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To just want it to be autumn now?

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cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 15:03

I hate the depths of winter (January and February) with a passion, but my god I am craving those lovely September days where it’s not so hot you feel sweaty by 8am, and you're able to walk around without feeling disgusting.

I want soups and stews and pies back on the menu instead of pasta and salads, I want a piping hot bowl of leek and potato soup with a crusty bit of bread, a steak and ale pie with a helping of buttery mash, a roast dinner.

I’m sick of wearing dresses and sandals, I have a Birkenstock tan line ffs. I want to get into bed and feel cosy, not just have a sheet over the top of me. I’m craving a cosy autumn afternoon, a nice walk through orange woods and coming back to a lovely bowl of stew with a helping of crusty bread, tucked under a blanket reading a book.

I’m just bloody sick of summer!

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dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 11:44

Crushed23 · 07/08/2026 11:12

Cooler, yes. Cold, no. I don’t like walking home in 16 degrees after dinner out. That’s no fun. I also love al-fresco dining which it hasn’t been anywhere near warm enough to do (the restaurant we went to did not have outdoor heaters - rookie error for a London restaurant, IMO).

But those temperatures are not unusual at night during a UK summer! It’s the UK not Qatar 😆

Crushed23 · 07/08/2026 11:40

Last night was far too cold to be sitting outside a restaurant at 11pm - there was no one on those tables! And we weren’t anywhere particularly touristy so the locals as much as the visitors thought it wasn’t warm enough. Also I’m pretty much a local, having lived here my whole life up until a couple of years ago. I just prefer warmer weather. Where we were just before the London leg of our Euro trip, it was 24 degrees at midnight - absolutely lush. 💜

BIossomtoes · 07/08/2026 11:26

Crushed23 · 07/08/2026 11:12

Cooler, yes. Cold, no. I don’t like walking home in 16 degrees after dinner out. That’s no fun. I also love al-fresco dining which it hasn’t been anywhere near warm enough to do (the restaurant we went to did not have outdoor heaters - rookie error for a London restaurant, IMO).

If you live somewhere significantly warmer it’s obviously that your acclimatisation to higher temperatures will mean you perceive the current weather differently to those of us who live here. It’s the same in reverse when we holiday in a much warmer country in February/March. We’re sitting in the sun in T-shirts while the people who live there are bundled up in winter coats. Nobody who lives here needs outdoor heaters right now.

Crushed23 · 07/08/2026 11:12

Cooler, yes. Cold, no. I don’t like walking home in 16 degrees after dinner out. That’s no fun. I also love al-fresco dining which it hasn’t been anywhere near warm enough to do (the restaurant we went to did not have outdoor heaters - rookie error for a London restaurant, IMO).

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 10:55

It’s normal for things to be cooler in the night though even in places that are much hotter.

Crushed23 · 07/08/2026 10:44

Last night was frigging cold in London. Nightmare. Thank god it’s starting to warm up again. Naturally, we fly home on Sunday before the real warmth gets here. 🤦‍♀️😅

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 09:43

@RampantIvylast night was cool, I actually shut my big window. It was a lovely reprieve.

RampantIvy · 07/08/2026 09:35

There does seem to be quite a north/south divide. I'm in South Yorkshire and I wore a cardigan and socks yesterday for the first time in ages.

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 09:19

Well the cooling down certainly hasn’t materialised here 😁

To just want it to be autumn now?
cardibach · 06/08/2026 11:38

Crushed23 · 06/08/2026 11:30

I’m so sorry! Family in other parts of the UK say the same - it’s definitely already autumn for them.

It’s really not. It’s just return I;g close to t(e seasonal average - which is 16 here this morning. Actual is 18. 14 would just be a slightly cooler than average summer morning.
I like the heat but it being at or just below the seasonal average doesn’t make it ‘autumn’ - just the usual slightly rubbish British summer.

Crushed23 · 06/08/2026 11:30

Fitsunshine · 06/08/2026 10:23

Try 12 degrees with a feels like 9 degrees in August … now that’s miserable 😢 Mind you, we might get a high of 15. And a gorgeous shade of grey sky.

I’m so sorry! Family in other parts of the UK say the same - it’s definitely already autumn for them.

Magicpaintbrush · 06/08/2026 11:25

I'm on holiday in Northumberland where the temperature has been between 17-21 degrees most of the week - going back to Kent in a few days and it's going to be 31 degrees and similar for the rest of the week. Truly sick of the heat. Watering the whole garden with a can during the hisepipe ban is a nightmare. Worrying about pets in the heat. Would like to go for walks but it's too bloody hot. Household tasks are just horrendous - cleaning and ironing in 30+ degrees, horrific. If I move house in the future then summer heatwaves and likelihood of hosepipe bans will be at the top of my list in terms of location. Roll on Autumn.

RampantIvy · 06/08/2026 10:33

It's feeling very autumnal here today - currently 14 degrees.

Fitsunshine · 06/08/2026 10:23

Crushed23 · 06/08/2026 08:35

18 degrees in August is depressing, isn’t it. We’re back in London and that was the temperature last night as we left the theatre. We wanted to mooch around after, but it was no fun walking when it was that cold and windy so we headed back. I’m on my way to the gym this morning and it’s freezing - literally wearing a hoodie. A hoodie in August 😩 I’ve had to change our dinner reservation for tonight to an indoor table. I’ve got no interest in freezing my arse off while socialising. We’ve accepted that we have to put our months of al-fresco dining on hiatus for a few days while we’re here. It’s just all so disappointing - especially knowing that it’s been warmer than this for weeks before our trip.

Try 12 degrees with a feels like 9 degrees in August … now that’s miserable 😢 Mind you, we might get a high of 15. And a gorgeous shade of grey sky.

Netcurtainnelly · 06/08/2026 10:19

Spring and Summer forever.♥️♥️

dogsmaid · 06/08/2026 09:50

@AmiacoolorwarmcolourI don’t love the rain but we desperately need it here. I don’t remember actually having that much last yr. I do hate icy pavements & roads but we are lucky to not get too much of that normally.

IsawwhatIsaw · 06/08/2026 09:31

I don’t like summer anyway, but feels like it’s been summer since May. Pretty relentless heat and now serious drought.
ca t wait for autumn, but not sure if we’ll actually get one.

dogsmaid · 06/08/2026 09:18

I was so excited to feel a bit cold last night & Im
happy that today is actually only 23 😆

It’s hotting up again from Saturday here but we are visiting family in another part of the country which is cooler, can’t wait!

Crushed23 · 06/08/2026 08:35

ilovesooty · 05/08/2026 00:29

Same here. It's only forecast 18 here tomorrow. Depressing.

18 degrees in August is depressing, isn’t it. We’re back in London and that was the temperature last night as we left the theatre. We wanted to mooch around after, but it was no fun walking when it was that cold and windy so we headed back. I’m on my way to the gym this morning and it’s freezing - literally wearing a hoodie. A hoodie in August 😩 I’ve had to change our dinner reservation for tonight to an indoor table. I’ve got no interest in freezing my arse off while socialising. We’ve accepted that we have to put our months of al-fresco dining on hiatus for a few days while we’re here. It’s just all so disappointing - especially knowing that it’s been warmer than this for weeks before our trip.

Katemax82 · 06/08/2026 08:04

The only thing that takes the glow out of autumn is that I used to live in a large house with a log burner on the edge of a forest, now I live in a bungalow with a damp problem (still a nice area though)

Katemax82 · 06/08/2026 08:01

I've already been eyeing up autumn bunting to stick around my front room, and mood lights. Also some nice new jumpers

Amiacoolorwarmcolour · 06/08/2026 07:59

I am not looking forward to having to go everywhere in the pouring rain and wind. It’s awful having to walk in wet, windy, weather. Add to that icy pavements and it’s hell. Having to drag out a hat, scarf, big coat and gloves, plus suitable footwear with a 10 inch flaming grip on the soles is depressing. Not to mention the treacherous driving conditions. I nearly broke my neck one early winter day just stepping out of my front door and on to the pavement, it was covered in black ice. How on earth can anyone prefer that to a hot day?
It’s all fine and dandy if you don’t have to commute to work but not if you are forced to go outside.

Amiacoolorwarmcolour · 06/08/2026 07:53

ilovesooty · 05/08/2026 00:29

Same here. It's only forecast 18 here tomorrow. Depressing.

Completely agree.

ilovesooty · 05/08/2026 00:29

oviraptor21 · 02/08/2026 16:48

No. Just no. We're having the best summer in years and I don't want it to end.

Same here. It's only forecast 18 here tomorrow. Depressing.

dogsmaid · 04/08/2026 23:35

Crushed23 · 04/08/2026 16:51

I’ve got a late dinner on Thursday in London and I will certainly be taking a jacket. I really need it to be at least 23-24 degrees at night for me for feel comfortable walking around in summer clothes without a light jacket, and it almost never is in London. It always seems to be cool in the morning and late at night (to me). Take today. A hot day but drops down to 20 degrees at midnight, and will be even cooler tomorrow morning.

Where I live is another story - I sleep with the AC on every night in summer. So actual unrelenting heat!

And? 🙄

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