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AIBU to take boots to Scotland for a rainy weekend?

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LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 13:54

WIBU to take boots for the weekend? I’m going to Scotland and it is rain/19 degrees. I want to look nice but think it might be too cold for the sandals I’ve been wearing at home in the south.

Not unreasonable — yes take boots, everyone is wearing them up north in perpetual winter.

Unreasonable — don’t be weird, just wear your sandals.

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LeedsLoiner · 03/07/2026 12:44

LavenderSkiesxo · 03/07/2026 10:31

Are u in Scotland????

Last week, it was v.warm but raining. I wore my welly boots! Because why the fuck would I wear non waterproof shoes in the rain???
But thanks for speaking on behalf of everyone in Scottish cities. Its amazing you can read everyone's minds. I wonder when the avengers will call you to join them?

If it wisnae for yer wellies, where would ye be?
You'd be in the hospital or infirmary
'Cause you would have a dose o' the flu or even pleurisy
If ye didnae have yer feet in yer wellies...

Noce · 03/07/2026 12:02

LavenderSkiesxo · 03/07/2026 10:31

Are u in Scotland????

Last week, it was v.warm but raining. I wore my welly boots! Because why the fuck would I wear non waterproof shoes in the rain???
But thanks for speaking on behalf of everyone in Scottish cities. Its amazing you can read everyone's minds. I wonder when the avengers will call you to join them?

Yes, I’m in Scotland. Wearing wellies in the weather forecast while wandering about Edinburgh is just bloody silly

Lins77 · 03/07/2026 10:34

I'm in NE Scotland and I haven't worn boots in months... sandals or trainers.

LavenderSkiesxo · 03/07/2026 10:31

Noce · 02/07/2026 19:22

Trainers or loafers.
no one is wearing boots in Scottish cities in this weather

Are u in Scotland????

Last week, it was v.warm but raining. I wore my welly boots! Because why the fuck would I wear non waterproof shoes in the rain???
But thanks for speaking on behalf of everyone in Scottish cities. Its amazing you can read everyone's minds. I wonder when the avengers will call you to join them?

LavenderSkiesxo · 03/07/2026 10:28

If this is the sort of shit you're pandering then you clearly have a lot of time on your hands. What would happen if everyone said you are being unreasonable? Would you leave the boots at home and walk in the rain with sandals. No! You wouldn't! So why even bother asking??

CruCru · 03/07/2026 10:23

Beamsss · 02/07/2026 14:44

I'm not sure the OP means nice practical walking boots, but yes OP you should take your smart boots and if you're not staying in town, something useful too.

Yes, she mentioned it was a city break after I posted.

HavingABlether · 02/07/2026 19:27

Scottish here. DD was in a sunhat, coat, and woolly hat within an hour. You are wise to bring boots.

Noce · 02/07/2026 19:22

Trainers or loafers.
no one is wearing boots in Scottish cities in this weather

StripyHorse · 02/07/2026 19:21

I know men can be a bit clueless when it comes to things like this, but your boyfriend might be able to give you an idea of how smartly (or otherwise) they dress? Maybe he has some pictures of them?

I am currently wearing dress and leggings for example, so I certainly wouldn't judge you for wearing the same. If your BF DM is a Hyacinth Bucket (💐) type you might have a different reaction.

If you are driving, I would just overpack- if you are going on the train though, trainers might work better as a middle ground as they would be suitable in slightly chilly weather but not too horrendous if we get another warm spell.

ErrolTheDragon · 02/07/2026 19:20

Divebar2021 · 02/07/2026 19:11

Unfeminine? Give over.

You wouldn’t catch many men wearing them so presumably they’re ‘feminine’ … just deeply unflattering on many women.Grin

But everyone’s got some type of jeans or trousers that suit them including the OP.

GisGasGus · 02/07/2026 19:16

LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 18:53

Or I’ve got nice jeans and a pretty, short jumper. That might be nice and is quite trendy. I’m in good shape and otherwise quite well kept etc — I just am (like my partner) a bit boho

This thread is hilarious, what exactly makes you think that Edinburgh is some kind of alternate reality where people don't wear the sort of clothes that are worn in ever other place in the world?

Are the in laws somenkind of luggage inspectors, why would they or anyone else care what you pack for a city break

My mind is boggled by the insane amount of overthinking 😂

Divebar2021 · 02/07/2026 19:11

LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 18:14

Hehe— I loathe barrel trousers! They’re so unfeminine they make me feel a bit queasy.

Unfeminine? Give over.

LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 19:04

Oh that’s brilliant! Thanks

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ErrolTheDragon · 02/07/2026 19:01

I’d take sandals and a dress or skirt but also some sort of trousers and trainers (well… actually goretex walking shoes).

Im very slightly reminded of a poem - the details are dated but the packing dilemmas persist!Grin
https://www.bookcrossing.com/forum/5/266125/3881822?__cf_chl_f_tk=j9.5ufADqZseUpUwobNxNwEcjGD_J3VNVwGgLcVEEqY-1783015240-1.0.1.1-CryL_FmAf_5czmPauYRjU4nch5sKqz0kEdzFgXeFQ40

LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 18:53

Or I’ve got nice jeans and a pretty, short jumper. That might be nice and is quite trendy. I’m in good shape and otherwise quite well kept etc — I just am (like my partner) a bit boho

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LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 18:51

How about a skirt (bare legs) and a nice top. I have some fitted waist casual knee length pocket skirts and some nice comptoir de cottonier t shirts? With nice sandals. And a jumper in bag?

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LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 18:50

bananaapplepears · 02/07/2026 18:43

I didn't mention barrel trousers. I do think you should wear something nicer than a dress and leggings though.

Can you give some ideas? I’m bad at this stuff.

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bananaapplepears · 02/07/2026 18:43

LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 18:14

Hehe— I loathe barrel trousers! They’re so unfeminine they make me feel a bit queasy.

I didn't mention barrel trousers. I do think you should wear something nicer than a dress and leggings though.

MJagain · 02/07/2026 18:24

CruCru · 02/07/2026 14:00

I am someone who hosts visitors a lot. Please bring the boots, having guests who don’t bring what they are likely to need is a nuisance. There’s nothing like someone who wants to go on a muddy walk but her only shoes are designer suede.

This is my SIL. Wears ballet flats everywhere. Very annoying when in the lakes for a weekend.

LarkspurBlues · 02/07/2026 18:14

bananaapplepears · 02/07/2026 15:08

Where are you meeting them? At their home or out somewhere? A t shirt dress and leggings isn't very stylish.

Hehe— I loathe barrel trousers! They’re so unfeminine they make me feel a bit queasy.

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CoffeeBeansGalore · 02/07/2026 16:13

Although it's July we can still have four seasons in one day. We know it's summer because the rain is warmer.
As you are staying in a city you should get away with shoes, no wellies. But check the local weather forecast.

PurpleThistle7 · 02/07/2026 16:10

I live in edinburgh. You see literally everything on the streets - Scottish people in sandals, tourists in winter gear… there are no rules and nothing will look out of place.

TheScottishPlay · 02/07/2026 16:07

Definitely trainers rather than boots. I'm slightly north of Edinburgh and though windy, it's warm or 'close'.

NotReallySure · 02/07/2026 15:52

Sunny and 19 degrees in Central Scotland. I'm wearing sandals tonight and short sleeves. Depends where you are going x

TabbyM · 02/07/2026 15:48

Depends on where you are and how much walking - yes on narrow path with long grass - keeps the ticks away as well - walking in towns / well used paths trainers are normal here just now