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AIBU to take boots to Scotland for a rainy weekend?

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LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 13:54

WIBU to take boots for the weekend? I’m going to Scotland and it is rain/19 degrees. I want to look nice but think it might be too cold for the sandals I’ve been wearing at home in the south.

Not unreasonable — yes take boots, everyone is wearing them up north in perpetual winter.

Unreasonable — don’t be weird, just wear your sandals.

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bananaapplepears · 02/07/2026 15:08

LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 14:42

Amazing name @BauhausOfEliott

I’m thinking a tshirt dress type thing with removable leggings and trainers; and jumper in bag. And little raincoat in bag too. Maybe boots/sandals as backup shoes?

Where are you meeting them? At their home or out somewhere? A t shirt dress and leggings isn't very stylish.

chirrupybird · 02/07/2026 15:11

At least sturdy shoes if you are intending to go walking, if you are in a city the same as any city really and it doesn't always rain in Scotland

AgnesX · 02/07/2026 15:13

19C is positively balmy in Scotland 😁. It seems a bit overkill given those temps but you do you. There are so many different styles noone will pay any attention and if you're comfortable that's the main thing.

Throwmoneyatit · 02/07/2026 15:16

LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 14:30

No, it is a city break in Edinburgh

Loads of walking in Edinburgh. Wear the comfiest things you have

Ihaveausername · 02/07/2026 15:20

Just outside Edinburgh here. Shorts and strappy tops, bare feet and flip flops have been my staple for weeks

Ultravox · 02/07/2026 15:27

Boots will be overkill in Edinburgh tomorrow- I’d take the sandals (if they’ll cope with cobbles?) but smart comfy trainers would be my go to for this type of thing. Yes to layers. Don’t think you’ll need a raincoat though. Hope it goes well!

Iggi999 · 02/07/2026 15:38

OP might just be sitting in a bungalow somewhere، we don't know she'll be ok cobbles etc. I wouldn't suggest removing your leggings in front of the parents 😃

Silverbirchleaf · 02/07/2026 15:40

I’d wear trainers. Good luck in meeting your in-laws.

hahabahbag · 02/07/2026 15:41

Have at least one pair of boot or trainers you can walk on grass etc in case you go for a walk, it’s not a big city, there’s open moorlands right there, better to be prepared

BashfulClam · 02/07/2026 15:41

Haven’t worn boots since February.Decent shoes will do.

owlpassport · 02/07/2026 15:47

bananaapplepears · 02/07/2026 15:08

Where are you meeting them? At their home or out somewhere? A t shirt dress and leggings isn't very stylish.

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I would agree. I'd go for wide-leg/barrel trousers or jeans with trainers.

TabbyM · 02/07/2026 15:48

Depends on where you are and how much walking - yes on narrow path with long grass - keeps the ticks away as well - walking in towns / well used paths trainers are normal here just now

NotReallySure · 02/07/2026 15:52

Sunny and 19 degrees in Central Scotland. I'm wearing sandals tonight and short sleeves. Depends where you are going x

TheScottishPlay · 02/07/2026 16:07

Definitely trainers rather than boots. I'm slightly north of Edinburgh and though windy, it's warm or 'close'.

PurpleThistle7 · 02/07/2026 16:10

I live in edinburgh. You see literally everything on the streets - Scottish people in sandals, tourists in winter gear… there are no rules and nothing will look out of place.

CoffeeBeansGalore · 02/07/2026 16:13

Although it's July we can still have four seasons in one day. We know it's summer because the rain is warmer.
As you are staying in a city you should get away with shoes, no wellies. But check the local weather forecast.

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LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 18:14

bananaapplepears · 02/07/2026 15:08

Where are you meeting them? At their home or out somewhere? A t shirt dress and leggings isn't very stylish.

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Hehe— I loathe barrel trousers! They’re so unfeminine they make me feel a bit queasy.

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MJagain · 02/07/2026 18:24

CruCru · 02/07/2026 14:00

I am someone who hosts visitors a lot. Please bring the boots, having guests who don’t bring what they are likely to need is a nuisance. There’s nothing like someone who wants to go on a muddy walk but her only shoes are designer suede.

This is my SIL. Wears ballet flats everywhere. Very annoying when in the lakes for a weekend.

bananaapplepears · 02/07/2026 18:43

LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 18:14

Hehe— I loathe barrel trousers! They’re so unfeminine they make me feel a bit queasy.

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I didn't mention barrel trousers. I do think you should wear something nicer than a dress and leggings though.

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LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 18:50

bananaapplepears · 02/07/2026 18:43

I didn't mention barrel trousers. I do think you should wear something nicer than a dress and leggings though.

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Can you give some ideas? I’m bad at this stuff.

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LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 18:51

How about a skirt (bare legs) and a nice top. I have some fitted waist casual knee length pocket skirts and some nice comptoir de cottonier t shirts? With nice sandals. And a jumper in bag?

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LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 18:53

Or I’ve got nice jeans and a pretty, short jumper. That might be nice and is quite trendy. I’m in good shape and otherwise quite well kept etc — I just am (like my partner) a bit boho

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ErrolTheDragon · 02/07/2026 19:01

I’d take sandals and a dress or skirt but also some sort of trousers and trainers (well… actually goretex walking shoes).

Im very slightly reminded of a poem - the details are dated but the packing dilemmas persist!Grin
https://www.bookcrossing.com/forum/5/266125/3881822?__cf_chl_f_tk=j9.5ufADqZseUpUwobNxNwEcjGD_J3VNVwGgLcVEEqY-1783015240-1.0.1.1-CryL_FmAf_5czmPauYRjU4nch5sKqz0kEdzFgXeFQ40

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LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 19:04

Oh that’s brilliant! Thanks

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Divebar2021 · 02/07/2026 19:11

LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 18:14

Hehe— I loathe barrel trousers! They’re so unfeminine they make me feel a bit queasy.

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Unfeminine? Give over.