me in a few days it will be cooler and there will be rain. Then it changes…

Crushed23 · 03/08/2026 07:57

socks1107 · 03/08/2026 07:38

@Bathroomphilosopher the heatwave isn’t over in tbe south east/London today we are under yet another weather warning for hot temperatures. Yesterday was a hot afternoon but Saturday was a perfect summers day. It hasn’t really cooled down in six weeks now for us

Worry not, you’ve a mere 2 days until it cools down.

To just want it to be autumn now?
cravingcrispmornings · 03/08/2026 07:39

Bathroomphilosopher · 03/08/2026 06:41

Where in the UK are you? The heatwave is over. The weather is lovely where I am. Have my window closed at night again and I have my duvet with its cosy cover on again.

Now the excessive heat has gone I feel like we are finally getting a summer we can enjoy.

So YABU. I don’t want our normal British summer to end when it’s only just begun.

Not for a lot of the country. It’s also ramping up again this week.

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socks1107 · 03/08/2026 07:38

@Bathroomphilosopher the heatwave isn’t over in tbe south east/London today we are under yet another weather warning for hot temperatures. Yesterday was a hot afternoon but Saturday was a perfect summers day. It hasn’t really cooled down in six weeks now for us

Bathroomphilosopher · 03/08/2026 07:20

Nobodyiswatching · 02/08/2026 17:34

Autumn is my power time. I come alive. I feel good, excited, everything is a bit mysterious and changeable. Summer makes me slightly flat. It has a depressive effect on me

You are my soul sister. That is exactly how I experience Autumn.

66babe · 03/08/2026 07:04

I get what you mean .. but at the same time I’m loving the nice warm weather, washing dry outside within an hour, windows and doors open , fresh air , lots of time outdoors , cheaper entertainment for grandchildren - park, river and wood trails, no muddy car ( just dust instead lol )

Have got used to it and coping better , not coping above 27 but otherwise I’m loving it and would like it to continue
On the other hand , well aware of the risk of drought , fires and the effect on farming , wildlife and global warming etc so it’s not all good .

maddiemookins16mum · 03/08/2026 06:50

It’s already getting dark before 9pm now. How anyone looks forward to the endless long, grey, damp months is beyond me. Autumn and winter are depressing. Make the most of the warmth and sunlight while you can.

Bathroomphilosopher · 03/08/2026 06:41

Where in the UK are you? The heatwave is over. The weather is lovely where I am. Have my window closed at night again and I have my duvet with its cosy cover on again.

Now the excessive heat has gone I feel like we are finally getting a summer we can enjoy.

So YABU. I don’t want our normal British summer to end when it’s only just begun.

Bathroomphilosopher · 03/08/2026 06:41

Where in the UK are you? The heatwave is over. The weather is lovely where I am. Have my window closed at night again and I have my duvet with its cosy cover on again.

Now the excessive heat has gone I feel like we are finally getting a summer we can enjoy.

So YABU. I don’t want our normal British summer to end when it’s only just begun.

Crushed23 · 03/08/2026 06:37

BIossomtoes · 02/08/2026 22:27

I don’t think there’s been a week since May where at least one person hasn’t gone home sick with what appears to be heat related illnesses.

It was a maximum of 17 degrees for the first two weeks in June according to Met Office records.

Get out of here with your facts!

The OP isn’t interested in anyone bursting her fantasy. Can we please all agree it’s been 26 degrees plus for two whole months?? It’s uppity and insufferable to suggest otherwise.

RampantIvy · 03/08/2026 04:14

SpeedwellBlue · 02/08/2026 23:29

I suspect most summer loving mumsnetters live in the northern half of the UK and they forget the weather isn't the same everywhere.

???

Nor sure why you are offended by my pointing out the obvious.

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