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To just want it to be autumn now?

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cravingcrispmornings · 02/08/2026 15:03

I hate the depths of winter (January and February) with a passion, but my god I am craving those lovely September days where it’s not so hot you feel sweaty by 8am, and you're able to walk around without feeling disgusting.

I want soups and stews and pies back on the menu instead of pasta and salads, I want a piping hot bowl of leek and potato soup with a crusty bit of bread, a steak and ale pie with a helping of buttery mash, a roast dinner.

I’m sick of wearing dresses and sandals, I have a Birkenstock tan line ffs. I want to get into bed and feel cosy, not just have a sheet over the top of me. I’m craving a cosy autumn afternoon, a nice walk through orange woods and coming back to a lovely bowl of stew with a helping of crusty bread, tucked under a blanket reading a book.

I’m just bloody sick of summer!

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CoffeeCantata · 13/08/2026 16:30

I just want to stand in the rain.

I notice with rage that the rain promised for Monday down here in the SE has now literally evaporated. It's actually terrifying, I think. I've seen so many dead and dying trees and this is getting serious.

Throwmoneyatit · 13/08/2026 16:01

This thread is one of those ones... 🤣

Love spring, summer and autumn. But this summer can cool down whenever for me! I get up early to do my horses, I'm sweating before I'm even back home. Using a hairdryer is awful. My car is like an oven when I first get in it. I'm sweating at work. Sat in traffic is appalling. Then come home to do my jobs and the heat is relentless.

We're not equipped in this country to deal with these temperatures. We have central heating systems as we're used to being cold. Not a/c systems. It's nice on holiday to jump in the pool and have a lie down in an air conditioned room. I wake up to a fan blowing warm air about 😁

My fields are like concrete and they're yellow/brown not green. I've not travelled my horses in weeks, scrap that, I've barely ridden my horses in weeks. My house is a tip. Also, my hair is extremely hard to handle.

I'm done with it! Give me a nice 20 degrees. Although I will be moaning in January when my fields are either frozen or waterlogged and I'm fed up of layers 😂

dogsmaid · 13/08/2026 15:07

I’ve been in another part of the country so not in London and the highest temp we have had has been 26. It’s bliss! 😆

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 14:50

Anyway I’m off to enjoy the sun with a friend now so put your phone down & put your jacket on & enjoy your holiday @Crushed23

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 14:50

Anyway I’m off to enjoy the sun with a friend now so put your phone down & put your jacket on & enjoy your holiday @Crushed23

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 14:46

I have zero issue with personal preference, I simply took umbrage with the bits you made up!

Crushed23 · 07/08/2026 14:30

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 14:23

How do you still not get it?

London in hot weather (my definition of hot weather where I don’t need a jacket at 8pm

Nobody cares about your made up definition, that’s the point 😆😆

Well I care 😂

This whole debate is all about personal preference! Some people want autumnal weather and the cosy feeling of sleeping under a blanket (as evidenced by this thread), others like me love hot weather where I can wear a summer dress all day and have dinner outside without feeling cold.

And don’t get me started on how I keep missing the hot weather. 3 separate trips and disappointing weather each time (again, in my opinion). I’ve told DH we’ll be booking last minute next year instead of months ahead.

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 14:23

Crushed23 · 07/08/2026 14:16

I have been back and forth to London. Would you like me to detail my itinerary?

I’m really not sure what the issue is. I have been unlucky enough to miss the hot days in London and feel disappointed with that. Obviously I shouldn’t have got my hopes up, but I did. London in hot weather (my definition of hot weather where I don’t need a jacket at 8pm…) is absolutely glorious, I miss it.

How do you still not get it?

London in hot weather (my definition of hot weather where I don’t need a jacket at 8pm

Nobody cares about your made up definition, that’s the point 😆😆

Crushed23 · 07/08/2026 14:16

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 14:02

Get out of here with your facts!

So facts are important to you then @Crushed23?

I’m in London this week where it has been too cold to dine outside at night and I have to wear a jacket from about 8pm

Well upthread you said you were back & forth to London…but I’m not sure why the above means it’s only the odd day that has been 30 degrees & why you know better vs the Met office re heat waves. 🤔

I have been back and forth to London. Would you like me to detail my itinerary?

I’m really not sure what the issue is. I have been unlucky enough to miss the hot days in London and feel disappointed with that. Obviously I shouldn’t have got my hopes up, but I did. London in hot weather (my definition of hot weather where I don’t need a jacket at 8pm…) is absolutely glorious, I miss it.

RampantIvy · 07/08/2026 14:11

Crazyladee · 07/08/2026 13:39

I am in the NW of England and apart from a couple of weeks in June, we have had temps of 18 degrees here, grey and drizzly so I absolutely dont want it to be Autumn as Im waiting for summer to start up again!

Mumsnet is somewhat Londoncentric.

There is no denying that we have had a lot more hot weather in Yorkshire than normal this year though - only three heatwaves instead of five. It has been extremely dry, and the grass everywhere is like straw.

I'm sorry you are missing out though. DD lives in Liverpool and during the extremely hot weather it has been hotter there than where we are.

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 14:02

Get out of here with your facts!

So facts are important to you then @Crushed23?

I’m in London this week where it has been too cold to dine outside at night and I have to wear a jacket from about 8pm

Well upthread you said you were back & forth to London…but I’m not sure why the above means it’s only the odd day that has been 30 degrees & why you know better vs the Met office re heat waves. 🤔

Crazyladee · 07/08/2026 13:39

I am in the NW of England and apart from a couple of weeks in June, we have had temps of 18 degrees here, grey and drizzly so I absolutely dont want it to be Autumn as Im waiting for summer to start up again!

Crushed23 · 07/08/2026 13:30

The hot weather has been sporadic. I’m in London this week where it has been too cold to dine outside at night and I have to wear a jacket from about 8pm.

If I could extend our trip so that we could catch some of the lovely warm weather coming next week, I WOULD.

Few things are better than London in hot weather for me.

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 13:18

the odd >30 degrees day here and there does not a heatwave make, in my books) and I’m disappointed, that’s all

”By mid-July 2026, the capital and wider UK had already recorded 24–25 days over 30°C. This completely surpassed the threshold metrics of 2025 and even matched the famously scorching summer of 1976”

”The Met Office confirmed that by early August, 2026 shattered the all-time UK record with 8 days climbing above 34°C”

”While 2022 featured the historic July peak reaching an all-time UK record of 40.3°C at Heathrow/St James's Park, the total cumulative count of individual days exceeding 29°C/30°C across the entire summer season was significantly lower than the persistent, repeated heatwaves seen in 2026”

Just the odd day then!

BIossomtoes · 07/08/2026 13:08

Crushed23 · 07/08/2026 12:41

Of course London has had hotter summers! I remember a few years ago it was 30 degrees for weeks on end. I was living in West Hampstead in a flat with a roof terrace and we were out on the terrace every evening. Beautiful summer. I just got my hopes up it would be a repeat of that this summer with all the talk of heatwaves (the odd >30 degrees day here and there does not a heatwave make, in my books) and I’m disappointed, that’s all. 😊

Surely you realised 2022 was a complete anomaly.

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 13:02

You’re just making things up now

And this poster is on their holidays, I suppose it’s true we all holiday differently! 😁

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 13:00

“By 15 July, 2026 has already recorded more days above 30°C than the whole of 1976. It also became the first year on record to reach 35°C in May, June and July, while overnight temperatures have been running at record levels for this stage of the summer”

“Spring 2026 was the warmest on record for England and Wales and the UK's third warmest overall. June, the first month of meteorological summer, followed suit, becoming England's warmest June on record”

“England and Wales have provisionally, recorded their driest July on record, with Southern England seeing its driest month ever recorded, in a series dating back to 1836.”

”Wales recorded its joint warmest July on record for mean temperature, with the UK and England their second, and Southern England recording its warmest July on record”

”The month was also exceptionally sunny, with the UK, England and Wales recording their sunniest Julys on record, and England and Wales experiencing their sunniest calendar month ever observed”

All from the Met Office, again this is not a typical London summer….

witheringrowan · 07/08/2026 12:56

Crushed23 · 07/08/2026 12:41

Of course London has had hotter summers! I remember a few years ago it was 30 degrees for weeks on end. I was living in West Hampstead in a flat with a roof terrace and we were out on the terrace every evening. Beautiful summer. I just got my hopes up it would be a repeat of that this summer with all the talk of heatwaves (the odd >30 degrees day here and there does not a heatwave make, in my books) and I’m disappointed, that’s all. 😊

You're just making things up now.
So far in 2026, London has experienced significantly above-average temperatures. July was a record breaking month, with a mean temperature of across the whole month, day and night, of 21.8°C - 3.3°C above normal. The average high in July was 28.3°C.
Minimum overnight temperature records for May & June have been broken, showing its not cooling down as much as it usually does.
We have had 5 officially defined by the Met Office heatwaves so far this year, with another forecast for next week from Sunday to Thursday.
There has been no measurable rainfall in my part of SW London since the 2nd week in June.
Across the UK has a whole, there have been 34 days where a weather station has registered a temperature of over 30 degrees. That matches the 1995 record, and will be easily exceeded over the next week.

We have never had a summer where the heat has been as unremitting as this one.

Crushed23 · 07/08/2026 12:41

Of course London has had hotter summers! I remember a few years ago it was 30 degrees for weeks on end. I was living in West Hampstead in a flat with a roof terrace and we were out on the terrace every evening. Beautiful summer. I just got my hopes up it would be a repeat of that this summer with all the talk of heatwaves (the odd >30 degrees day here and there does not a heatwave make, in my books) and I’m disappointed, that’s all. 😊

Fitsunshine · 07/08/2026 12:19

RampantIvy · 07/08/2026 09:35

There does seem to be quite a north/south divide. I'm in South Yorkshire and I wore a cardigan and socks yesterday for the first time in ages.

Definitely a huge divide to the north of the uk especially!

Today for me in NE Scotland:
17 degrees feels like 12
High 18 low 10 😢
In my kitchen 17 - hanging on as long as possible to buy oil and put the heating back on it’s so fucking expensive
This morning dog walking - t shirt, cashmere jumper, winter lightweight waterproof, warm track bottoms.
Sky grey, drizzle due.
And yes I’m grumpy when I should be relieved not to have the ridiculously hot and dry conditions of many.

BIossomtoes · 07/08/2026 12:04

You’re tenacious, I’ll give you that!

Crushed23 · 07/08/2026 12:02

BIossomtoes · 07/08/2026 11:48

Most locals would be unlikely to be dining out at 11pm on a Thursday night.

I mean we were there 9pm-11:30pm. Not one person sat outside but the restaurant was heaving inside. Not anywhere particularly touristy and everyone around us was speaking English in English accents.

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 11:49

BIossomtoes · 07/08/2026 11:48

Most locals would be unlikely to be dining out at 11pm on a Thursday night.

And there is this!

dogsmaid · 07/08/2026 11:48

Last night was far too cold to be sitting outside a restaurant at 11pm - there was no one on those tables!

Im sure it was but so what?

Also I’m pretty much a local, having lived here my whole life up until a couple of years ago. I just prefer warmer weather

So you are aware then that this isn’t a typical London summer?

BIossomtoes · 07/08/2026 11:48

Crushed23 · 07/08/2026 11:40

Last night was far too cold to be sitting outside a restaurant at 11pm - there was no one on those tables! And we weren’t anywhere particularly touristy so the locals as much as the visitors thought it wasn’t warm enough. Also I’m pretty much a local, having lived here my whole life up until a couple of years ago. I just prefer warmer weather. Where we were just before the London leg of our Euro trip, it was 24 degrees at midnight - absolutely lush. 💜

Most locals would be unlikely to be dining out at 11pm on a Thursday night.