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AIBU to be deeply concerned about the recent influx of 30k+ undocumented arrivals in Spain?

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ChirpyUmberBiscuit · 31/07/2026 13:17

AIBU to feel really unsettled by the recent news coming out of Spain and Ceuta? Reports are showing that tens of thousands of undocumented migrants have crossed over in such a short window, completely overwhelming local infrastructure, reception centers, and security forces.

I know migration is always a sensitive and compassionate topic, but looking at these numbers practically, I don't see how any European border region can absorb 30,000 to 50,000 arrivals almost overnight without severe strain on public resources, local housing, and emergency services.

What worries me even more is the precedent it sets for the rest of Europe and the UK down the line. Surely there has to be a firm balance between humanitarian support and actual, enforceable border control?

Am I being completely unreasonable to view this as a serious policy and security crisis, or are others feeling equally concerned about where this leads?

Would love to hear honest thoughts on how this should actually be handled!

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likelysuspect · 02/08/2026 14:38

CoffeeCantata · 02/08/2026 11:54

That's interesting - that must be why some men claim not to know their age?

At a school I worked at we had a (very nice, polite) lad who we all had to pretend was 17. It was very, very obvious that we were dealing with a young man of almost 30.

Im not sure if you mean he pretended to be a child so he could join family here? Children who apply outside of the country to come to join family here are subject to huge scrutiny, they need proper documentation, they come via immigration and the Home Office, subject to various assessments so its not likely that someone saying they're the child of Mr and Mrs X aged 17 is really their grown up son aged 30

But some people come to the UK and arrive at ports via sea crossings and say they're 17 when they might be older, usually young people come into the care system with age disputed already by the Home Office and then age assessments have to be completed. They're not terriby reliable, easy to 'prove' and 'disprove'. Its not really easy to say 'he's not 17, he's 19'. Think about how many teens you could interview and say that about?

MaturingCheeseball · 02/08/2026 14:32

Although the Moroccan young men have largely gone home, the people who have travelled further from sub-Saharan Africa are staying put in Ceuta. The Moroccans can go home to bed, but others will only hang around in Morocco waiting for another opportunity.

It is such a difficult problem as each country pushes migrants on, wanting them through and out of their country asap. The end of the line and the ultimate goal is the UK and Northern Europe.

However compassionate you may be, surely you can see that there is simply no way to accommodate, finance or even vaguely assimilate as many people from African/ME countries as expect to come to Europe.

Properjob · 02/08/2026 14:29

Fredabasset · 02/08/2026 12:49

Try Tower Hamlets - Over one third of adults (35 per cent) in Tower Hamlets use a main language other than English. While the majority of this group are fluent in English, around one quarter said they could not speak English ‘well’ or
‘at all’ - a total of 18,311 residents. This is equivalent to 9 per cent of the borough’s adult population - the second highest proportion in England, after Newham.

Well its been like that since the 80s when I lived there but of course the Tories slashed all the low cost English courses that helped particularly the women to learn.

Flyingintotheunknown · 02/08/2026 14:04

ShautyMels · 02/08/2026 13:30

"white people did bad things centuries ago"

"White man bad"

"Diversity is our strength"

Imagine if all the British started hating on the French because of William The Conqueror and the battle of Hastings in 1066 🤣🤣🤣

ShautyMels · 02/08/2026 13:30

Batrat · 02/08/2026 13:19

It is amazing that people are still trying to deny the issues with uncontrolled immigration, it’s simply absurd at this point. I don’t get the motivation.

"white people did bad things centuries ago"

"White man bad"

"Diversity is our strength"

Batrat · 02/08/2026 13:19

It is amazing that people are still trying to deny the issues with uncontrolled immigration, it’s simply absurd at this point. I don’t get the motivation.

Flyingintotheunknown · 02/08/2026 12:59

ShautyMels · 02/08/2026 12:30

"it's easier to settle in England". I'm not going to risk drowning in the sea to escape France.

Yup it just shows how flawed the system is doesn’t it.

Pepperlee · 02/08/2026 12:52

greencatwitch · 02/08/2026 09:42

As I said I lived in East London for 30 years and this has not been my experience at all.

Good for you but that's not the case everywhere. Don't the NHS in London use interpreters? We do in Bradford and the police and solicitors use them too. And they don't come cheap.

Fredabasset · 02/08/2026 12:49

Jumpers4goalposts · 02/08/2026 06:48

What areas? That’s absolute clap trap. There are people who can’t speak English but not many areas.

Try Tower Hamlets - Over one third of adults (35 per cent) in Tower Hamlets use a main language other than English. While the majority of this group are fluent in English, around one quarter said they could not speak English ‘well’ or
‘at all’ - a total of 18,311 residents. This is equivalent to 9 per cent of the borough’s adult population - the second highest proportion in England, after Newham.

Fredabasset · 02/08/2026 12:42

Sereine · 02/08/2026 09:43

The French don't give refugees dinghies etc. HTH.

Well they certainly aren't slashing them or impounding them are they? {Despite what we (UK) are paying them.}

ShautyMels · 02/08/2026 12:30

Flyingintotheunknown · 02/08/2026 12:29

They have absolutely no reason to travel all the way through Europe and over to England passing many safe countries in the process. I honestly don’t give a shit about your reasons or excuses for it.

"it's easier to settle in England". I'm not going to risk drowning in the sea to escape France.

ShautyMels · 02/08/2026 12:30

bafta16 · 02/08/2026 12:23

I actually like Paris sometimes
Unbelievable.

I do. Only sometimes and some parts. It's a city with lots of history and culture. But obviously over the decades it's suffered some issues.

Flyingintotheunknown · 02/08/2026 12:29

bafta16 · 02/08/2026 12:21

Its complex. Many threads to this. English is becoming a world wide language, the colonial past, misinformation, relatives already established here, escaping hideous trauma/ poverty, trying to get out of a hell hole and yes trying to reinvent yourself.
I think young people are risk takers.

They have absolutely no reason to travel all the way through Europe and over to England passing many safe countries in the process. I honestly don’t give a shit about your reasons or excuses for it.

bafta16 · 02/08/2026 12:23

I actually like Paris sometimes
Unbelievable.

bafta16 · 02/08/2026 12:21

Flyingintotheunknown · 02/08/2026 11:41

Agreed. There has to be a reason. They have no reason to travel all the way through Europe to England just for things like avoiding conscription.

Its complex. Many threads to this. English is becoming a world wide language, the colonial past, misinformation, relatives already established here, escaping hideous trauma/ poverty, trying to get out of a hell hole and yes trying to reinvent yourself.
I think young people are risk takers.

Batrat · 02/08/2026 12:19

Sereine · 02/08/2026 09:38

How on earth are they gong to come to the UK from Africa? Most will go straight back to Morocco.

Unlawful immigration has reduced substantially under the current government, but I'm sure you don't want to let the facts get in the way of trying to whip up panic and resentment.

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What do you mean? It’s a short ferry ride to mainland Spain, it’s a shorter distance than the channel crossing. A train, bus or walk into France. Its quite simple if borders don’t work.

Unlawful immigration has not reduced substantially or otherwise under this government, it’s increased.

2023: 37,000 detected illegal arrivals.
2024: 43,000
2025: 46,497

But I’m sure you made an honest mistake and are not trying to shut down debate by imply anyone is racist and deliberately posting false information.

ShautyMels · 02/08/2026 12:10

Puzzledandpissedoff · 02/08/2026 12:07

At a school I worked at we had a (very nice, polite) lad who we all had to pretend was 17. It was very, very obvious that we were dealing with a young man of almost 30

I wonder if he'd have remained "nice and polite" if the pretence that everyone believed his age claim had been dropped, @CoffeeCantata? Confused

Probably aggressive turn to violence

Puzzledandpissedoff · 02/08/2026 12:07

At a school I worked at we had a (very nice, polite) lad who we all had to pretend was 17. It was very, very obvious that we were dealing with a young man of almost 30

I wonder if he'd have remained "nice and polite" if the pretence that everyone believed his age claim had been dropped, @CoffeeCantata? Confused

DoraSpenlow · 02/08/2026 12:02

likelysuspect · 02/08/2026 11:40

Yes to set up a base as such. There is often a lot of pressure on the one who comes first. Sometimes a lot of money has been paid to someone to facilitate the journey and theres even more pressure because that money has to be paid back. Many families are quite middle class so they have the money to do hat, bu many dont and are in a lot of debt and the person who comes here is then worried about pressure on the family back home to keep paying this money back.

However you can only join family in the UK if you are a child elsewhere in the world. You cant join family in the UK if you are an adult outside of the UK

https://www.thejc.com/news/uk/gazan-family-refugee-status-asylum-rejection-gwsq2c8b

Not for much longer once more people hear about this route.

Home Secretary Shabana Mahmood attends a meeting of criminal justice agencies following the Golders Green attack on April 30, 2026 (Getty Images)

Gazan family of 18 wins UK refugee status despite asylum rejection - The Jewish Chronicle

The shadow home secretary has warned that immigrants are ‘exploiting human rights laws’ to come to Britain

https://www.thejc.com/news/uk/gazan-family-refugee-status-asylum-rejection-gwsq2c8b

ShautyMels · 02/08/2026 11:55

Flyingintotheunknown · 02/08/2026 11:41

Agreed. There has to be a reason. They have no reason to travel all the way through Europe to England just for things like avoiding conscription.

There will be some who say "oh they know English. They have friends and family here"

If I was someone "stuck" in France I'd not risk death to go to England. I'd try and learn some french and make a start in french society. I actually like Paris sometimes.

CoffeeCantata · 02/08/2026 11:54

likelysuspect · 02/08/2026 11:40

Yes to set up a base as such. There is often a lot of pressure on the one who comes first. Sometimes a lot of money has been paid to someone to facilitate the journey and theres even more pressure because that money has to be paid back. Many families are quite middle class so they have the money to do hat, bu many dont and are in a lot of debt and the person who comes here is then worried about pressure on the family back home to keep paying this money back.

However you can only join family in the UK if you are a child elsewhere in the world. You cant join family in the UK if you are an adult outside of the UK

That's interesting - that must be why some men claim not to know their age?

At a school I worked at we had a (very nice, polite) lad who we all had to pretend was 17. It was very, very obvious that we were dealing with a young man of almost 30.

YourCoralCritic · 02/08/2026 11:51

Summerhillsquare · 31/07/2026 13:30

theres already a thread on this tiresome hysteria.

How sad you don't mind beheadings & people defecating on streets & parks!

Flyingintotheunknown · 02/08/2026 11:41

ShautyMels · 02/08/2026 11:29

Because we provide so many benefits for them.

Agreed. There has to be a reason. They have no reason to travel all the way through Europe to England just for things like avoiding conscription.

likelysuspect · 02/08/2026 11:40

bafta16 · 02/08/2026 11:36

Quite a few males, genuinely believe they are going ahead to provide for relatives. They think they will get a job, a flat and be reunited.

Yes to set up a base as such. There is often a lot of pressure on the one who comes first. Sometimes a lot of money has been paid to someone to facilitate the journey and theres even more pressure because that money has to be paid back. Many families are quite middle class so they have the money to do hat, bu many dont and are in a lot of debt and the person who comes here is then worried about pressure on the family back home to keep paying this money back.

However you can only join family in the UK if you are a child elsewhere in the world. You cant join family in the UK if you are an adult outside of the UK

bafta16 · 02/08/2026 11:36

likelysuspect · 02/08/2026 10:34

Well in terms of very young men, so late teens its to avoid conscription to the various regimes of their home countries. We see a lot of that

There are a lot of blood fueds and violent family histories that families decide the male offspring should get away from, they're at higher risk of the violence from this

Males are generally seen as needing to protect the rest of the family, get out there and make a life for themselves, perhaps its too late for the parents, the girls and mothers are seen as needing to remain where they are, they are usually in other places of safety but not progressing a life (perhaps not seen to need to progress their lives).

Women are seen as caregivers rather than go getters. So the males are the ones who need to break away

Quite a few males, genuinely believe they are going ahead to provide for relatives. They think they will get a job, a flat and be reunited.