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Thinking it’s weird that his 18 year old will have the master room

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grizzleGrazzle · 28/10/2024 04:38

My DP and I have been together for 4 years, now my only child has moved out for good (24, bought a flat with his girlfriend up north). My DP and I have decided I will move in.
He has a gorgeous 4 bedroom house and currently his 18 year old has the master bedroom, she is at uni in the city so has no plans to move out but the room has a massive walk in wardrobe and large en-suite. The next bedroom is still large and has an en-suite but no walk in wardrobe.
Tonight I suggested that since I’m moving in we maybe switch the bedrooms around and he looked at me like I’d lost my mind. To me it doesn’t make sense for two adults to share a slightly smaller room with less storage space.
The other 2 bedrooms are currently a guest room and an office and he’s saying I can have storage in the office for more clothes.
AIBU to think it’s weird that his daughter will keep the master?

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Sheri99 · 31/10/2024 04:53

Completelyjo · 28/10/2024 17:37

@Sheri99 OP has had her kids: she doesn't need his to raise his spoilt daughter.

The daughter is spoilt because she happens to live in the room that OP wants, in a home that isn’t hers?

No the OP wants the bedroom for BOTH of them as a COUPLE. Was being a bit sarcastic as am tired of this silly thread.

Completelyjo · 31/10/2024 05:35

Sheri99 · 31/10/2024 04:53

No the OP wants the bedroom for BOTH of them as a COUPLE. Was being a bit sarcastic as am tired of this silly thread.

Except the dad doesn’t want it, so no it’s just the OP wanting it and trying to demand it off someone else which is the definition of spoilt.

eightIsNewNine · 31/10/2024 09:17

Sheri99 · 31/10/2024 04:53

No the OP wants the bedroom for BOTH of them as a COUPLE. Was being a bit sarcastic as am tired of this silly thread.

She just wants it, doesn't matter for who.
It seems as a kind of dominance fight

Tink3rbell30 · 31/10/2024 10:26

You can't try to take somebody's bedroom off them 😂

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 31/10/2024 12:17

I see @grizzleGrazzle hasn't been back to the thread.

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