Thinking it’s weird that his 18 year old will have the master room

Who is not an adult?

Don’t be surprised if plans change around your move in date

This would certainly raise questions for me and I guess by his reaction it has for your dp too

You have lost you mind. Couldnt you imagine for a second how that would go down with them? I've arrived now! Make way! You will have the whole house at your disposal. His DD has a room and a bathroom for her own. For goodness sake, think. If you want this to be anything but a disaster, check your entitlement.

I haven't read the whole thread but you are being completely unreasonable expecting his daughter, who lives there already, to give up her room. The next step, presumably, would be to get her to move out altogether.

Is this a fake/troll thread?

I wouldn’t be surprised as someone moving from a £250k house to a £2.5m one and complaining just doesn’t sound realistic to me. Every bedroom in that house is going to be decent, unless the property is in Mayfair where £2.5m would barely get you a garage.

When my son lived at home he had the master bedroom from about 16 years old ( we had just moved into the house so he was first one in the room ) when he left to get his own place my daughter had that room.

it was big as in huge, lovely bathroom room and enough room for a pair of 2 seater sofas, a fridge and sink unit (no oven but a microwave) and still plenty of floor space.

it meant he could have friends round and do his model making and whatever he wanted and we could watch tv in the main room,

I agree with your partner you only really sleep in your bedroom, to a teenager a bedroom is much more

I wouldn't be selling your house. Rent it out. This relationship isn't going to last. Youll be out on your ear trying to compete with his daughter (rightly so)

Oh my goodness. You sound like the typical evil stepmother. Do not turf his daughter out of her room

I'm sorry, but just no! Who goes in and takes over some teens bedroom? Are you guys married? If not then I'm afraid your just the GF and his daughter takes priority. That's it. If my dad had dated a woman for 4 years, then suddenly turfed her in, and she decided to become queen of the house by hijacking my bedroom/ sanctuary, then I would have been gutted and started WW3. Stay in your lane, you're just the gf, enjoy the new bedroom and leave her room alone.

Yes it is!
Only in the linked post I copied, she had already sold her home.

No normal person would reasonably sell a 250k property in London, to then move in with a partner. They would most likely rent it out to generate a passive income.

Even if it wasn't a 250k home in London. Why give up your home aka freedom to be at the mercy of somebody else, who can put you out their home at any time.

Woman. You are greedy.

My DC’s both have bigger rooms than I do, they spend a lot more time in them, I just sleep in mine. There is enough room for storage for my clothes

Whoa, don't sell YOUR property! Rent it out or let a relative move in but don't sell it! You may never be able to buy anywhere else again if this relationship falls through

It's to to you, but if I was you, I wouldn't sell your home. If you split up, you'll probably be unable to buy a new place, with the was property prices increase.

Even if you don't split up, it's good to have your own place for financial security.

Regarding her moving out of her room? No, YABU.
That's been her room for years and this won't go down well.

I cannot IMAGINE having my clothes in separate closets, either. Ridiculous

I'm sorry, what?

Thankfully your views are in the minority here. Since when does a girlfriend trump children (no matter how old they are)? I wouldn’t be wanting your views anywhere near my home.

His daughter having the Master bedroom is not your decision—moving in and evicting someone from their room is a poor way to start things. Sure, if everyone was moving in on the same day, you might have more sway, but the Master bedroom has been taken already. Your demands are unreasonable.

So is she a young woman or a girl? You call her both to try and suit whatever your narrative is.

Why is it not her home?

Whether she has lived there a couple of years or her whole life the house was clearly bought with her in mind.

She may also contribute financially.

Also, he isn't expecting his girlfriend of FOUR years to play second to an 18 year old. He's expecting his girlfriend not kick his daughter or EIGHTEEN years out of her bedroom because she has the better wardrobe.

Okay you’re being really stupid. Why are you selling your home? Are you going on his deeds or something? Keep your home and rent it out if you must.
Also, no, you can’t start throwing your weight around as regards bedrooms when you are moving into their home. He’s right with the office and she probably spends a fair bit of time in her room. Unless you want her to hate you, pipe down.

No, he's perfectly correct. You don't have a right to kick her out of her bedroom. It will cause tension all around. His solution is reasonable, although not ideal.

Seriously? The girlfriend moves in and the first thing she does is turf out the resident daughter from her room? It would be a recipe for disaster.

Do you want her to instantly despise you? You are being VVU

I think it’s actually sensible that the 18 year old uni student has a bigger room. It means she can have a bit more independence. Sounds like her room is big enough for her to hang out in, have friends etc.

it would actually give you ( as a couple) a bit more privacy/ alone time in the evenings.

She has her own more or less self-contained accommodation. He and you will have the rest of the house. It’s a perfectly sensible arrangement.
What is concerning is that you don’t recognise the importance to him of his daughter’s need for privacy, comfort and emotional security.