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To just NOT GET THIS?!

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Monstersare · 27/11/2024 13:36

this is a local company and this is their ‘Black Friday’ advert. WTF is it on about?!!! I’d hate to think the worst of them as they do lots of local events but…

To just NOT GET THIS?!
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PinkPoospe · 27/11/2024 18:06

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Horses7 · 27/11/2024 18:08

Wow - didn’t believe it was a real ad but googled it and it seems it is!

AppleDumplings · 27/11/2024 18:17

I also googled it and it is a real advert on their website. I am also white. Aside from this I know I am privileged and personally, for me, it I did find this racist. As well as in extremely poor taste given the background. But rather than clutching my pearls on Mumsnet I emailed the company to tell them this (or words to that effect).

RuminationStation · 27/11/2024 18:26

Error404pagenotfound · 27/11/2024 17:30

Jesus Christ.

White privilege doesn't mean you don’t face struggles or hardship, it means that you don’t face them because of your skin colour!

A white working class boy in a tower block will still not face as much oppression as a black working class boy in a tower block!

Abso-fucking-lutely.

Monstersare · 27/11/2024 19:19

AppleDumplings · 27/11/2024 18:17

I also googled it and it is a real advert on their website. I am also white. Aside from this I know I am privileged and personally, for me, it I did find this racist. As well as in extremely poor taste given the background. But rather than clutching my pearls on Mumsnet I emailed the company to tell them this (or words to that effect).

I wonder if anyone else emailed the company but didn’t feel the need to let everyone else know that they had done this.

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AppleDumplings · 27/11/2024 19:38

@Monstersare you misunderstood my post. The point I was attempting to make is that you raised an incredibly valid post about something you had seen. And also then did something about it. You've had quite a few replies to your OP. If everyone on here who said how bad it is also said something to the company then perhaps things like this might not happen. It was most definitely not snippy at you.

Dizzywizz · 27/11/2024 20:51

Looks like it’s been taken off now

Gaz98 · 27/11/2024 20:59

Yes they’ve taken it off their website.

AppleDumplings · 27/11/2024 21:01

The guy emailed me back really quickly. He didn't give any inclination he was going to remove it and said humour is subjective, but you are right. It has been replaced.

Monstersare · 27/11/2024 21:36

AppleDumplings · 27/11/2024 19:38

@Monstersare you misunderstood my post. The point I was attempting to make is that you raised an incredibly valid post about something you had seen. And also then did something about it. You've had quite a few replies to your OP. If everyone on here who said how bad it is also said something to the company then perhaps things like this might not happen. It was most definitely not snippy at you.

You misunderstood my post. I didn’t think you were being snippy at me.

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RuminationStation · 27/11/2024 22:11

AppleDumplings · 27/11/2024 21:01

The guy emailed me back really quickly. He didn't give any inclination he was going to remove it and said humour is subjective, but you are right. It has been replaced.

I got a similar email. Denying it is racist because the men in the photo would have been paid. Something about humour being subjective. They did not get a polite response from me. Idiots!

Wrapt · 27/11/2024 22:13

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AppleDumplings · 27/11/2024 22:13

@RuminationStation did he send you a £5 voucher as an apology due being offended like he did to me?!!!

RuminationStation · 27/11/2024 22:14

AppleDumplings · 27/11/2024 22:13

@RuminationStation did he send you a £5 voucher as an apology due being offended like he did to me?!!!

No but I wouldn’t touch their wine with a barge pole. They are either stupid, racist or sexist, quite likely all three.

RuminationStation · 27/11/2024 22:26

Patronising ‘Were you shocked’ post up now, making out that it wasn’t racist and someone was just being over sensitive. I can just imagine the kind of man he is. Always ‘joking’ and expecting everyone to laugh along but then being mortally wounded when you don’t - because he’s not funny. The pubs are full of them.

Wrapt · 27/11/2024 22:32

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RuminationStation · 27/11/2024 22:35

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They are trying to make up for something lacking in themselves but have no insight.

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RuminationStation · 27/11/2024 22:41

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No idea but I’d bet good money on it being racist but in code of some kind. I’m not giving them any more headspace. Idiots.

user942557 · 28/11/2024 00:13

Sticking my neck out here but a white working class boy living in a tower block in East London can hardly be described as privileged

He's white. He's privilege. Research. It's not my job to educate you.

user942557 · 28/11/2024 00:16

Monstersare · 27/11/2024 17:06

Why do people keep posting and deleting quickly? I look like a mad woman talking to myself 😂

HQ are moderating so well and quickly but yeah weook like a solo act. 😁

user942557 · 28/11/2024 00:16

@Fgfgfg Do you have any examples?

user942557 · 28/11/2024 00:19

AppleDumplings · 27/11/2024 21:01

The guy emailed me back really quickly. He didn't give any inclination he was going to remove it and said humour is subjective, but you are right. It has been replaced.

Humour is subjective. 🙄
Racism is racism.
Disgusting company.

user942557 · 28/11/2024 00:20

AppleDumplings · 27/11/2024 22:13

@RuminationStation did he send you a £5 voucher as an apology due being offended like he did to me?!!!

Stop. Did he?

HateMyselfToo · 28/11/2024 00:33

Link to page with 'apology'

www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555966122497