Active discussions

Please or to access all these features

Talk
AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Original poster

Overnight flushing

127 replies

ThatCheeseNeedsEating · 31/07/2026 00:48

Maybe my titles a bit deceiving! I'm talking toilet flushing here!
Dh and I disagree about this. He doesn't like anyone flushing the toilet overnight as says it wakes everyone up. He says it's normal for people not to flush overnight.
I think it's disgusting. I don't want to be weeing on another person's pee!
So am I being unreasonable here?

OP posts:
GotANewFrockTooFuckingFat · 04/08/2026 16:04

lazyarse123 · 03/08/2026 17:57

Do all you non flushesrs use toilet paper ? Does it stack up and block your loos?
We always flush.

Of course I use toilet paper 🤔

I go for one wee per night. I use two or three squares for this wee.
DH goes for one or two wees. He uses one square per wee.

So that's a maximum of five squares of toilet paper that'll have stacked up overnight. Definitely not enough to block the toilet.

XenoBitch · 04/08/2026 16:10

Both me and DM are light sleepers, and DM gets up early for work. So if I stay at hers, I don't flush in the night.
I am also a "yellow, let it mellow" person anyway as I am on a water meter.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page